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making love and sex...


Question Posted Tuesday November 8 2005, 12:00 am

Whats the difference between 'making love' and having sex?? thanks..

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luckybutt32 answered Friday December 2 2005, 12:09 am:
ok making love is when u deeply feel passion and love for the other person. its more then penetration its like u connect and feel awesome being one with that person. its not just lets get freaky together. its like slow and soft and kissing and nibbling and wanting it to last forever.

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FullMoonLover08 answered Friday November 25 2005, 5:56 pm:
that would be making love. is when you trully love the person and have sex. having sex is when your horny and screw a friend or something

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Wednesday November 23 2005, 7:26 pm:
there is a big difference when you make love you are expressing feeling and trying to get closer and its not for pleasure when our having sex or fucking its for pleasure and no feeling and not to get closer laters

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shannonsgirl answered Saturday November 12 2005, 10:58 pm:
i think making love is wen you wanna have a baby or kiss a lot ad having sex is wen.. you no having sex

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xxoBriannax answered Saturday November 12 2005, 3:07 pm:
No difference. 'Making love' is just a nicer, less perveted way of saying having sex.

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margarita_luvs_ya answered Thursday November 10 2005, 5:43 pm:
It's basically the same thing one is jsut more of a 'proper' way i guess you can call it.

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silversky89 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 4:49 pm:
There isn't one...Making love was simply a censored version of sex invented to "soften" the term and make it sound more affectionate.

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WIZBANG answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 9:38 am:
"MAKING LOVE" is done with your mind. "HAVEING SEX" is done with your genatles. sometimes they happen at the same time. i am a firm beleiver that two can make love and be fully clothed. sex is just an verb. thats all. you can quote me on that. peice

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babiigirl answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 11:50 pm:
Making love is Totally romantic like you have strong feeling between eachother and love eachother, having sex is just what people would call fun i guess.. hope i helped kim*

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Jessica13 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 5:11 pm:
Making love is where you acally love the person you are having sex with and having sex is where you are just doing it for fun and just playing around

I hope I helped

jessica

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XO_LiZ_69_0X answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 3:36 pm:
nothing really .. if you put it into certain terms .. making love could be more romantic, and sex would be not so romantic ? i dont know but they are both sex either way you put it

Hope i helped

XO LiZ OX

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Wild_Thing77 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 2:30 pm:
making love is usally a way of saying we had sex and it was very intement. and that you love that person before you had sex with them.
when you just said we had sex. it sounds like you just did it because yoyu could and it didn't mean anything to you.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 2:25 pm:
Okay i see alot of people have told you they mean the same just making love is a more proper way of sayin it.. personally i think they mean two different things.. *making love in my opinion means you have sex with somebody you love dearly and care for.. *Sex/fuck i think you have sex with them with no meaning but wanting some dick or pussy.. Yes a girl could have feelings for this guy but that doesn`t mean the male has the same for you so i wouldn`t consider it makin love if the feelings come from one side of the relationship.. ♥ Dez

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 1:21 pm:
nothin they are the same. just differnet wording. so it doesnt sound sexual

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sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 12:51 pm:
They're exactly the same and mean the exact same thing. It's all sexual intercourse. People use different terms to convey the meaning they want to convey. If a guy says to one of his friends "dude I banged Melanie this weekend" he's trying to sound cool in front of his friends, make it sound like he was in control, and make it sound like he did it entirely because of physical urges. Melanie could say to her friends "Wow, I made love with Jack this weekend for the first time and it was really amazing". This gives an entirely different meaning to what happened. The only people that know what really happened are Jack and Melanie because both of them whether they realize it or not will use these terms to make it sound like something it may not have been. Generally "having sex" is thought of as being entirely about physical gratification and "making love" is thought of as being entirely about emotional gratification, but in reality, whenever two people have sexual intercourse there's some of both involved.

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BrunetteBeauti answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:49 am:
making love is when you're having sex with someone you love and care about and it's meaningful. having sex is like just having sex


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Courtney answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 8:47 am:
When you're making love, you're having sex but you're really and truly and deeply in love with the person you're having sex. And having sex, is having sex with someone you like or lust for. Or just to be having sex. Or someone that you think you have a lot of feelings for. Most people don't realize that they're just "having sex" because they only realize that they were "just having sex" when they find the true person that they're in love with. If you want to get technical, both are really having sex. But making love is truly and deeply and unconditionally loving the person you are having sex with and that is a precious and coveted virtue.

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rainbowNsunshine91 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:31 am:
Making love is passionate, with kissing and taking time to enjoy each other's bodies, making each other feel good and fuliling (sp?) each other's fantasies. Having sex is just sexual intercourse to have an orgasm!!!!!! Once one person gets off, the other person SOMETIMES cannot. Its quick and satifisying (sp?)

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Teza answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 7:12 am:
Making love is the more proper way of saying it. It's basiclly when the 2 people are so in love and that is what they want to do. Sex is just sex. Basiclly with no meaning. ♥

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hitler_the_goat answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 2:37 am:
same premise, its just that most dudes refer to having sex as having sex. girls on the other hand call it some poetic beautiful name that clearly beats around the bush. its not really producing "love", but rather a mess that leads to a cleaning of the sheets on the following day. thats my take on it.
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LadyGoodman answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 2:10 am:
Having sex is a more apathetic, factual term to use for the act. Making love is typically used by someone who is in love with the person and/or genuinely cares about them. "fucking," on the other hand, tends to be just emotionless, lust-driven, superficially based sex. I hope it is more clear now!

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