To start, you can ask me anything. I'm 15, I turn 16 this Christmas. I really enjoy school. English is my favorite subject. I'm a sophomore. History, Geometry, German, French, and Gym are a few of my favorites really. I want to go to major in psychology and minor in journalism or interior design. I want to go to the summer gov school program this summer for either Russian or Psychology. I love to read and write poetry. I play soccer, football, volleyball, and skateboard, and I'm on the debate team and dodgeball team for my school. I love nature, just being outside, taking hikes, etc. I love stars and moonlight. Moonlight is incredibly romantic and stars and magical. I also love music. I play the alto saxophone and the guitar. I love animals. My favorite animal is the fox, but my favorite pet is Emmy, my beloved dog. I love movies, especially horror films. Saw, the Ring, Donny Darko, etc. My favorite movie is Alice in Wonderland (even though I am 15). My favorite bands are Wakefield and Lucky Boys Confusion. Broken is a great song. Skyler is my best friend in the entire world. He's the only one I can relate to on the subject of relationship prudency. He's a senior at my school and he's on the same level as me. I have more guys friends than girl friends because I feel more comfortable with guys than girls. There is too much drama with girls. Most of my girlfriends have what I call "zero bullshit tolerance" or what you might call a "bitchy attitude". Frankly, they just tell it like it is whether you like it or not. I love them all dearly. I'm a very independent person and I deal very well under pressure. I hate people pressuring me to do things. I stand up for what I believe in and don't let people hold me back. I am my own person and don't change for anyone.
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By the way I'm a 16 year old girl.
Well I have a friend named Adam who is really big into Dungeons and Dragons and well he wants me to join his D&D group. I don't want to join because it kind of goes a little bit against my religion and it is filled with all sorts of dark imagery that I would prefer not to get involved with. I know that I have to tell him but I think that if I straight up tell him that I don't want to participate then he'll get mad at me. I'm a bit confused. He's a great friend except for when it comes to just begging me and telling me that he'll do almost anything to get me to join. (link)
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Don't sacrifice yourself or your beliefs for anyone. Ever. Tell him that it goes against your religion, all the dark imagery, etc and if he doesn't understand then he really isn't worth being friends with if he doesn't take your wants and beliefs into consideration.
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I've gotten hickeys from guys, but I've always wondered.. do girls usually give guys hickeys? I never have, and I've never heard of guys having them either.. I was just curious to see if it was something odd or not.
thanks a tonnnnn (link)
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It happens. I have given a few myself.
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I have a question about acres on properties. A friend of mine just bought a house and bragged that it had 16 acres on the property. I thought that was a lot until I read that Brad Pitt just bought a house in Calgary that had 1000 acres! I'm confused, I don't know how large an acre is. Can someone tell me how large 16 acres is, like could you compare it to the size of something else? Also, it 16 acres as big as my friend made it sound to be, or was he just bragging for nothing?
I'll rate all 5's if you answer this. Thankyou (link)
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An acre is about the size of a football field without the endzones. A soccer field is 1.98 acres - so half a soccer field is about an acre.
Either way, not that much to brag about.
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tomorrow, my boyfriend is in a play, and I told him I can't come because I have work, so he's REALLY bummed, but really, I'm gonna show up and surprise him. My question is, what should I get him? Like you would get a girl roses for a good performance, so what should you get a boyfriend? Keep it under 10-20 dollars. Just brainstorm a whole bunch of ideas. I don't care whether its unoriginal or really creative. I just cant think of ANYTHING. haha thanks. (link)
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I think it would be a really good idea to do something really personal like get a coloring book from Preciious Moments and color a page with a couple on it and write "great performance/job/etc" on it.
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Hey.. what does it mean in the song your so last summer by taking back sunday when they say: 'boys like you are dime a dozen' i was curious.. thanks (link)
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Pretty much "boys like you are a dime a dozen" means that guys like that come and go and there are millions of them.
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Some background:
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We've been together since I was in 8th grade and I am now a sophmore in highschool. Unfortunately we don't go to the same school, so I see him once a week or twice a week if I'm lucky.
I have been friends with this boy for a few years, we dated when I was in 7th grade so it was hardly a relationship. But me and this boy have always remained very close friends even before my boyfriend and I met. He as well does not got to my school.
Friday night (The 11th) I was hanging out with him and a friend of mine at my friend's house. For some reason I ended up kissing this boy. To be honest I still can't figure out why I did it. I felt guilty about it after it happened and the guilt was eating me up inside. I saw my boyfriend the day after and I didn't tell him because I was too scared of what he would think, do or say.
