Question Posted Thursday November 3 2005, 10:56 am
today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s
ANYWAY....I think you should wait for the weekend. Sneaking out if never good, because it's almost impossible that you're gonna get caught. Then you can't hang out at all for a while. Just wait. Good luck!
Krazibeachbabe65 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:13 pm: sneak out! cause you know you guys havent been going out that long and im sure your really into eachother its always fun i would sneak out me n my bf's 2 months is soon. i would sneak out
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daddydiva answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:07 pm: hey
you should tell your parents that this is really important to you and this will be the only time you will ask them this
sportychick22 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 7:50 pm: I think you should wait until the weekend. I know that your one month anniversary is really important to you, but I honestly don't think you should risk getting yourself in trouble. The consequences might be that you might not be able to see your boyfriend for a while. You wouldn't want that, would you? So yea, wait until the weekend. Hope I helped. Happy one month! [ sportychick22's advice column | Ask sportychick22 A Question ]
thinkpink03 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 4:14 pm: hmm thats really tough. if youre allowed to use the phone, IM, email, any of that just try to contact him. (send him a card greeting for email thats cute too). i just dont think you should sneak out unless you have everything planned out because you might just get into more trouble. if you contact him in any way, tell him that your anniversery surprise will be postponed in a cute way. on the day it comes just be really romantic and make it up to him. thats basically what i would do, but then again its toteli up to you!
Samigrl912 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 3:39 pm: If you want your parents full trust, don't sneak out! If your boyfriend and you DO really like each other, and think your relationship COULD grow, STAY HOME UNTIL THE WEEKEND..if your boyfriend likes you and understands you, he'll be OKAY with it!!
This is ONLY a strangers advice!! But this is what I would do in a time like this.
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Karen answered Thursday November 3 2005, 3:35 pm: You should wait until the weekend to hang out and celebrate your one month anniversary. If you do sneak out, chances are you'll probably get caught and you may not get the chance to hang out with him on the weekend. Explain the situation to your boyfriend and he should understand. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
fabulous11 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 2:40 pm: just explain to your boyfried that you really wanna spend time with him but your not allwoed to hang out durrin the week and make plans for the weekend...
MrsStevenMarkJones answered Thursday November 3 2005, 1:40 pm: first off, no man is worht disobeying your parents for. i would wait until saturday. call your man up. tell him "ya know i cant hang out tonight, but happy anniversary. how is saturday or sunday, we an celebrate it then?" trust me, getting grounded is not worth it for any man for any thing. if your living with your parents and (im guessing) still in school, your parents obviously have a reason. unless you talk to them and explain, its your one month anniversary and you two wanted t hang out. would it be ok? but don't sneak out. [ MrsStevenMarkJones's advice column | Ask MrsStevenMarkJones A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Thursday November 3 2005, 1:33 pm: I know how awful this feels. I wasn't allowed to see my boyfriend for our one month and I was 8 hours away from him for most of our other monthly anniversaries. I wanted to be with him so bad, but there was just no way. Even though it feels really awful, it's better to wait for the weekend then have your parents mad at you. That doesn't mean you can't make it special though! Trust me I have a lot of experience with this one. Don't get down in the dumps about not seeing him, because it will only be one day! Tonight you can talk to him on the phone or on instant messenger. Think about how happy you are to have been with him for a month. You can send him kisses and roses and e-cards and stuff. Having to wait for a day actually makes it even more exciting. It's true that your one month only comes once, but your one month and one day only comes once too. If you have fun with it and not let not being able to see him get to you, you will have an awesome 1 month anniversary. I don't know if you go to the same school as him, but if you do you'll have seen him there. I hope you have a good time celebrating your one month even if you don't celebrate today. Good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
NinaB answered Thursday November 3 2005, 1:25 pm: *Please do not take offense to this(many people on here would...)* But, it is only your one month anniversary. Its not worth sneaking out---now if it was your six month or year anniversary that would be understandable. Do something extra special this weekend instead. [ NinaB's advice column | Ask NinaB A Question ]
lulabelle answered Thursday November 3 2005, 1:05 pm: I would wait until the weekend to celebrate. It isn't worth the risk of getting caught and then your parents restrict your being able to see him. On the weekend you can plan the whole weekend as an anniversary celebration. This way you get 2 days dedicated to the beautiful moment of your meeting rather than a few hours at night with the risking of possibly getting caught. A lot of time adults will post pone their celebrations for a more opportune time. This is not an unusual practice. The important thing is that you commemorate the occasion of your meeting.
ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 12:50 pm: Well think about this right quick then make your decision.. Okay well lets say you do sneak out and then get caught there is a possiblity of not bein able to see him this weekend if your parents are like that.. so i`d wait til the weekend that way you know you`ll get to see him and plus hey you got the whole freakin weekend.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
xopinkbarbie answered Thursday November 3 2005, 12:34 pm: You should just wait for the weekend to come. If you sneak out- you have the chance of getting caught before you ever even see him & then you may get grounded and not be able to actually see him for a while. You can wait, girl. The weekend isn't that far away =]
Have fun with him though! ♥ [ xopinkbarbie's advice column | Ask xopinkbarbie A Question ]
Helper14 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 12:20 pm: I would wait for the weekend to get there.It's not worth getting in trouble and you would still get to see him.Plus,the weekend is always more fun!!! [ Helper14's advice column | Ask Helper14 A Question ]
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