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I Have A GREAT Friend but she sometimes makes fun of the way I look like she will say " your nose looks weird or you have a double chin! haha" and She isnt a serious person and It hurts my feelings. What Can I say to her! Please dont say things like "Slap her, hit her, etc."
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tell her you dont like her saying that stuff about you she most likely will understand. if not then shes not a very good friend. so get a new one.
<3 Tabby
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Well you could tell her your my best friend and the things that you say to me about my looks really hurt my feeling and I wish that you would stop. If she doesn't stop maybe she's not a great friend. I hope that I helped.
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Hey hun!
Awwww that is horrible! I'm sorry! That's really mean that your friend makes fun of the way you look. Any true friend would not make fun of the way their friend looks. You need to let her know that when she says things about the way you look, it makes you feel horrible. After letting her know she should stop, but if not you should really stop talking to her. That is not a real friend at all. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm really sorry. Leave one in my inbox if you have anymore questions. <3 KiMmY
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dont take it personally...but you COULD slap her, haha jkjkjk
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I think you should just tell her that your hurting her feelings and if she says shes just joking around tell her you dont think its funny, and if she doesnt stop maybe you should take more serious actions.
hope i helped
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chances are, she's just kidding, especially since you said she isn't serious. she probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings, so what you should do is next time she does it, just be like "it hurts my feelings when you say stuff like that, please stop" and she'll prolly stop. hope i helped! ♥
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Dear Writer
She proboly does not know she is making fun of you. She is proboly just trying to be funny. Just tell her that she sometimes hurts your feelings. If she is a great friend she wont get mad. She may get a little bit mad but she will get over it. If she does not then dont worry about it. True friends tell each other how they feel. Whatever you decide to do dont be scared to tell her how you feel. Just be yourself, just Sparkle and Shine!
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All that "talking" to her shit will work but who the fuck wants to have that conversation with someone? Seriously. Just tell her to shut the fuck up next time. It doesn't even have to be mean just say "shut up atleast I'm prettier than you."
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say, i think im pretty and are you just jealous?
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dont hit or her or anything, just tell her how you feel and stuff. if she knows that it is hurting your feelings she will probably stop. if she still keeps talking about you then i wouldnt really plan on being her friend because she shouldnt talk about you that is toteli mean!
[♥] X-0H
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listen i have the same problems with my friend sam except its more of her complimenting herself like shes always saying im soo skinny i love.. it and im going to be straight froward im not that skinny soo hearing her say that hurts me a lot but see i told her and she stopped you should bring it uph to her .. or next time she says "oo uhmm You look fat today" be like "You dont look so skinny yourself" and when she says "what" be like "see it isnt that cool getting insults back now is it.." let her know it hurts you
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Hey. well i say that you tell her straight out that she sometimes does hurt your feelings and that youd like her to be a little more sensetive towards you tahts all because how else is she going to know and you want to be as close to your friends as you can get good luck hope everything works out
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kind of like what some other people said, just say hey, i know you're joking around and stuff but i take it seriously and could you stop? it's hurting my feelings. that will most likely work and it will never bother you again!
Good luck!
<3~Kensey123
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Hmm. you most likely dont wanna sit down with her and say "well, friend, it hurts me when you say certain things". just be like..."uhm, thanks??" to make her feel bad or something about her being fat (even if shes not). Do the same thing she does to you to her, so she shuts up. It works haha. Sorry if my advice doesnt help, but its what i would do. =] goodluck!
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