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Depression...well i don't really know......
OK i am 13/m and about a month ago my gf broke up with me (she said she wanted to go back out with her ex) well i was extremely sad for maybe a day or 2. then after a week i didnt really care anything about it. Well last week (about 3 weeks after me and my ex broke up) I started feeling weird, like my heart was gone and i felt that i like couldnt care or love anybody anymore and i still feel that way. My friend says its juvenile depresion and i think it is too but i just dont know what caused it and i hate the feeling! And the weird thing is that i have like 14 girls that want to go out with me and normally i would pick on and move on but.....its just like i dont care anymore...please help me guys....i dont know what to do! :'(
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what your experiencing is a broken heart. after a few days you were over it, but as the weeks went on, you oviously felt as if your missing her more now. i know pretty much how you feel, except i was imediately depressed and heartbroken. possibly, you could just stay single for awhile. it takes about twice the time you were together to get over a girl. you oviously care about this girl and shes something special to you. but she is with another guy, and if she still is, i dont really think you should interfere. especially if you try to break them up, because ur doing what he did to you - 'stealing' the girl and bringing sadness and a broken heart to the guy. maybe, you should tell her how you feel about it, and just become friends and talk. and after awhile, you could get another chance with her. oviously if she dumped you for another guy, she wasnt that pleased with your relationship with her. So, just talk to her, be nice and understandable, give her comfort and let her know your there for her. if you need any other help or advice, feel free to ask my column. thanks.
-mel.
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ok it's deffinatly not juvenile depresion. you'r still in love with your ex GF. She obviously stole your heart. I think you should just move on. If you still like her just tell her if she says she doesn't like you move on, theres other fish in the sea..
hop I helped
~ DR.Rachel ~
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i don't think you're going through depression, you're just still in love. (with your ex GF) breakups are hard in the beginning, but you're just going to need to learn to move on. who knows, maybe if you're not in such a crappy mood all the time, your ex GF may come back to you if that's what you really want. otherwise, take some time and be single, then go out with some new girls. it will help you get over her.
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