About me, hhmmm. I guess I would have to say that my favorite thing in the world is my family. They are my inspiration in all that I do. My 2nd favorite thing is POKER. I love helping people. I love poetry. I love horror films, comedies, and the occasional "chick flick". I find myself liking anything the critic's hate and hating what they love. I like listening to alternative music. My favorite bands are The White Stripes, The Gorillaz, and Eric Clapton. Know you may be wondering what makes me a love specialist? Well nothing really. All I know is that I keep my wife very happy and she tells me on a regular basis that I am the best man she has ever known. Her words not mine. Looking back I would have to say that I have never broken a women's heart. I would also have to say that I have been in love and in love with many times. It aggravates me to read questions from guys who are just trying to get into a girls pant. Sometimes I think I am the only 23-year-old with values and morals. I know that is not true though. I do feel I have a pretty good idea of what women want in men, and honestly any man can fit the description. Any man can be any women's type. I just think that some men show it better than others. Just so everyone knows I don't have a huge ego. I am actually really shy around women. I am kind of like an old football couch. I can't really play then game, but I do know how the game should be played.
E-mail: danforbis@yahoo.com
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Location: Your Fantasies
Occupation: Love Specialist
Age: 23
MSN: mpc@mpcadi.com
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why you didn't hit me back did i affend you at any point o time if so i'm sorry .I hope we still can be friends
sign:missloudy (link)
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no you didn't affend. what are you doin? i have been dso buisy. were did you say you was from? what's the weather like their? you got any pis you can send me? take my e-mail
danforbis@yahoo.com
hit me any time. and i mean any time.
do you have msn messanger?
it'd be alot cooler if you did.
later loudy. you fine thing.
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do you and your wife have sex every nite because if there ever be a time that yall sexual life becaome a distrction hit me up because i am a freak and trust me i know everything about it from head all the way to different positions and up to making babys.I'm glad i don't hve any kids because i'm well protected.how old are you. (link)
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to be honest with you it could be a little more exciting. we have sex maybe once a month. we have kids so their is not alot of time. then when we do find the time it is usually uneventful. i was her first so she is not very experianced. their are things i would like to try that she is not very open to.
i am 23. how old are you? do you have a man?
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ok like i reallly hate my life. But i live in a semi good neighborhood with a good famliy (mom, dad and sister) in a good house and everything but like nothing ever goes my way. Like i dont think im that pretty.. im 14 and only had 1 boyfriend (which only lasted 2 weeks ) and all my other friends have had manyy boyfriends and like all my friends that are girls are prettier than me in my opinion. and i dont really have a bestfriend. i used to but now someone else is her bestfriend. So now i just have like friends, but only like 4 really close friends. I'm naturally a very nice person.. but you know what they say: nice people finish last. Also, im a bit of a pushover. People sometimes just "walk all over me" and i cant really stand up for myself. I am very self-conscious about myself and im not that confident.
But then i think about the poor people or homeless people who probably have 20 times worse life than me and it makes me feel bad that i complain about my life when i should be thankful. So my question.. do you think my life is good or bad? is there anything i can do to improve my life? or should i be thankful instead? (link)
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WOW, if this website was around 10 years ago i would have been writing the same thing you are. i warn you know this could be a very long responce. when i was 15 i was the exact same way. if this site was around maybe i would have made better decessions. you see i didn't have alot of friends either. and i hung out with the kids who didn't have alot of friends. as we got older we found more friends that didn't have friends. the reason they didn't have friends is because they wanted to smoke pot instead. so thats what we did. we smoked pot, we stole to pay for pot, our grades dropped and we almost didn't graduate. well some of us didn't. actually i was the only one who changed my ways and stayed in school. i couldn't tell you were half those guys are today.
any way what changed me was my family. i stopped and notice that my brothers were heading down the same path i was. one of them (now 20) spent 6 years in adult prison for stealing cars.(he went in when he was 14) my parents started to not care what i was doing with my time. and that hurt. after i changed everything changed. i couldn't take it anymore.
after all that changed my way of thinking. i made new friend(abandoned the old ones) got a girl friend( who i am now married to.(we've been together for 8 years tis may.) changed my whole life. i am closer with my parents than i ever was. in my senoir year i was voted class treasured. do you get it? I WAS FINALY POPULAR. it was awsome. better than any hi.
your probably asking "how does any of this help me"?.....i am not sure. maybe someone else can learn from my mistakes. i am just trying to tell you that it is not as bad as you think. it is waht you make it. i don't care what you look like. Confidence is beutiful. dwelling on the bad and ignoring the good is not. i dont mean to sound "preachy" but you should also find God.
good luck, sorry if i put you too sleep.
