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im not sure if im ready
im 13 and a girl and this year i actually feel ready for sex. is that normal at this age? is there something wrong with me? i know a guy that is willing to have sex with me, should i have sex? if i do should i tell my parents?
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your 13 years old your not even in high school yet, i don't think your ready and you shouldn't have sex even if you think your ready because something could go wrong and your stuck with it hte rest of your life, wait until your older and save it for that special guy not just guy that is up and willing to have sex with you.*kim- rate me
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Listen, you are not even close to being ready for sex. Not only are you way too young for it, but you would be doing it with a guy whose 'willing' to have sex with you. Thats nothing special at all, just about any guy would have sex at your age. And also, can you afford being pregnant right now? At 13, not even close. I'm saying that pregnancy is a possible consequence to having sex. You are not ready for that. So no, you shouldn't have sex until you can afford those consequences, and don't think that it's just supporting a baby. It's having to drop out of school, soon becoming independent at paying your own way, and a lot more.
-TheTeenGirl
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its whatever you think. talk it over with your parent make sure they know so you dont end up getting in major trouble. condsider it. i also dont think 13 it to young of an age just make sure you use protection wink wink!! >3
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No, I don't think you should have sex. With 13 year olds, your changing and you start to think and learn about sex and you are curious and want to try new things, and I think your just thinking about it like everyone else. In my opinion, 13 is too young. You have to think about the consequences of what could happen. Would you really wnat to be pregnant at 13 years old? And what if your parents found out? They might want to have nothing to do with you. =/ And especially don't have sex with some guy that's just willing to do it. You should be in love with the person because sex is something that is shared between two people who love eachother very much and are mature enough and responislbe enough to come to that decision. And I might want to tell your parents ( probably your mother ) about these feelings you are having. She was a 13 year old girl too. Maybe she can tell you what it was like for her at her age also. So please.. wait until you are fully ready and are in love and feel you are 100% mature enough ( you and him ) to make that responsible of a decision. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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Unless you are ready to have a baby, you aren't ready for sex. You can't raise a baby at 13; I don't care how mature and ready you think you are. It costs a lot of money to raise a child (clothes, food, bottles, crib, toys... etc.).
13 is way too young to have sex. Just because you're a teenager doesn't magically make you mature. I'm not saying you're immature. What I'm saying is that just because you're a teen, that doesn't make you any more mature (emotionally) than you were when you were 12.
Plus, you act like it's a casual thing when you say:
"i know a guy that is willing to have sex with me, should i have sex?"
You should ONLY have sex with someone you LOVE. Sex is a big deal, and it shouldn't be done casually. Just because a guy wants to have sex with you, doesn't mean you should have sex with him.
Besides, the risks are there. STD's, HIV/AIDS, and pregnancy. You don't want an STD because some stay with you for a very, very long time. You DEFINITELY don't want HIV/AIDS, and you don't want to get pregnant, as I said in the first paragraph. JUST BECAUSE a guy says "I don't have HIV/AIDS or STD's" means nothing. He might not even know.
You might have sexual thoughts and/or feelings, which is normal at this age because you're going through puberty, but that doesn't mean you're ready for sex.
Bottom line is, don't do it. I think that you should wait.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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i can`t really talk...but i think that 13 is too young, but if you really think your ready, i`d wait until someone who loves you..or intends to, to do it with. It`s not as special with someone you just know.
hope i helped ?
XO LiZ OX
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I think it is normall for you to feel like you wanna have sex at that age but i dont think you should. and if you do deff. dont tell your parents caue i dont think they would like it. no body is topping you from doing it so do what you really want but if you do end up doing it just make sure you think of all the risks your taking.
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Have n't you heard of absintence? I guess its normal , but no one actually does it.i don't think u should do it, if u do tell your parents.