The next day (Sunday) I told him what happened. He got really upset which I already knew would happen. I apologized a million times over and I promised him it would never happen again. I screwed up, I know that, believe me I know I screwed up.
We didn't talk up until late yesterday night and he told me that he'd give me another chance. However he said he's not sure if it's going to work because he doesn't know if he'll be able to trust me again. I know I don't deserve this second chance, but I am so greatful for it.
So my question is, what specific things can I do to regain his trust? Again, I know I screwed up really bad and I feel awful about the whole thing and I wish I could just take it back. I want to regain his trust and try to make things as close to "right" as it can be. But I don't know how I'm going to go about that.
He said to me that he's not sure if he'd be able to kiss me without being able to think about what I did.
I told him that if he wanted me to that I wouldn't talk to this kid ever again. What should I do? I don't want to end our year and a half relationship...
By the way, this is the FIRST AND LAST time I have and will EVER do something like that again. Please help me.. (link)
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Truthfully, there isn't really a way to gain trust back fast. Gaining someone's trust back takes time. Just let him know, reassure him if you will, that you will never do it again (as you've stated).
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if you dont need contacts/glasses can you still get color contacts?! if so where and how much are they?! thanks! (link)
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Yes, at most vision centers, but price can vary.
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Hey. Okey so i tried typing this into a online translator but the sentence gets all screwed up..and it's not like its a homework or anything..i want to let this guy i like know that i like him. And i thought it would be cute to do it in french since that's how we met..he was tutoring me :) anyway this is hwta i'd like translated : Iäm writing to let you know that i can't stop thinking about you. You are constantly on my mind. You are a unforgettable person with an amazing personality. I'd never be able to describe what i like about you..because that would take me forever.
Can you translate that?
THANK YOU soo sooo sooo incredibly much.
Lots of love :D (link)
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J'écrire à toi parce que je ne peux pas arrêt réfléchir à toi. Tu est toujours mon esprit. Tu est personne inoubliable avec une personnalité incroyable. Je ne vais pas décrire quel j'aime pour toi parce que cet je vais fermer continuellement.
I think that's right.
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what does 143 mean? (link)
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I love you. It's just put as 143 for the number of letters in each word: I=1, love=4, you=3.
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I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like? (link)
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Get her something you know she'll like; something that's special and unique to her. For example, if her favorite cartoon character is Piglet, get her something involving Piglet. It doesn't have to be big or anything, just letting her know you thought of her is enough. No matter what you get her, she'll love it if she knows that you thought only of her when you where picking it out and that it was you that thought of it.
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what are some good stores that sell cheap clothes? clothes that are pretty and something a teenager would wear.. any suggestions? (link)
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Goodwill, amazingly, has a really cool selection of stuff. If you go to the bigger centers they have bigger selections. I've seen Hollister, AE, Hot Topic stuff, Old Navy, etc there. Plus, it is really cheap.
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Okay, so I'm dreading next week. Its the 5th anniversary of my dad's death. And for this last month it seems like everything i look at or touch reminds me of him and i just break down crying...but its been five years i mean im almost 18 i shouldnt be acting like im 5, right? I have the support of my boyfriend, but my family isn't here to support me, they dont and havent liked me since the day my dad passed away. I'm not thinking about hurting myself in anyways...its just that my heart hurts terribly...is this normal? (link)
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This is completely normal. I felt the exact same way when the fifth anniversary of my Grandmother's death came up. All the pain your feeling is pretty much your heart telling you that you still love him, you always will, and possibly reminding you that he's really gone. Just hang in there. A heartache is an incredible pain, but remember: he still loves you, too.
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When someone says you are a push over...what do they mean? (link)
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You're a person that can easily be manipulated into doing what they what, AKA, they can walk all over you.
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my relationship with my boyfriend is very complicated. i need solutions. we fight about little things all the time. now we dont hang out nemore, hes always with his friends and i dont feel very close to him anymore. i need to hang out with my friends more but i dont know what to do with them to hang out with them. also i want to make my boyfriend something but i dont know what to make him.... thanks (link)
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Personally, it sounds like your boyfriend is giving the "I don't want to do it, but it's over" signs. From what you're saying, it's time to move on with your life. Before you decide whether or not to do so, you should talk to him about it, tell him how you're feeling, what he's doing to make you feel this way, and suggestions to fix. If that doesn't work, then consider the first option.
