Question Posted Saturday December 17 2005, 8:17 pm
Ok there is a boy who I have like the hugest crush on. But sometimes he can be so mean then I think "I hate him". Then the next day I'll like him. But most of the time he is nice. Now I think he likes me a little but how do I find out or not thats the thing? :( Please help me!
PinkPrincess42 answered Sunday December 18 2005, 1:18 pm: Sometimes the way a guy flirts is to act like he doesnt like you. It may be a little immature, but thats just how some guys operate. That may just be his mood for the day. If you like him then whats the big deal? If he always flirting with you and talking to you chances are he just might. Be foward with your flirting. Go for it, girl!
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advicenator55 answered Sunday December 18 2005, 11:50 am: well i think if you like a guy older then you you should go for it invite him over do something together let him no how much fun you are having being with him then just let him no again anf if this works let me no
Mercy_x_Me answered Sunday December 18 2005, 11:33 am: Well, ask yourself. Does he flirt with you more than he does with other girls? Does he go out of his way to say things or do things that most guys don't just do?
If the answer is yes to those two questions, maybe he does like you. And maybe he's just being mean because he's trying to hide the fact he likes you. Maybe that sounded a little cliche, but it could be true. Maybe he just has no clue what the right thing would be to say to you. Or, if it seems like he's intentionally mean for no reason whatsoever, maybe he just uses you? That would be the downside. But, I could be wrong. It's up to you to judge.
PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Sunday December 18 2005, 2:32 am: Hey hun!
I think you should talk to him and just ask him how he feels about you. You could just IM him, email him, call him, or write him a note. The worst he'd say is no. Just come right out and ask him if he'd ever consider being more than friends with you. I'm sure he'd give you an honest answer. I'm actually the exact same way with my really good friend right now. At certain times he can be very nice, and then at other times he really hurts my feelings. I found out he actually does like me because he told me himself when I asked him. If you want to find out if this kid really likes you, just pay attention to the things he does. If he smiles at you a lot, winks, says hi all the time, wants to hang out with you, ask's what's wrong when your not feeling good, tries to impress you, teases you a little bit and jokes around with you, or just does little things for you out of generosity then he probably does like you. He doesn't have to do all of these things though. I hope I helped you out hun! If not I'm really sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Good luck with this. Let me know how it goes. <3 KiMmY [ PrEtTyKiTtY0428's advice column | Ask PrEtTyKiTtY0428 A Question ]
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