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i am a cheerleader....i have a crush and like he likes me..but yea hes weird..ne way uhmm dont write stupid crap in this thing! okay..jut ask me questions!

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Ok im 13 and im in 8th grade..and im already tired of school. Ok? Like i have a lot of friends i just dont like people and all the drama with my friends so it takes all of me to get up in the morning and go to school. Then like the teachers are ok and all but they just put too much pressure on me and i teach myself better than they teach me. So i want to be homeschooled for highschool...my sister said she would do it i mean she works at home anyway. But my dad doesnt think its such a very good idea because then i may not get into a good college but i dont know if i want to go to college...i really desperately need help.. should i stick it out and try for college or just be homeschooled what would you do? Also im pretty much inlove with this guy actually im fully inlove with this guy and we have our whole lives planned together. So we want to get married as soon as I graduate because he's joining the marines and like thats another thing... i was gonna live on base with him... so i dont kno what to do. I dont know if i want college and i dont know if i was to be homeschooled... i'm really thinking about it but then like i dont kno im just so confused can anyone help??
Sorry if this is confusing i just kinda wrote what i was thinking and my toughts are all jambled right now...please help!
Kayte

okay well ill start from the begginning...8th grade, supposed to be a funn year ... stick with school. Yea it might seem like you learn better from yourself but school is an experience in itsself, plus school gives yu a reason to get out of the house
moving on....
College ... i dont think it matters if you are home schooled our not...you would probably just need the money..bc i think a teacher has to recomend yu with like good grades..not sure on that one
moving on..
In "love" itsjust a word..orkay for starters how old is this guy? hmm because your only 13...dont move...when he comes back and yu still have feeling for eachother it is probably meant to be...and when he leaves say you have an "open" relationship...this way your not "dating" but once he comes back you will know for sure if hes the guy yu want...there are MILLIONS of fish in the sea dont just count on this one...uhmm i think that covered it all..hope this helped yu
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i feel as if my friends hate mee.. i feel like i shouldnt even have friends sometimes.. they just put me down.. they make me seem as if i cant do what i really want to do.. they make me just want to.. i dont know.. i just wish i could be differnt.. i always feel like the one who doesnt fit in oh my god.. i dont know what to do!

i know how yu feel seriously..i can relate by always when im a cheer everyone pressures me telling me im weak i need muscle...i use THAT as my strength...i know what i can do. As long as yu know too you will do just fine. if yu know that yu can do it...you will be fine.. hope this helps.
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I feel soo left out of everything. I feel as if I just dont belong where I am.. I think I should find new friends. I wish I could move. I just hate it here because no body likes me it seems like. Anything to do about ?

Well one thing to ask yourself is . . . do yu have funn with them? and when yu are doing something do they look like they are having funn. Or are yu included in things they do. If your not then ditch them and find nicer ppl. I did that and wow...i noticed alot of things that i had been missing out on. Smebody out there does like yu. so dont give up looking for them.
hope this helps =)

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Lets see...i really like this guy..and i think he likes me.. hes having this party friday night (tomaorw) and he like wants to make out with me there but like i dont know how and im scared if i dont he'll brake upp with me.. what do i do ?

Uhmm i just andwered that question...

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Well, if your scared to try making out don't. If he rly likes you he'll understand if he rly likes you. If he says that he will, hes a jerk and you shouldnt want to be in a relationship with him any ways. I know alot of guys like that. But a little tip. Guys like girls who challenge them. Once they get to your your like olf news to them. Thats just how their stupid brains work. So if you dont want to...dont...but before you do (if you do) ;think; *am i doing this just so he wont break up with me...or i like him soo much!*
Hope this helps =)

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ok so heres the thing i just started dating this guy but he has done some bad things like he shopelifted once and he cheated on one of his old girl friends i really like him but i dont no y all my friends told me i shouldnt like him but my mom told me to do what i think is right but i really really like him and i dont think i should and it is just so confussing but he promised me he would never do that stuff agian i just dont no what i should do plz help
♥~*marykate*~♥

Well if that was me, make him promise and if you find one tiny bit of information he is going to be kicked to the curb. Let him know that you are very serious. If he likes you as much as you like him he will probably respect that.

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what is a good age to babysit and like how much should i charge per hour cause i am babysitting with a friend and we are going to split the money. about how long to the parents stay out for. thanks i rate high

Well what i would do is just once your finished babysitting just say "As much as you think i deserve" sometimes they might hound you but just keep saying "As much as you think." sometimes that will show them that you arnt greedy. Also be sure to put in there that you and your friend are going to split the money. Parents who knows how long..normaly they will tell you about how long they will be gone. hope this help =)

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i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!! i think i like the same guy that my best friend likes...me and this guy have been friends for a long time and my best friend has liked this guy for a while too...i dont know what to do cuz i want to get over him cuz of my friend!! please help!!!!

Well come right out and ask your friend if they she likes him too. Its okay to like the same guy. But if shes a true friend she wouldn;t go out with him without talking to you first and you should do the same. I hope this helps you =)

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how can u loose ten lbs fast
if it helps i weigh 110 and i am 5'4". thanx

you say that you way 110...that isnt much...you dont need to drop 10 lbs your at the perfect weight

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okay so theres this guy. him and my really good friend were going out but then she dumped him like a month or two ago. ever since then ive had feelings for him. while we were talking online once i asked him who he liked. he didnt want to tell me, because he didnt think she likes him back. im really starting to like him, but i dont know if we could ever go out because of my friend. so what do yall think i should do?

Well i know most girls say that you cant go out with your friends boyfriend..but many girls love to break that rule. Well anyway i would just say ask your friend about it. She was the one who brok up with him so she it shouldn't bother her that much. But just make sure she tells you the truth. =)

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problem alert! i really like this guy, but he likes someone else. he's liked her since like 4th grade, and he's never liked anyone else.
heres' the twist: even though i asked him out a month ago, and he wasn't exactly talky after that (he said no) lately he's been pretty nice to me, and even a little flirty. so, does this mean he likes me now? i still like him... what do i do??

Well lets face it it...guys are pretty complicated when it comes to girls...well their more like idiots...lol well anyways i would try by asking some of his friends...and go from there. Maybe try hanging out with him and talking to him more. It could just be his hormones..yea i know that sounds bad but who knows. hope this helps =)

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evertime i become friends with guys i wind up either falling for them and getting hurt or something else. but it ALWAYS ends up BAD.
i cant handle it anymore so ive givin up talking to boys, looking at boys, talking ABOUT boys, being with boys, having a boyfriend, you got the point.

over-reacting? is this typical? any other advice..?

over-reacting...just a tad. You may have been hurt by some guys but not all guys are like that. That nice guy could be right infront of you, but you won't know bc yu say your have given up. Try getting to know them well, maybe then you can learn to trust them. I hope this helps.

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