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my relationship
my relationship with my boyfriend is very complicated. i need solutions. we fight about little things all the time. now we dont hang out nemore, hes always with his friends and i dont feel very close to him anymore. i need to hang out with my friends more but i dont know what to do with them to hang out with them. also i want to make my boyfriend something but i dont know what to make him.... thanks
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Personally, it sounds like your boyfriend is giving the "I don't want to do it, but it's over" signs. From what you're saying, it's time to move on with your life. Before you decide whether or not to do so, you should talk to him about it, tell him how you're feeling, what he's doing to make you feel this way, and suggestions to fix. If that doesn't work, then consider the first option.
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My guess would be that you might be spending a little too much time without your friends and worrying where he is instead. You and your boyfriend need to make solutions together. You say that you don't really know how to approach your friends to hang out with them. You don't have to get your group of friends, pick a friend and ask them to go see a movie on the weekend and start hanging out with them more. Is there a near mall that you and a friend have been dying to go to lately? Even if not, setup a time and place to hang out so that you won't feel left out when it comes to your boyfriend being with his friends. That is one of your biggest problems in the relationship. There has to be some independent group hanging out. As much as you'd both like, you can keep it to just you both talking and you shut doors to everyone else. Have some girlfriend time too.
-TheTeenGirl
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well to me it sounds like you need a new boyfriend i mean you can do better like someone who will hangout w/ you and you will feel close to. and as for hanging out with your friends go to the movies or the mall thats what i do.
hope i helped
<3 Tabby
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Ok seems like youve got a clasic bf moment. Heres what I think!!! Mabye the reason you fight so much is because yall are trying to hard to stay together. I know you probably dont want to hear this but yall might need to seperate. It seems like you put off your friends bc of him. So try and ask your friends what they like to do to get your mind off of him! I mean at least your trying to hang / them. And as for the making him something. Consider this:
Try talking to him first to make shure yall still wanna be together because you dont want to waste your time for a break up. And then see what hes intrested in so you can get or make something you know he will really appreciate! I hope I helped you
Bianca
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have a party or something of that sort where all of you are together. (your friends AND his) then myabe all of you can start hanging out. this will bring the both of you together, hopefully. otherwise, your relationship obviously is not working. you need to talk to him and straight up ask him what is going on between the two of you and see how he feels. and if you want to make him something, make him something that would mean a lot just between the two of you. (something that has to do with any special memory you guys had.) hope this helps.
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Hey,
Me and my Boyfreind used to have the same problem
this is my soultion
1.) talk to your bf and see how he fill he might fill the ame way.
2.0 If yall argue alot just agree with what he says "I dont think it's working out"
just say no matter how hard it is it will make you fill much better say this "okay baby"
and then walk away. IT WILL BE HARD so just try
okay.
~~~GOOD LUCK~~~~
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ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND ... Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel about your relationship. When you two are about to argue, just let him think he's right because it will just probably start an arguement. Ask him to hang out. Tell him that you think your relationship is falling apart and you don't want that to happen. You could try making him a scrapbook, card, box of things that remind you of him, or something that will mean alot to him to show him that you care about him.
ABOUT YOUR FRIENDS... Ask them to hang out, go to your house, go to the mall or something. It doesnt have to be big. Just ask them to hang out more often and I'm sure they will agree.
Good Luck =)
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