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Alright i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for a week.. and I thought i loved him so much and now i dont even know! he is the first guy that has treated me ok! but i feel like hes goin to fast and Now i just dont know if i love him or if i even wana be with him! I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG! when Im with him i feel good but i feel weird! and like i feel like he is moving to fast and now I am thinkin should i break up with him? but then he wont talk to me! and he doesnt live in my city he lives like 30 mins away.. and now im noticing how many guys in my city i could get! that are real sweathearts! but i wont cheat on anyone cause im not like that! The thing is i made my boyfriend promises that i wouldnt break up with him cause i thought i loved him! and now i dont even know if i wana be with him right now! I promised him I wouldnt ever break up with him. and he said well other girls that said that broke up with me the next week. I mean i totaly like him alot but i am so confused! and he likes me so so much i dont wana hurt him! HE IS GREAT!
what do i dooooo!? (link)
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The only reason a person should ever break a promise is because it is for the better. This sounds like a Class A example of this. He might be a great guy but you should really do what you want to regardless of what he wants(in this situation).
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Okay i need the answer to this riddle please!!
You are stuck in a room with no windows or doors. a solid room. Only things in this room is a mirror and a table. how do you escape?
It really got me thinking and i can't seem to find out the answer. If i think you got it right then i`ll give you a 5. but if you try i`ll give you a 5 also!! =D thank you (link)
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Look in the mirror, see what you saw, pick up the saw, saw a hole in the table and climb through the hole.
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Okay, so. I have a huge problem that I need serious help with. Okay. So me and my boyfriend are crazy about eachother. Like, for the first time in my life I could honestly say that I am IN love with him. And I know that may sound like shit because I'm not older or anything but I don't think age means a thing. (I'm 14. He's about to turn 16.) So anyways. His mom totally like, hates me or something. But that's beside the point. So he got grounded for getting a horrible grade in Trigonometry. But it wasn't exactly his fault because I mean c'mon it's Trigonometry and he's only 15 and he had come in half-way during the semester and had to make up all that stuff he missed. Hell, I can't even spell it. So anyways, he got a 37 in that class. And he got grounded. At first it was only until progress reports so I didn't think it was all that bad. But I just found out last night that he's grounded until January 12th. Meaning he can talk to me on the phone all he wants, but he can't see me. At all. So. I'm gonna go absolutely insane until then. But by January 12th he'll have his car and he'll be able to see me a lot. So is it worth it to wait? Keep in mind, I truely am head over heels in love with him.
Pleasseee give me some advice. Please. I'm desperate. (link)
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If you are truly in love with him then of course it is worth the wait.
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ok, well every now and then i get these really really bad headaches, my eyes get very sensitive to light and even the slightest noise makes my head pound. Now iknow the cause of these headaches isnt from my vision, because ive had my eyes checked many times and i do wear glasses. What can be causing them? thanks 4 ur answers (link)
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Those are called migraines. I get them every once in a while myself. I've had them since I was four. If you can afford it, go to a neurologist and talk to him/her about it. I have prescription meds for them. When you get one, just lay down, take the usual, and stay in a dark room. Caffeine and sugar do occasionally do help, but if you have tendencies like myself, which are to vomit, not always the smartest move. There isn't a set cause, but caffeine addiction has proved to cause headaches in withdrawl. Best of luck with your migraines!
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i really like a guy friend of mine. he told me he doesnt feel the same. about a month and a half later we hooked up (just made out) and we both really liked it. we have a really strong friendship bond and we talk (kinda) dirty to each other. my question : do you think this can blossom into something more? like, can someone who doesnt like someone start to like them after time goes by and the two people get really close? any personal experiences is also appreciated if you can
easy 5 for your opinion and advice (link)
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I went out with best friend for 10 months and it was one of my longest relationships because of one key factor: communication. If you guys talk, then by all means, go for it. If you feel a connection then you should give it a shot, thinking of the possible conseqences of a losing a friend.
Best wishes,
Elli
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okay well, im well, sorta prude? i guess. i feel fine kissing, getting felt up, hangjob, you know that. but ive never been fingurd, aten out and im a virgin.i feel that i am sort of missing out? on something. and since i am attracted to older guys they will except all that from me. and i just get scared. im not very confident in myself down there and i dont know what a vagina is suppposed to look like and what if mine is gross? i dont know. i want to be in a relationship, and this stuff in the long run is goig to affect itt. (link)
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Don't do something you aren't completely comfortable with doing. If you feel pressured into doing something, or you're scared, then maybe you aren't ready and you should just wait. If a guy can't understand that, he doesn't deserve you and you deserve better.
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