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Alright i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for a week.. and I thought i loved him so much and now i dont even know! he is the first guy that has treated me ok! but i feel like hes goin to fast and Now i just dont know if i love him or if i even wana be with him! I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG! when Im with him i feel good but i feel weird! and like i feel like he is moving to fast and now I am thinkin should i break up with him? but then he wont talk to me! and he doesnt live in my city he lives like 30 mins away.. and now im noticing how many guys in my city i could get! that are real sweathearts! but i wont cheat on anyone cause im not like that! The thing is i made my boyfriend promises that i wouldnt break up with him cause i thought i loved him! and now i dont even know if i wana be with him right now! I promised him I wouldnt ever break up with him. and he said well other girls that said that broke up with me the next week. I mean i totaly like him alot but i am so confused! and he likes me so so much i dont wana hurt him! HE IS GREAT!
what do i dooooo!?
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The only reason a person should ever break a promise is because it is for the better. This sounds like a Class A example of this. He might be a great guy but you should really do what you want to regardless of what he wants(in this situation).
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Hey hun,
If you don't even know if you wanna be with him, then I think you should break up with him. It's not fair for him if he likes you a lot, and your not sure about your feelings for him. Just let him know you don't have feelings for him anymore. Plus, if he's moving too fast for you, he's not a great boyfriend at all. If he had any respect for you, he would not move too fast for you. Any real guy would take things slow. Plus, it's really hard to try and make long distance relationships work. If there are a lot of guys in your city that you can get, then maybe you should stick with the guys in your area. It'd be a lot easier for you with the whole distance thing. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. Good luck with this! Let me know how it goes. Your boyfriend should understand if you choose not to stay with him. If you don't stay with him, make sure you tell him that you hope to stay friends. <3 KiMmY
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If he is going faster than you want then you should tell him. You can find someone that doesnt do that. If you are uncomfortable then you should tell him b/c if you dont then he will keep doing it. Maybe you like him as a person but him oving faster than you want makes you uncomfortable. Maybe if you go the pace you want you will feel much better.
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Well, I personally think that you're problem is him moving to fast. I think you should tell him EXACTLY how you feel. The best thing in any relationship is honesty. If you cant be honest with him, then there isnt really a relationship there anyway, right? Tell him that you're uncomfortable with the speed of hte relationship, and see how he reacts. If hes a jerk bout it, then you dont really want to be with him anywa, regardless of any promises. Relationships arent promised until its marriage.
Or, if hes sweet and understanding, then you can try to continue on with the relationship and build on it. But atleast by talkign to him everything will be out in the open, and you will both be on the same page, and understand how eachother feels. And you'll feel better. I mean, why break up with him without knowing if things could be better? Good luck with it all =)
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