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**i need to get over him**
i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!! i think i like the same guy that my best friend likes...me and this guy have been friends for a long time and my best friend has liked this guy for a while too...i dont know what to do cuz i want to get over him cuz of my friend!! please help!!!!
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Hey sweetie,
This is a really great question. It shows that you have a great relationship with your friend, and you don't want to lose your friendship with her by going out with this guy. To get over him, you should just occupy yourself with a lot of fun things to do. Go shopping, hang out with friends, play games, go on the internet, go to a movie, take walks around the block, and just keep telling yourself that this guy is off limits to you. Eventually you'll meet a really sweet guy who you'll be able to go out with. I think your an awesome friend for wanting to get over this guy, instead of going out with him. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Good luck with this! If you have anymore questions, just leave them in my inbox. Luv ya! <3 KiMmY
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its great that your so loyal to your best friend. what you should do is talk to your friend. it will help, and she probably will feel better about you talking to her rather than just keeping it to yourself. you really only have a problem if the guy happens to like one of you, so you guys need to talk about what you would do if that happened. no matter what though, don't let this guy get in the way of your friendship. hope i helped! ♥
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See if you can find another guy to get your mind off this one. Talk to your friend about the guy and see how she feels. You said you THINK that she likes him so I'd make sure that its 100% true.
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i think if you like this guy as much as your friend does he should be fair game but of course make sure your frined first knows that you like the same guy to! remeber that guys come and go but best friends last forever so always put your friendship first ok and good luck!
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Well come right out and ask your friend if they she likes him too. Its okay to like the same guy. But if shes a true friend she wouldn;t go out with him without talking to you first and you should do the same. I hope this helps you =)
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Hey there!
You sound like your in some drama!It's gonna be hard to get over your crush because I'm still trying to get over my ex boyfriend who now has a girlfriend.All I'm saying is that I know how you feel and sometimes it's really helpful to know that somebody else out there is in the same place as you are.If you really feel you have to get over this guy that you've liked for a while, than that's really sweet and it shows that you really care about her feelings.If you don't want to stop liking him than it still shows you care about your friend.Liking the same guy as your friend isn't a bad thing, it just shows that you guys have the same taste for the same guys.Just talk to your friend about this.Maybe you guys can help eachother get the guy you want.I don;t know but I remember when me n my friends did that all the time and who ever gets him so be it!And then we'd help each other find another guy to get it wasn't a game but it keot us busy for a while until we went our seperate ways.And remember if all else fails talk to God!He's there for you, and he's there for you!
Ashley a.k.a GodLovesYOU
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hey gurl. I know what you're going throught.. ok, i argee that you should try to get over him, if you can. Friends should come before guys.
Heres how you do it, go to the mall with friends and look for hott guys. also you could ask your other friends to hook you up with single guys they know. try to find someone else who your friends dont like him
i hope i helped, tell me what happened.
Jackie
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if your friendship was strong enough, neither one of you would get mad over some boy. obviously you both like him, so now it's up to the guy to decide. (if he even likes either one of you, that is.) leave it up to him, just don't let it ruin your friendship!
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well ya gotta ask yourself...is this guy more important than your friendship...talk to your friend about it!!
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