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friends...something more?


Question Posted Monday November 7 2005, 10:41 pm

i really like a guy friend of mine. he told me he doesnt feel the same. about a month and a half later we hooked up (just made out) and we both really liked it. we have a really strong friendship bond and we talk (kinda) dirty to each other. my question : do you think this can blossom into something more? like, can someone who doesnt like someone start to like them after time goes by and the two people get really close? any personal experiences is also appreciated if you can
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silversky89 answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 8:27 pm:
I went out with best friend for 10 months and it was one of my longest relationships because of one key factor: communication. If you guys talk, then by all means, go for it. If you feel a connection then you should give it a shot, thinking of the possible conseqences of a losing a friend.
Best wishes,
Elli

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happy-helper answered Wednesday November 9 2005, 1:35 pm:
Yes it can, I'm sure it can. Because if 'x' told 'y' that she liked him, 'y' now knows that he has an admirer so starts paying more attention to 'x'.
x Steph x
P.S If you want to talk more, puddycat11@hotmail.com is my email, feel free to add me and I can try and help some more if you want me to :)

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Courtney answered Tuesday November 8 2005, 9:02 am:
My opinion is that this can happen but it depends on how much time has passed between the time that he told you that he didn't feel that way towards you. People can change, therefore their feelings can change. I think that this may blossom into something but you have to make sure that this is absolutely blossoming into something by asking him again later on . Again, time, yes, I know. But you don't only want to be his friend with those benefits, you know what I mean. Just make sure after some time has passed,that you absolutely know how he feels about you and to know this, you have to ask. And it usually takes quite some time so don't rush it and don't force it. Make sure that you're yourself and real.

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