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Hey, my name is Tabby. Feel free to ask anything at all ill answer anthing as best as i can. i wont tell u what to think or do ill just give you my ownest answers. i give advise to my friends so i think i give okay advice. you can also IM me on AIM if you would like its xUnspoken Silencadvice
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Hi, my name is Ali. My mom is taking me to a hair salon to get my highlights touched up. I have dirty blonde hair and blonde highlights. Could someone please give me ideas on what else I could do to my hair. Like maybe dye it or add different color highlights. If you want a picture of me just ask.
thanks in advance =)
well it would be easyer with a picture and i could help.
Okay, well there is this guy && we are good friends && like i think i like him but i`m not sure. i think something is like a matter with me because if i like the guy && they ask me out, i just don`t like them anymore. but then after i say no, i feel bad. okay the problem is that he asked me out && i don`t know what to say, he wrote me the most cutestest card. && it like says that he melts when he is near me..but i don`t know what to say..becuase i don`t want to ruin our friendship.
If you realli like him and hes that sweet to you go for it dont hold back you probably dont like them after they ask you out because your afraid of something like getting hurt. but if he reali is that sweet to you then go for it.
hope that helped
Ok there is a boy who I have like the hugest crush on. But sometimes he can be so mean then I think "I hate him". Then the next day I'll like him. But most of the time he is nice. Now I think he likes me a little but how do I find out or not thats the thing? :( Please help me!
okay well thats how most guys are there compete jerks then they like you its realli confusing but thats just how they are he probably didnt mean anything by being mean to you. but if you feel like you like him and then you hate him its normal it means you do like him your just not sure if you want to. its realli hard to answer but i tryed so i realli hope i helped.
I just recently became a vegetarian. The thing is, I really have no desire for meat. However, I feel like I'm eating the same things over and over again. Does anyone know of some good vegetarian foods/meals?
Umm well i just recently became a vegetarian to but try veggie burger and tofo ect. or go to peta.com and they have some very interesting things on there.
i can't delete my myspace because i forgot my email password but does anybody know how to make it so nobody can see the comments or friends on your page?? pleaseee help meee i'm desperate!!!
umm if you dont no your password you cant but if you can get on it go to were your age is (( under edit profile)) and make your age under or 15 and it makes it were no one can veiw comments friend ect.
Hope that helps some
I am completely confused about what I am. In regards to religion. I know i am christian, but I know nothing about it. I have never read the bible..and I know that most of the stuff in it I don't truly believe. And does God look down upon me for choosing not to believe parts of the bible?
if you have never read the bible then your not truely christian. that might be your parents beleifs put on you but we all have are own things we believe in we chose to believe in things and he doesnt look down on you for not believeing in somethings he loves everyone no matter what we believe in.
Hey im in journalism and its my first year. Finals are here already.. and were making a year book in that class, so far im doing pretty good but i need quotes.. for like sports,graduation, prom and stuff like that for a year book type.
Does anyone know any websites i can go to, to get really good quotes for the year book?
go to google.com and type in "_____ quotes" it should bring up some sites.
i hope that helped some
but can i ask you something? how is being in journalism becuz i was going to be a advise columest at my school but im not sure if i want to or not.
ok well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and i hve this huge like BUMP on my face.. pretty close to my nose.. ive had it for like 2 or 3 days and i popped it bc it was a zit when i first got it.. yah i know ur not sapose to pop zits.. but now it is like a big red bump and it doesnt hve puss or anything in it.. well im suppose to spend the day with my bf and it looks so hideous... any home remedies that will help plllleeeaasse....
try makeup
Hey, does anybody know where I can find lyrics by Hollywood Undead? I looked on google, but cannot find them. Any help thank you! I'll rate.
umm try www.azlyrics.com or www.plyrics.com
Alright I'm going to make this as simple as I can:
There's this white girl at my school and I really like her a lot but I don't get the feelin sometimes that she likes me but I've been leavin hints here and there letting her know how I feel about her but I think she still hasn't caught on we're both 13 I really like her and I'm black we get along but she's more of the I'm too busy into my work type and the silent type like I don't want to get in trouble in school type you know just the complicated type can u give me advice on how I can get this girl to know my true feelings besides askin her out on a date I only rate 5's so if your advice is bad you get nothin if it helped you get a 5
Thx
Signed, The Ebony Prince
Just tell her you dont have to ask her on a date just write her a note or something and tell her how you feel ask her what she thinks or how she feels toured you.
I hope i helped.
I Have A GREAT Friend but she sometimes makes fun of the way I look like she will say " your nose looks weird or you have a double chin! haha" and She isnt a serious person and It hurts my feelings. What Can I say to her! Please dont say things like "Slap her, hit her, etc."
tell her you dont like her saying that stuff about you she most likely will understand. if not then shes not a very good friend. so get a new one.
Please help,
I broke up with my girlfriend about 6 months ago, and I have been depressed ever since. About 1 month ago I ran into her and I have made numerous attempts by calling her way too much and going over to her house to try and talk to her but she does not want to see me. "I broke off the relationship". She is seeing an older man in his late 50's I am 31 and she is 36. What should I do.
well talk to her tell her why you did. and then tell her how you feel about her. she might feel the same. if she doesnt all i can say is just find your way out and find someone new.
