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am i over reacting?
evertime i become friends with guys i wind up either falling for them and getting hurt or something else. but it ALWAYS ends up BAD.
i cant handle it anymore so ive givin up talking to boys, looking at boys, talking ABOUT boys, being with boys, having a boyfriend, you got the point.
over-reacting? is this typical? any other advice..?
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you cant give up it might be hard because it hurts when guys break your heart but you cant give up on finding the right one there is someone who wont hurt you. theres always going to be guys that come and go but ull find one that wont hurt you. just dont give up.
that sounds kinda sappy but i hope i helped.
<3Tabby
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Yes I believe that you are over-reacting. Not ALL boys are like that. I believe that you will find a nice boy and that you shouldn't give up on the search. But NEVER GO OUT WITH A BOY THAT IS YOUR FRIEND! Ruins the relationship
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You will find the right boy sometime but if you really want to give up boys you might not ever find the right one for you.
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You need to learn to keep some guy friends WITHOUT "falling for them." Do you have any brothers? I'm guessing you don't, because typically girls who are like this rarely have brothers.
Coming from a tomboy with five brothers, I have more guy friends than I have girl friends. I just tend to like guys as friends more than girls.
On the other hand, one girl in my class can't talk to a guy without "falling for them" or flirting with them. She doesn't have ANY brothers, and she's rarely been around guys her entire life.
There's also a girl who is a complete slut, hangs all over guys, etc., and she's an only child.
Learn to be a guy's best friend without having any romantic interest in him.
You may also be a bit immature, romantically. Wait for a while, determine what you're looking for in a guy, and then search for a guy meeting your standards. Narrow it down to a select few.
If there's one thing guys hate, it's a girl who flirts with everyone and their brother.
Just relax for a few months, and start over.
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You're fine. My guess is that you're young. I did this to a degree myself. It seems like you're just not ready for guys to be a part of your life. Don't worry about it, when you are ready there will be lots of opportunites for you and you will be able to see a lot clearer and understand guys a lot better. Sometimes it's good for you to sit back for awhile and keep guys out of the picture. At this time in your life hormones are raging and a lot of times it's best to do what you're doing to keep yourself from making a bad decision and getting hurt. Don't completely throw guys out of your life though. Good luck!
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im not trying to be mean, but yes i think your overreacting ... just try to handle your emotions, and dont let your self fall for them, even if you have to pick out all their flaws.
hope i helped !
XO LiZ OX
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over-reacting...just a tad. You may have been hurt by some guys but not all guys are like that. That nice guy could be right infront of you, but you won't know bc yu say your have given up. Try getting to know them well, maybe then you can learn to trust them. I hope this helps.
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Hey hun in my opinion you are over reacting just a bit.
I think it is quite impossible to stop talking about boys hanging out with them, etc. I wouldn't be able to do that.
Alot of girls become friends with guys and end up falling in love with them and getting hurt. I know it has happeend to me a few times.
You can't let that get to you so much that you would want to give up on them.
Goodluck hun and remember not all guys will hurt you at the end and if you do give up on guys you might miss out on a terrific guy.
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