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ok so i was really good friends with this guy...lets say his name is..."Dave" ok so me and dave were wicked close and then he asked me out and i said yes,it was ok for a while and then i didnt think it was rite so i said lets go back to being good friends. then he stopped talking to me. i keep asking him to talk to me and lets start being friends again but he says its hard and hes trying to be nice and stuff but is it him or what should i do so things can just...go back to normal? someone please help me thanks
well i guess he really likes you and wants to be more then friends. it prob. doesnt feel right being friends for him and it might take a long while to become friends again for a while i think you should leave him alone n then ttry to talk to him
Ok well I'm m/14/bi,my bestfriend got a girlfriend recently and shes all he talks about and well I like him a lot. Whenever he talks about her I get depressed and upset and sumtimes in a horrible mood. Well he doesn't know I like him should I tell him?
well it depends if it would freak him out. and if hes bi. but he seems pretty into his gf if she really likes him and finds out she might not let you guys hang out .. idk i guess you should tell him if he wouldnt get all weirded out on you. hope it works out =]
today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s
thanks for helping
kriddle06 :)
sneak out! cause you know you guys havent been going out that long and im sure your really into eachother its always fun i would sneak out me n my bf's 2 months is soon. i would sneak out
Right well we got a swimmin pool built in our school last month and when the girls are on their periods they aren't allowed to sit out but are forced to use tampons!!!!!! I haven't been on since it was built but oomg. I am so scared. I have never used a tampon and I'm never GONNA so don't suggest I do. Isn't it like illegal to force us to use tampons or somethin? My friend even got her rents in about it and they still made her use tampons!! What can I do on swimmin days that I am on? I'm not using a tampon but I'm not standin in the changing room arguing bout whether to use one or not with the PE teacher its embarassing!!
omg wow thats horrible.. i guess the only thing you can do it say your on your period and not swim or if you dont have it heavy they wont know i guess..
Ok, I like guy, guy likes me. I found out he liked me today from a friend of us both. He told her this exactly (at least from what I know) "I like (my name), but I am going to wait a while so I can make sure she is right." Omg, I like him so much, haha, anyways I was wondering when this would be...?
well you should start talking on the phone with him and hang out with him he just wants to get to know you better and see if you guys would be a good match. im happy for you! i hope it works out
im sorry its long but i really really need help!!
my boyfriend dated this girl jessica, i dont know how long they dated but they did date for at least a few months! this was at least a year ago because we have been dating for a lil over a year and it was before us. he was her first kiss and stuff. now out of the blue she is calling him and he told me that they always talk during jazz band (class) and my friend justin said they always go in this dark room to talk and sometimes this other kid goes in there with them but its usually just them. this girl told my boyfriend that she likes him and she thinks he likes her. he said that he just wants to be friends. (im going off of everything he told me). then for his bday a week ago, she made him cookies... he said he asked her to get him something for his bday and she had cookies left over so she gave them to him but there were a lot of cookies in there so idk. the girl is constantly at his locker and talking to him and HE sits by her at lunch ALONE TOGETHER and she calls him and they talk for hours at a time. everytime i come around she leaves. i dont know what the hell to do but its not going away. i tried talking to him and he said that he doesnt wanna feel like he cant be friends with her. how do i deal with this cuz im ready to just bitch her out and be really really mad at my boyfriend because hes going with it and allowing it to happen. thanks in advance! also jessica keeps saying to everyone how hot my boyfriend is and she wont stop talking about him and stuff. now were fighting and he just doesnt understand anything. i tried talking to him but it doesnt work. everyone else (including guys) understand but he doesnt. grrrrr
omg i would so hit her.. well thats me i get really jealous about boys you should try to talk to her and him. tell him how you feel i know sometimes that doesnt work so try to get him to look at it from your perspective lik what if i was talking to my ex boyfriend and basically pretending were going out what would you do? if he really cares about you he will listen and try to fix it. dont let him use that oh so i cant be friends with her? dont let him make you feel guilty your defenitly right in this situation and he is totally in the wrong. he shouldnt even make you question what hes doing. i hope it works out good =]
We have a school dance this week and i want to sneak my boyfriend in that goes to another school. But i dont know if he wants to go or if i will get into trouble. So should i try to sneak him in and risk going home or not even try?
