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Bffl's girlfriend
Ok well I'm m/14/bi,my bestfriend got a girlfriend recently and shes all he talks about and well I like him a lot. Whenever he talks about her I get depressed and upset and sumtimes in a horrible mood. Well he doesn't know I like him should I tell him?
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well it depends if it would freak him out. and if hes bi. but he seems pretty into his gf if she really likes him and finds out she might not let you guys hang out .. idk i guess you should tell him if he wouldnt get all weirded out on you. hope it works out =]
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i am not against bi or homo relations so don't take this the wrong way.
i would not tell your friend how you feel unless he knows you are bi. you are not only looking at losing a good friend. you are talking about a potential life-long enemy. not me, but some guys can get really defencive about that kind of stuff. without telling him you like him i would try to let him know you are bi though. if you don't now it is going to be alot more awkward later. not to mention if you tell him that and he is cool with it then <b><u>later</u></b> you can tell him how you feel.
good luck. hope i helped.
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well if you really like this guy you should go for it but your friend may get really ticked of maybe talk about it with your friend and work it out your friend wont be mad if you talk about it maybe you should all talk about it or talk to him about it and dont say its about you but about a friend
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Hmm this is a tough situation. You first of all have to think about telling him that your bisexual, because some people in high school do not like bisexual & homosexual people and that might cause some trouble. You also have to think about your best friend. How would she feel if she found out you liked her boyfriend? I think the only thing that would cause it awkwardness and someone getting hurt. =/ But if you do decide to tell him, just think everything through clearly and for a long long time before you do. I hope I helped!
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Um well if he is bi as well yes but if he isn't well.....I don't think so
also if he knows that you are bi the better because if he doesn't know he'll think you're gay and start to spred rumors about you and we dont want that now do we?
Maybe you could get him to stop talking about her like be all like:
"Can we talk about something else?"
thats always an easy question
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Well you got to be careful with that love. A lot of people in HS will not accept bisexual or homosexual classmates. A few of my friends are but they're goth/punk and no one really cares. If you're sort of in that genre then yes you should tell him, just make sure you are setting yourself up to be hurt! And if he isn't bi as well, well the best you can do is just hope he is happy and find another guy/girl :(
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