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should I or shouldnt I?
ok so heres the thing i just started dating this guy but he has done some bad things like he shopelifted once and he cheated on one of his old girl friends i really like him but i dont no y all my friends told me i shouldnt like him but my mom told me to do what i think is right but i really really like him and i dont think i should and it is just so confussing but he promised me he would never do that stuff agian i just dont no what i should do plz help
♥~*marykate*~♥
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A guy cant control what he does it is something that we hace that they dont. He sounds like someone you shouldnt date but you never know he might have changed. You should at least give it a shot and if it doesnt work out at least you tryed. You really like him then you should go after him.
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Well a lot of people cant change their ways, but some do. So I think if you really like him you should give him a chance, but only one chance. Then he can prove that hes changing. If he screws up then it shows that hes not changing. You seem like a really good person thats concerned about herself, and I respect that and so should he, so explain to him that you want to keep out of trouble, but you really like him, so he needs to keep out of trouble too. And make sure he knows if he cheats on you, even if its just once, that hes gone! You deserve better than that.
Good luck, I hope everything turns out for you.
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don't let your friends tell you what to do. think over what you want. if he keeps his promise than i hope that you have a good relationship. tell your friends that he has changed. good luck!
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Honestly it does not sound like he is a good person for you..on the other hand people change and if he has never done this stuff to you it would be your decision to give it a chance but the downfall would be if he unintentionally hurts you in some way. But as for the cheating--once a cheater always a cheater usually doesnt change unless the person grows up and realizes the hurt that has caused the other person. So i would not tell you yes or no but look at the overall picture and if you dont have good feelings about it then you probobly should not put yourself in that situation or set yourself up for trouble Hope i could help
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I think that you should go for it. I mean, sure he has a bad past, but so do a lot of other people. He COULD have changed, not saying that he has, since then & you could have a wonderful relationship together. Who knows. Date him & see how it goes.. it's worth a chance if you really like him. Hopefully he has changed like he promised you though! ♥
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If you're concerned then there is a reason for it. Deep down if you want to go out with him then go right ahead, but if he does do those things again I would take it for granted.
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He really doesn't sound like the kind of guy that you could take his word for something. If you like him THAT much, you might as well go out, but don't be surprised if he does cheat on you, etc.
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If your this conserened there is probably a reason. Now deep down you might want think about this . (What are the chances of him doing something like this while you are dating him?) When you ask that to yourself I'm sure you will get the answer. your just going to have to listen to your heart. And don't let your friends make the decision for you. It is up to you.
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Well if that was me, make him promise and if you find one tiny bit of information he is going to be kicked to the curb. Let him know that you are very serious. If he likes you as much as you like him he will probably respect that.
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ok i think you should give him a chance..we all have our pasts..just because hes done some bad things in the past, it doesnt mean he shouldnt get a shot. ive done some bad things in the past but im an overall good person..so what im tryin to say is nobody is perfect..everyone has their pasts and stuff...and just because he cheated ..it doesnt mean he will do it again..and the same goes for shoplifting
just my opinion.
-meliss
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