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getting back my ex
Please help,
I broke up with my girlfriend about 6 months ago, and I have been depressed ever since. About 1 month ago I ran into her and I have made numerous attempts by calling her way too much and going over to her house to try and talk to her but she does not want to see me. "I broke off the relationship". She is seeing an older man in his late 50's I am 31 and she is 36. What should I do.
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First of all, that guy is way too old for her. Does his penis even work? Try being nice to her but don't push it. If you're too clingy it doesn't help your situation. I know that because I broke up with my boyfrined not to long ago becuase he always followed me, trust me it's not attractive.
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well talk to her tell her why you did. and then tell her how you feel about her. she might feel the same. if she doesnt all i can say is just find your way out and find someone new.
Hope i Helped.
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I think you should tell her that you still like her and that she doesn't need to go out with older men because that is just nasty. Try to talk to her.
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Awwww! Well, firstly, you obviously hurt her but I doubt that was intentional. Why not write her a handwritten letter and post it through the door. Just be sweet.
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I thnk you should let her go. Go out with firends and meet other people. If you keep trying to call her and go over to her house she might think that your staking her. Try and do stuff to get your mind off of her. Get a hobbie or something .
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well thats hard you really cant make her like you and well you did break her heart some people dont get over things like that verry easily soo ... try emailing her or somthin and try talkin to her if she doesnt want too then well you gonna have too give up im sorry but then later she might wana come back to you if she really lover you !! hope i helped !!
♥ Samra
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although its hard, you need to move on. my suggestion dont get into a serious relationship too quickly and watch the movie Big Daddy and jus know that you will end up with someone who is way better for you...and she is with an old guy lol cheer up!
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Kiki
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im going to start off bye saying what the people under me are saying its going to be VERY hard and you probably have already realised that! my boy friend split up with me on thurs i was with him for 13 months he was literally everything to me and we split up because of his religion and his mum made him choose between us. we still love each other but we cant talk to each its breaking my heart to pieces and i cant imagian the rest of my life without him im just trying to say i know it was very hard!
Right stop and think why you broke up with her in the first place, did she understand the reason? did she know how u felt and did she know how u felt? if yes think why is she not talking to you.
maybe try writing a letter to her and i would write it all on the computer that way before she opens it she doesn't know it's you. write down how you feel and that your sorry and its like 6 months on and its still destroying you. make it really cute and deep.
if you tried that and it didnt work
have you tried talking to her friends see how she feels explain to them what the situation is for you, how you feel. friends listen to each other and when her frend next see's her it will all come out and she will understand. tell her you understand she's going out with another person and that you understand you probably wont get back with her but say can't you still be friends and at least end it on a happy note not how it is now.
hope that gives you some guidelines to go on x x x
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ok im only 13 but i can help you. do whatever you can! send her flowers on her birthday, valentines day get her some chocolates, and something nice on christmas. and try to be careful with her new boyfriend. keep trying to call her. she might end up wanting you back. hope i helped! jess
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Well maybe you should forget about her because evidently she's gotten over you. Just try to forget her and move on.
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