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What is the best possible way, form, time, and place to ask a girl to be your girlfriend? Well, maybe not the BEST, but a pretty good way. I have a feeling that this girl I know and talk to a lot likes me, and I like her. I'm 15/M, and she's 14/F. Thanks! ^^ (link)
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what NINAB said is a really good idea, but instead of a not you should give her the flower and tell her these things. i know that it is hard and that you are nervous, but trust me what is the worst that could happen. unless she is a cold beast of a woman its not like she is going to laugh at you and turn you down. (if she does i am so sorry) but girls really think it is hi class of a guy to express your feelings in actuall words. she may even mist up and you get extra points. if not the letter is a good idea too. good luck.
p.s not a rose. roses are boring and un origional. show her you have style and get something eregular. don't get daiseys though. as pretty as they are they look cheap. tulip. yah one tulip. now thats class. go for it.
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I'm a 27 year old female involved with a man of 34 years old for almost 2 years now. He was married before and have a little boy of 6 years old. I have the feeling that this guy is also lying to me regardig his ex wife in various ways. It feels as if he is always taking her side, etc. I want to know: Am I wasting my time with this guy? Will we ever get married? We were engaged for almost a year and he broke the engagement because of a incident that happened between me and his ex wife. (link)
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he has kids with another woman. if you marry this guy you may as well consider yourself married to this woman. she is that kids mother. she is a permanant part of your life if you marry him. i say leave him.
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okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me. (link)
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your bf brought this on himself. it would be unfair to stay with him and like another guy. dump him. ps i am a guy and i agree that shy mates suck.
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my best frend is a girl and she is way hot shes 2 years yyounger than me which is ok. not my problem my problem is i am felling lust for her sister which is 6 year years younger than me being like 7 am i sicck or is it ok help email for more info cause there are other facts im not gonna say on this
sammygamy@hotmail.com (link)
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i can't beleive that all these people need more info. as if knowing anything els is going to change thhe fact that she is 7 years old. you not only need to ignore this little girl, you need to stay away from all little girls. the only extra info i need is were to you live so i don't move their. i wouldn't let my daughter within 100yards of you. get help
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ok i just took a pregnancy test and it was positive!im only 16 years old:(i dont want to tell my parents because they said if i ever get pregeat at a young age they will kick me out of the house!!!!i dont know what to do!plzzzz help (link)
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FIRST OF ALL...your parents are not going to kick you out of the house. atleast good parents wouldn't. SECONDLY....my mother was 16 when i was born and i turned out great. you really need your parents help right now and you need to tell them. i know that youare scared and nervous and full of emotion, but right now your feelings are on the back burner. it is you unborn child that matters now. THIRD....do not get an abortion. i know that it is your choice, but you really need to think about it. i am glad my mom did. you will live with it for the rest of your life. good luck and god be with you.
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um. my boyfriend was fingering me the other day and he ripped.. i think it's called a urethra.. that thing above to vagina... it's been bleeding for a few days now and i have no clue on what to do.. and i don't know if this is a bad thing or a good thing. pleaseee help lol.. (link)
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what the hell was he using? tell him not to be so rough. wow i have never heard of that happening. i would go to a docter. then go get some hand lotion for your guy. OUCH!!!
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Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks.. (link)
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"MAKING LOVE" is done with your mind. "HAVEING SEX" is done with your genatles. sometimes they happen at the same time. i am a firm beleiver that two can make love and be fully clothed. sex is just an verb. thats all. you can quote me on that. peice
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Can you get a girl pregnet after haveing butt sex with her and some cum drips on to her vagina (link)
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UUUHHHH YAH. you really need to ask these questions before sex. c-ya DADDY.
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ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????
I rate4 HIGH!!
~LiLy~ (link)
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you want to know what you need to do? i'll tell you what you need to do. GO TO CHURCH listen to your heart. then make a decesion. your 13 you have a long life ahead of you to regret what you may or may not have done.
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Hi!
I would like to know having sex how many times a day, is healthy...
Thanks.
With warm regards,
Udhay. (link)
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just so you know i am a guy and this is a guys point of view. you should have sex as often as possable. it is one of the only excercises that most americans do. have sex till you pass out. thats just me talking though.
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hey umm theres this guy that i like and my friend was iming him and sh asked him if i asked him out if he would say yes and he said yes, so now i want to ask him out but ive never had a bf so i have absolutley NO clue how to say it...please help asap!!! btw im 13/f if it helps (link)
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just write him a letter. when i was younger i couldn't talk to girls. so i always wrote letters. it breaks the ice and get your question across. good luck.
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Does anyone know really good diet plans that bring healthy results for a 14 year old girl? thanks (link)
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8 small meals a day. very little suger. very little carbs. no pills, no starving. regular excercise. got to get your heart going and the sweat flowing. thats it. everything else is a scam or unsafe. good luck.