Thanks
ohh i wanted to do that haha ask him if he wants to go and if he makes an effort to go try to get him in who cares if you get kicked out you'll be with your boyfriend ha hope it works out
can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives.
yeah.. just wen it gets lik around 7months i would stop thats what i heard.. my step mom just had a baby n i think thats what she did
theres this guy that i like alot and my friend likes him too.well he tells everyone that he likes us both.he flirts with us and everything but then we see him around campus and he is doing the same thing to everyone eles.he told my friend he never answers the phone but everytime i call he answers or hell call me all the time.does he like me or do you think he is doing this to like every girl??
well it depends if he is calling every girl does he call your friend alot? guys really like to flirt so he might like you if hes telling your friend that he doesnt answer the phone and he talks to you all the time it seems to me he likes you more then your friend
-lor
hi my name is kayla i have a b/f named chris adn i love very much but he gets on my nervs and i dont know what to say to him he has these two ex girlfriends he hangs out with all the time adn he tells me all the time that he misses courntey one of his ex and that he loves her all the time and every night and every time i talk to him i cry and i dont know why i love him so much but i dont know what to do please help me as soon as you can
i am 14 female
OMG that is horrible why would he tell you that he loves her and misses her? well hes stupid in the first place. He shouldnt be hanging around his ex girlfrnds if it make you uncomfortable, you should tell him that. does this one grl still like him? i kno how it feels to be caught up like that with a guy i was cheated on and stuff it sucks but you will get over it not now n i kno you love him which makes it worse. you need to have a serious conversation with and decide if you wana be with someone like that. thanks for asking me and i hope it all turns out for the best!!!
ok i used to be girlfriend with this boy but then i broke up with him and then he was doing nasty stuff to me so i told the principla on him and he got kicked out of school and now i wont be able to see him ever again and now i want to regret what i did!!!he called and said sorry it was nice meeting you and then when he hung up i was crying and im going to miss him alot!!im going to have a b-day party and im going to invite him but im scared he wont come and i will never be able to see him should i tell him that i like him and that i miss him very much?? or what???everday i keep on thinking about him even for the past 4 days ive been dreaming about him!!what should i do??
didnt u just ask this? well tell him ... lik i said before , thanks for asking me (again) i hope it all turns out good
Hey!im 14 female. well my ex had been going over the top with me so i got really mad i couldent even control him!!so finally one day i just told the principal and the principal was going to suspend him but the lady shes like SUSPEND HIM HE SHOULD GET KICKED OUT!!! so they kicked him out but now i miss him ALOT!!and im having a birthday party and i invited him and hes coming so should i tel him how i feel about him?because i think he still likes me too.but im scared that he dosnet and i will just make a fool out of myself what should i do?????
hey sorry it took a while to answer but like feelings left unsaid like are the worst. Even though u might look a little stupid for a while it will be worth it if he does like you. People need to be more open with there feelings, i know its hard but what have you got to loose? that person well you lost them already bc they dont like you ! so go for it! good luck and thanks for asking me
A boy I like does not like me but I cant help it. Im always thinking about him and it's really hard for me. I want him to like me so bad but he said I am to young. What should I do?
Age: 12
Gender: Female
hey i sooo understand how u feel. it matters how old he is because that might be really werid for him. But after u get like into highschool it wont be that werid at all. You might just have to get over him, which is like the hardest thing to do ever. i undcerstand how hard that is i just got over this kid i was soooo crazi about for lik this school yeat. hope it turns out for the best thanks for askin me ! - lOr
hello there its me again the 14 year old male i refer to gay cat if you could please answer my questions as that. Anyway my friends step father is on house probation for a year, my lover stimey old judge quoted"your lucky i let you off fairly easy, i could have made it hell for you sir". I can sleep a little better now knowing he won't go to jail, well besides the fact that i always seem to have these wet dreams as I dream of old stimey in court, i constantly have to change my sheets, i think last night i changed them 4 times. Well anyway now that the whole case is over with my friends step father, old stimey the judge has been calling me latley. He says we are just friends and he thinks i am a good kid so he enjoys chatting with me, but he and i both know he has arousing feelings for me. i jus want him to get his hammer he uses in that court room fantasy and smack my weener and break it into a thousnad peices. But my question i have for you, you kink master(no offence, it is just a nick name, that may fit you being that i had read your profile but no hard feelings(well i have some in my secret undiscoverd untammed areas but i'm sure your getting to aroused for me to bust anymore words like that)well my question is do you think stimey would ever fall for a gay cat like me? or is this all to good to be true? i need your help thank you kink master(dont foget refer to me as gay cat when you answer this and i promise i will refer to you as kink master) thank you much frolly(love) from gay cat
hEy gay cat!
well i think that the stimely old judge does have some feelings towards u. They might not be love feelings but sexual. You have the same but wont he get in trouble if he decides to do sumtin wit u ? lets hope if u do he wont get in trouble and yes i think he does have feelings for you! thanks for askin me!
