hi, i need some advice, i gave my now ex boyfriend a lend of some money& said he would pay me back , but hasnt yet/ i dont want to get his parents involed/ i need to know how to get the money back soon.
Sister-Help answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 1:03 pm: 1st rule with ex's NEVER LEND THEM MONEY but now as thats 2 late we can move on. Tell him to give you your money back or you will have to ask his parents for it. He doesnt know you arnt goin to tell anyway. Or just don lend him money again but you HAVE to get it off him he is being a jerk. [ Sister-Help's advice column | Ask Sister-Help A Question ]
dancinchikita answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 11:56 am: it depends how much money you lent him. if you lent him a little, remind him like once a week. if its alot then everyday! if he hasnt given it to you in about 2 weeks, then you should get his parents or your parents involved! [ dancinchikita's advice column | Ask dancinchikita A Question ]
angel_sarah23 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 11:46 am: yeah im in the was situation my boy friend of 13 months didnt have much money and i had to lend him some for all different reason he says he'll pay me back my £40 if you really need it back say now im in a struggle with money could i have it back you could just say that was my money could i have it back?
if he doesnt have it maybe then you could threaten him saying you'll ring his mum if its alot! i knwo that not a nice idea but it could bring him back with the cash x good luck x [ angel_sarah23's advice column | Ask angel_sarah23 A Question ]
rainbowNsunshine91 answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 11:36 am: I would go up to him one day and say:
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