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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How old is this girl? Is she close to your age or a little younger? If she is a little younger she may not see you that way. If she is close to the same age the reason all these guys are hanging out is because she is starting to see other guys in the same way that you see her. Your body is maturing and you are starting to look at girls in a different way. She is doing the same thing. You just may not be one of the guys on her list. I can’t tell you how to avoid losing her brother as a good friend. If you pursue this that is probably what is going to happen. A brother’s protectiveness over his sister is inevitable. I can tell you how to pursue this girl if you want but chances are your friend is not going to approve of the relationship. Are you ready to take that chance? Another thing to think about is that if this doesn’t work out between you and this girl you run the risk of losing both friends. Are these risks you are willing to take? I need you to answer these questions if I am going to be able to help you. Also, if you could give me some names it would help. They don’t have to be their real names it is just easier to explain if I know the characters of the story. Let me know, I really want to help with this one.
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Ok this could be long! I am in 8th grade and last year there was a kid in my class. EvEryone made fun of him and he was bipolar and had some mental problems. Well, yesterday 11/3. He attempted suicude for the second time. He jumped from the bak of a moving school bus and he is now in acoma. He broke his arm and probably his bak and neck too. He isn't dead though. ThEre was BLooD everywhere. The first time he tried to stab himself with scissors. I feel really bad because I was one to make fun of him. How can i make myself not feel so bad? ALl my freinds say im different since but im really scared for the kid. He seems like he could be nice. Plese help will rate. _-HeArtbreaker-__ (link)
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you need to prey. then you need to ask that boy to forgive you. then you need to stop being so selfish in asking, "how do i stop feeling bad?" the real question you should be asking is "how do i make this kid feel better?" if you feel guilty you should. you need to sit down and think about why you like hurting other people. is it to make yourself feel better? if it were me i wouldn't leave his side. knowing that i cause him pain. thats just me talking though.
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okay... so my brother always swears at me and calls me fat and ugly and stuff... and he hits, punches, kicks, etc. me all the time. not enough to leave a bruise or anything (occasionally) but i'm not sure if this is considered abuse? also, my mom (my mom doesn't do it a LOT) and my sister both always tell me i'm stupid, ugly, fat, (same as my brother) but they don't hit me unless they're really mad... do you consider this abuse? (link)
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you need to become a bitter bi*** and stand up and tell them to kiss off. you don't deserve to be treated that way. and you deserve a better family. you can tell them that too. let them know that their childesh words won't crush your sperit. maybe they put you down because they really hate theirselves. don't let it get you down. your better than them.
hope i helped.
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Yesterday we had basketball tryouts at our school and as a sophmore i made jv again and 5 of my friends moved up to varsity. Mainly because one of the varsity didnt want me to make the team..soo she tried to do nething in her power to make me look bad. I am torn up about this..my heart feels like its in my throat. That was my goal this year.and i failed at it. I feel like theres no positives. Do you think there is ne positives about this? (link)
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I WILL TELL YOU THE POSATIVES. let me get this straight. you are good enough for "v" and you didn't get it because some mean person did't want you too? first of all you may be being a little dramatic on your accusations. but if what you say is true than you are going to be the star of "jv" right? think about that. your good enough, but you had an off day. then you need to lift yourself up and show them that you are the best on "JV". think of how good your going to look on "JV". then your junior year they will watch you alot more at tryouts. or even better. bump you up to varsity mid season. just don't let it effect your game.
good luck. hope i helped
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my boyfriend wants me to things (not sex) that i dont really wanna do but i want him to be happy. what should i do? (link)
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i am not sure how long you and your bf have been together, but it doesn't sound like long. (i say that because this is a problem that is usually resolved pretty quick) so let me get this right. he want to go see one movie and you want to see another, or he wants you to go with him to get his haircut and you don't want to? or is it more difficult, like he wants you to smoke a joint with him and you don't want to? i will adress both just to be safe.
1) it is ok if he wants to do things that you don't. make compramises though. go do what he wants then get him to do what you want. you can't always go do the opposite things though. then you are friends not a couple. be a little more open to the things he wants to do. and he will be more open to what you want. as for wanting him to be happy. trust me he probably doesn't mind if you don't like the things he likes. my wife is always trying to make decesions that would make me happy. i have a hard time convencing her to do what she wants and i will be satisfied either way. a guy in live is always happy. i know.
2) know if he is trying to get you to do something that is wrong and you are the only one making the right decesion.(like smoking pot or keeping lookout while he steals a car, i know thes are extreme examples, but your question is vague on "things")Then you really don't eant anything to do with this guy. he is going to drag you down with him if you are not careful.
3) i just thought of a 3rd way he trys to get you to do things. like if he is always bossing you around. "go get me a drink" "make me a sandwich" or whatever then this sounds like a guy who doesn't respect you and you shouldn't take that.
i would really like to answer your question better. explain it and i will be more help.
if i already did help then goodluck.
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