Hope i Helped.
i was just wondering if this makes me fat.. because i think i am.. im 16 i weigh 107 and i wear size 5 pants.. just wondering what you think please be honest.
makes you fat?? man ur freaking skinny! im 13 and weigh 2 punds under you. so NO that doesnt make you fat at all!
Ok im really bad with my self-confidence like some of my friends think i just say "oh i'm so fat" just to get them to tell me im not.. but i really don't i really think of myself as fat.. like my face is pretty but i always think im fat, sometimes i think its because i have such gorgeous friends and they get all the guys i never think i can get any. I always brush by hot guys because its almost like i know they would never like me.. it's horrible but its how i feel.. like (1) i need to know how to feel better about myself and not think of myself as ugly. (2) does anyone know why i got this way.
everyone thinks somethings rong with them at one point no ones perfect. just dont care so much what other people think of you i ust to be like i always thought something was rong. something always had to be rong w/ me. but when i started 7th grade i disided to not care and now i acully have self-confindence and even thow i no im not perfect i dont always think there stuf rong. so just tell yourself your pretty dont be highmatnice but just think of yourself like you thiunk of your friends.
Hope i Helped and hope that made sence.
hey ya'll.... ok im a 13 year old girl and i live with my dad and my twin brother... i have to share a room with my brother and as you might know i have no privacy whatsoever... okay like 1 day ago i started my period for the first time...but i odnt know how to tell my dad because i need to go buy some more supplies... and i dont want to tell my brother but im sure hell find out and i kno it will be akward.... so heres my question.. how do i tell my dad(hes a manly man) and i want to tell my brother so it wont be as akward if he finds out on his own.......how do i tell them?!?!!??!?!?o ya and how do i tell my brother to keep his mouth shut cause at the moment i dont want anyone to know!?!?!?!? thanks!
just go up to your dad and tell him because odds are that hes going to find out. so just go up to him when hes in a good mood ((perfurable)) and tell him you need to tell him something. and just say you started your periode a day ago.
evertime i become friends with guys i wind up either falling for them and getting hurt or something else. but it ALWAYS ends up BAD.
i cant handle it anymore so ive givin up talking to boys, looking at boys, talking ABOUT boys, being with boys, having a boyfriend, you got the point.
over-reacting? is this typical? any other advice..?
you cant give up it might be hard because it hurts when guys break your heart but you cant give up on finding the right one there is someone who wont hurt you. theres always going to be guys that come and go but ull find one that wont hurt you. just dont give up.
that sounds kinda sappy but i hope i helped.
when i wake up in the morning i have my mind set on school and bringing my grades up but when i getto school i began to skip what is the problem dio i have skipping problem.;
get one of your friends to help you not skip. like ask them to walk you to class or w/e.
Some of my friends are smoking (cigarettes). I'm really worried but I don't think they'll listen to me if I ask them to stop. Should I stop hanging out with them or what? I'm afraid of being pressured by them.
just try talking to them. if they dont listen then it doesnt mean you have to stop hanging out with them just if they pressure you then there not your friends in the first place. just try talking to them and if they dont listen and you feel like you dont need to hang out w/ them then dont.
my relationship with my boyfriend is very complicated. i need solutions. we fight about little things all the time. now we dont hang out nemore, hes always with his friends and i dont feel very close to him anymore. i need to hang out with my friends more but i dont know what to do with them to hang out with them. also i want to make my boyfriend something but i dont know what to make him.... thanks
well to me it sounds like you need a new boyfriend i mean you can do better like someone who will hangout w/ you and you will feel close to. and as for hanging out with your friends go to the movies or the mall thats what i do.
hope i helped
ok sorry its long but... i have a lot of problems and i dont know whats wrong with me. there are just so many things...here are just a few:
1-i cut myself...like really deep to the point where i pass out and wake up with blood all over
2-i pull the ends of my hair on urdge
3-i feel tension and stress about everything bad
4-i over analyze EVERYTHING makeing it scary and bad
5-i think about suicide all the time
6-my mood can change in an instant-one minute ill be all happy and something will happen or someone will say something and ill go all depressed
7-i burn myself on occasion
8-i find it really hard to express my feelings and what imthinking b/c ik that noone will understand...they will try but they just dont get what im going through unless they r goin through it too
9-i am always tired all the time b/c i dont sleep much...i havent in like a week
10-i have lost a lot of weight b/c i refuse to eat and when some one makes me eat i throw it back up
11-at times i will find my self sitting in my room and all of a sudden i will just like start crying and i will cry for hours
12-for the past year i have been trying so hard to make it sound like i am happy and im so good to the point where my parents think that i am a "happy delightful young lady who is fun to be around"
you see? there are so many things wrong with me and like i have tried sooo many different ways to cope with the stress in my life but like nothing that i have tried works! its just realy hard and idk what to do.
ill rate high for good answers...nothing cocky plz
♥ rrenef ♥
everyone gos threw stress i no its hard to deil with sometimes but just try to coup with it because it will get better i swear ive been threw it. i mean i wouldnt eat or sleep and i have doen that be4 but it will get better i promise. sometimes i sit in my room and cry. but after i talk to my friends and it all seems better. it might feel like ur world is falling apart now but it will get better. i promise.
I hope i helped.