Think of this, your 15 and have a BABY!! that would ruin your ENTIRE life.
well hope i helped,
Kay <3
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no i dont think you should. i am friends with people in my grade ( they are 13 too ) and they had sex and afterward they were so upset because they said they made a big mistake. and besides, what if the condom breaks? or what if the birth control pill doesnt work? you dont want to have a baby at 13! wait until you are ready for a baby.
hope i helped!!
xoox
jess
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hey, I honestly think you should do what you feel. But I believe you should do it with someone you really want to be with. Just make sure you dont regret it. Really think about it before you do it because you defintly dont wanna regret it. Doing it first time you want to look back and know that you did it with someone special and because you wanted to do it. Just think it through first. I hope I helped you out! Goodluck!
<3chrissy
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hey girl
yes its normal for you to feel ready for sex but i think you're too young. when you're older you'll realize that is was a mistake because you're just caught up in your hormones. if you do decide to have sex you have to tell your parents. there's always a chance of you getting pregnant or std's.
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nd good luck
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I think that you are too young and I know that you are thinking that that is a stupid thought but that's what I think. I would hope that you'd wait because I want your very first time, like I want every girls first time, to be amazing. But you may be ready physically, but are you ready mentally. Are you absolutely sure that you can handle sex and the whole package. Including who you're having sex with. Don't have sex with a guy just because he's willing to have sex with you. You really want someone that TRULY LOVES AND CARES FOR YOU. If he doesn't really care for you, and he just wants to have sex for the hell of it, then don't waste your virginity on him. Trust me, virginity is a precious virtue and once you lose it you can't get back. I think, that at this age, it's normal to be ready for sex. And you might hate this, but we(you and I ) aren't mature enough for sex. But the real test to see if you're ready for sex is to get properly informed about sex. You know, about the diseases. Even if you already know about them, get informed. Then you have to take action about your affairs when it comes to having safe sex. Do not have sex without protection. But the best thing is that when you're not having sex, you don't have to worry about protection or pregnancy. You probably feel ready for sex because it's popular and because you feel physically ready, and physically you are ready. But are you really and EXTREMELY READY MENTALLY FOR SEX. Also, if you are ready, then I think it's up to you to tell your parents or not. I mean, why not tell them. Unless you're ashamed and being ashamed or being anything beside afraid clearly states that you aren't as ready as you think you are. Naturally you're going to be afraid, and it's going to be awkward, but if you can't tell them then you really shouldn't be doing it at all. It's all about your perspective and how you feel. In the end really, it's all about where your heart is. It's all about what you feel about sex. It's all about what you think you should do. Don't have sex just to have sex. Make sure it's very special to you. Also, I think that I should tell you, that guys absolutely love virgins to death, and believe it or not, that's what they really look for in a girl. Some to take the girls virginity but not all of them. Just think about it and follow your heart.
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wait until your older, cause you will regret it if you do it 2 soon, but if you want to do it any way use protection or talk 2 your doctor about goin on the pill.
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Hello there,
at 13 you probably want to experiece stuff and your hormones are kicking some people can handle some people just give in.
do what's best for you
do you know how your parents feel about this. no parent wants to hear about their kids getting boned but that's part of life.
sex isnt something you should have because someone wants you or is willing to have sex with you .
do it when you are reading most people regret having sex or should in say in your case LOSING THEIR VIRGINITY
beware of the consequences like pregnancy or std (sexual transmitted diseases).
i dont mean to scare you i'm just telling the naked truth.
even if you decide to get boned doo it with precautions
take care and God bless
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well, if you do, sheath the meat saber. if you feel up to it, then by all means. just don't get hurt.
-gunner
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Well, if you're not nervous and totally comfortable with your body, in some ways you might be ready. It isn't completely usual for someone your age, but it doesn't make you a dirty or bad person. If I were you, I'd just wait for a little bit until you find someone who you really care about, and then it will be that much better because you let it wait. Besides, there are a lot of consequences to having sex that you don't need to deal with right now, especially in middle school. I really don't want to sound like a typical preachy person here, but it's just really not necessary to have sex yet. Your parents will probably tell you the same thing and likely don't want you having sex. It's not worth the drama. Really.
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