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Previous Relationship jeaporidzing Life noW
My past relationship hurt me so bad, that all I want to do know is be cool with everyone. The only thing is a lot of boys want to go with me and I want to talk to them but everytime I think about the hurt that this last boy caused me that I don't want to go through it again. Can someone help me think of ways to get over it. Thank YOu
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♥ the way to get over it is to explore your options go out with the guys who wanna go out with you..i mean if you dont go out with someone your always gonna think about you ex but if you go out with someone then youll think about the guy who treated you well..sry i couldnt help much :(
xOxO--Janee`
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During life, we ALL go through heartache and heart break, it's all part of the path that life has for us. You've got to put yourself above the rest, stick your chin up and be in control of your life and tell yourself what was the past, is in the past and a new leaf will be turned.
G'luck!
x Steph x
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I know exactly how you feel. I don't really trust anyone anymore since none of my so called "realtionships" have really been so great....Well I'm not here to tell you about all my heartbreak tragedies. I'm here to help you. I think that you are right about needing sometime to just chill and take a break from relationship stress. I know you feel flattered that many guys want to go out with you, but that shouldn't make a difference. You need some time to just relax and have some "me" time. You can get to know these boys better, but try to look for friends rather than boyfriends. When you feel ready to date again, then go ahead. Just follow your instinct and you will know.
&hearts
-Johanna
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I was like that. It still comes into mind every once in a while. But now I'm as happy as can be in the relationship I'm in now. It'll go away once you find someone you really care about. You can't make the feeling go away forever too soon, but the right guy can. When he comes along you're going to be so happy with him that you won't care about the other guy, but you will still be afraid every now and then of being hurt like you were before. But "the guy"'s love will reassure you.
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Realize that not all guys are like that and move on. Make yourself do it and just go out with another guy. You won't get over it until you find a guy that's different.
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I know how that feels, because that's the same problem with me. You don't need to start dating again. At least not until you are ready for a new relationship. You will always be scared to get your heart broken and I think majority of girls feel that way. A lot of us go through bad break up's and are scared for a new relationship. You need to remember that not every guy will hurt you and not every guy can make it perfect. Right now, you shouldn't be looking for ways to get over it. You shouldn't have to. Whenever you are ready to go out with someone new then go for it. It's okay to be scared and worryed for yourself but you have to give these guys a chance. Make sure you know them before you go out with one. You'll be okay. Good luck =)
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Don't date until you are ready. You know that not all guys are like the guy you dated last, but it can take a little time for your trust to build back up. If those guys that want to go out with you now really want to go out with you they will wait until you are ready. If they don't wait then they're not worth it. There's no reason to rush back into the dating world, give yourself a little break and don't worry, you'll be ready soon enough. Good luck! <3
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This may sound hard but You cant let him get to you .. he probably wants you to not go on going out wiht other guys.. you holding yourself back from having fun in your teen years isnt gonna make him come back or make you have the feeling you had when you were with him.. guys will come and go but theyre not all bad i myself have found a good one.. some of themm wont hurt you and the ones who will arent worth it..
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look, its gonna be hard for you to get over your past heartache. but not all guys are gonna be like that one heart breaker. you have to be able to regain your trust in them!
hope i helped you out!
helpingbuddy01
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hey well if you want to go out with someone-minus the fact of how hurtful the last one turned out, you should! just choose wisely; choose a REALLY nice and caring guy who even if he did break up with you, he would most likely have a good reason and be nice about it. xoxohelpachick
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