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not sure what to do!
okay so theres this guy. him and my really good friend were going out but then she dumped him like a month or two ago. ever since then ive had feelings for him. while we were talking online once i asked him who he liked. he didnt want to tell me, because he didnt think she likes him back. im really starting to like him, but i dont know if we could ever go out because of my friend. so what do yall think i should do?
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i don't think u should go out with him. or u could just ask your friend what she thinks about it. because she broke up with him.
talk to your friend,
hope i helped Kay<3
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then same thing happened to me...go for it hun! if she dumped him then apparently she doesnt exactly have those feelings for him no more! go for it and dont worry...Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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i think you should ask yer friend, would yu be mad if i went out with one of ur x's. If she says yes ask ehr why, and if no go for it!
hope this helped!
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Lo
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I think that since SHE broke up with HIM and not the other way around, that it would be fine for you to go out with him. The girl that he was talking about online was definitly you, so I think that it would be fine if you went out.
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-kendallski03
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Well i know most girls say that you cant go out with your friends boyfriend..but many girls love to break that rule. Well anyway i would just say ask your friend about it. She was the one who brok up with him so she it shouldn't bother her that much. But just make sure she tells you the truth. =)
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In my eyes it seems that he is still hungover his ex girlfriend and its gonna take him awhile to get over it. THis all depends on how bad you want him. If you dont think that you really want him that bad, then just stay as a friend and move on to a better guy; however, if it's killing you then here's what you should do: Step 1 ask you friend if she still likes him in any way shape or form. Also ask how would she feel ifagurl wen otu with one of her friends ex's. If she cool about it then go to step 2 if not then stop because you dont wanna lose your friends no matter what. Step 2 Try to male your feelings none to him unsuspectdly. Make it seem like your caring for his feelings and saying that your liking him at the same time. Example, "I kno how you feel and im sorry what happen i wish there was something i could do to make you feel better." The more sincere you are then you and him would grow to close friends best friends he boy and girl friend. If you wanna take it that far. Hope i was helpful.
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If she dumped him, then why should she care if you go out with him? It ususally only matters if HE dumps HER. I've been in that situation where I've liked my friend's ex. She was cool with it. If you're still worried, talk to your friend about it.
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i dont think it is a good idea to go out with this guy because he is a really good friends of yours ex boyfriend. she still might have feelings for hima nd you might ruin your friendship with ehr because of this guy. if i were you i would only be friends with him and nothin else unless you want to lose a friend. and even if you talk your friend about it she will act tough and strong and tell you she is over him but the truth will be it will kill her to see you wit him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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I would talk to your friend about the possibility first and then if she's okay with it, go ahead. Speaking from experience, I know what it's like to have a friend start dating someone you previously dated, and it would be nice to have a little input.
If she agrees, then keep flirting with this guy and see if he might expose some feelings for you, maybe even ask him about it.
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