-the kink master
ok lauren i mght seem a little dramatic but im not in real life.... my name is melanie and i go to a local school near my house i have great friends....this one friend her name is melissa i dont know what to do she just dosent understand me she expects my world to stop for her( at least thats what it feels like) but you know how you have really dramatic friends wel that describes her she takes everything to the next level....i dont kno how to express my feeling to her and its hard i dont want to hurt her in a way where we are not friends i just need someone to help me and i thought maybe you could help. please............
about to go crazy!!!!!
Well like when she starts to get a little out of hand then just be likes whats wrong try to talk to her more maybe all she needs is someone to talk to and someone who will be there for her. I have really dramatic friends to and they have like alot of personal problems and you cannot solve them but all you can do is be there for them and help them through it all . Like they say dunt judge people before you walk a mile in there shoes. Im not sayin your judegin her but try to see what its like from her point of view and just be her friend and see whats wrong. Hope this helped if it didnt try to be more specific! thanks for askin !
-lor
hi my name is kathy and im really confussed about this guy, see it seems like he likes me and i think he mite but im not sure, we talk on thefone n stuff but i think he has some possible"old feelings" for another girl, and i think hes confussed. should i jus keep on goin with the way things r n try not 2 worry about another girl or should i jus stop likin him so i dont end up getting hurt . i know its hard not to like someone wen you do but i'll try. thanks kathy
i had a boyfriend that was so confused about who he liked even when he was going out with me. And i ended up getting hurt because all he did was flirt with other girls and stuff but if you really like him hopefully he isnt like my x and will figure out what he wants, you gotta let him do that on his own. It is really hard to stop likeing someone i understand that im trying to do that now. Well i hope this helped thanks for askin me!
There's this guy that I'ved like for about a year or so now and he's told me that he's liked me to. We've hung out outside of school a lot and everything went great. I really love who I am when I'm with him. He's such an amazing person and I love spending time with him. The only problem is that lately he's been distancing himself from me because he's afraid to get hurt. When he told me that I seemed to distance myself from him so I didn't fall even harder just incase it didn't work out. I still have really strong feelings for him and we talk all the time, I'm just not sure on what I should do. I've told him how I feel. I think I really love him. Should I lay it all out on the table and tell him everything I think about him and the way he makes me feel or should I just give him his space until he figures out what he's feeling?
it is good to tell people how you feel because if you dont you will really regret it.. i have done that alot! you need to tell him how you feel if you really feeel that way about him. i hope this helped!
hello there again this is the 14 year old male... i thank you greatly for your advice but i still need more, I am in a HUGE mess at this point and time of my life as being a new gay cat in this society. Previously I had said that my best friends step father was charged as a petifile and today was the first day of court and i was called up as a witness to Judge Stimey, he is so ferce looking Im attracted to him and thats the problem becuase instead of me being a good non horney gay cat boy that i am i have attraction to this stimey old man while he is questioning me. I need to concentrate when he asks me such questions, so I can keep all this kissing my friend business a secret, and so i dont get caught, but its so impossible, he wore thesesuper tight sexy polyester pants today and i could see the shape of his hotdog , and i had an erection in my pants i was all wet the rest of the day, anyway I have a feeling that the judge has a little thing for me becuase his hotdog was pointing at me the whole time instead of sagging to the side. i really need your help because these weener exitments and urges for that Stimey Old judge are taking over me and i dont want to mess up at this important event.
thank you for your time love 14 year old male gay cat
Well you cant really control what kind of urges you have and who you have them to. But you can try but it is really hard. Do you your friends know that you are gay yet? well i hope this helped tell me what happens! thanks for askin me!
I talk to the guy I like alot on AIM and alot in school. We're great friends but it seems like I always IM HIM! I don't know if he doesn't want to talk to me but when I IM him we usually get into long conversations but he never starts them. It's always me. Is this a hint he doesn't want to talk to me? If it then why do we always talk up a storm? Pleae help!!
x0x0x Hopelessly Devoted
13/F
hey that happens to me to! I always have to bring up a conversation with people otherwise they wont talk. i think you should not talk once in a while and see if he brings up anything. I think he mite want to talk to you bc he has been anyways. guys are always so odd you always have to start a conversation with them it doesnt mean they dont like you! hope this helped!
what things can i do when a friend is over?
[i am a 13 yr old girl, what are somethings i can do w/ a girl my age over?please try to give me more than movies and music.]
Thanks x0x!
P.S I RATE HIGH ;-)LoL
a great conversation that will keep on going is if you talk about guys. And that is always fun! got to the pool and do makeovers and just be girls it is always fun! hope this helped!