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Hello,

I'm Kida.. Just want to help someone out in anyway i can.. so if you want some advice..i'm one click away

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Kida
Member Since: November 7, 2005
Answers: 15
Last Update: November 11, 2005
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im 13 and a female. everyday me and my bf go to our school library and hang there and we are usually kissing and making out but i dont really want to all i want to do is talk to him and some friends, snuggle close with him, and maybe a odd kiss a day if im in the mood. he love to snuggle with me too but he takes it too far and i really need to be answered tonight cuz tomorrow i might be biking to his house tomorrow and we will be alone and im sorta afraid of what he will do. is that wrong? what should i do? sry its so long.
**sleepiesheep** (link)
hello,
there since two of you have been going out for a while isnt there certain things that you to enjoy like sports think of things that he will normally do

think of things that you used to do before the kissing and making out started.

you can also be honest in a nice way and say you want things a little bit slow



Why could you pin only once a day at an other bank? (not the bank you join) (link)
first your question needs to be more specific

from your question i would say for security reasons to protect both the customer and also their banks from activities like fraud


I'm not fat but I would feel much better about myself and more confident if I was skinnier, what are some good ways to lose weight, i'm already in soccer and bearly eating anything, but i'm not losing weight. (link)
hi there,

football aka soccer isnt a good idea for losing weight it mainly focuses on your legs not your whole package.

try eating less fatty food and more vegetables and fruits and also drink lots of water.

losing weight cant be seen in a matter of days but its an ongoing thing

it you could also take walks or jogging that would be helpful.


okay so im 16 and the guy is 17. he is in my genetics class. and yaeh he may not be the cutest or anything but is so funny and is nice and all. he talks to me and stuff. been thinking i may like him more than a friend. just wondering if there are ways to know if a guy likes you as a friend or as in a more than a friend way.?? hope that made sense... any help/advice would be GREAT! :) (link)
hey,
sometimes he could be looking at you when you arent looking at him and smiling and asking you question which are random of course.

or it could be the total opposite he might not say a word hope he isnt the type.

Good luck


well my Sims2 is stratched well not alot . anyone know how to fix that without having to go buy a CD repair kit. ive already tried peanut butter,hair conditioner,&&perfume. i got those from websites and it didnt help (link)
how is it scratched is it the inside well there isnt anything i know that works except cleaning it. as i said it depends how big of a scratch it is


I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.



Question is: how should I go about handling this?

Should I bring it up to HIM first?

Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?

Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?



I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :( (link)
hi,
well she needs to know. but first i think she deserves happiness as much as you do.

most people would confront the him and if he says no

because it seems that he's just getting what he wants from you

but then again i don't know you or him to pass judgement.

if he deny it he , its up to you to tell his wife. but the wife might lash out on you

good luck


I was just wondering if anyone has tried spray-on tanning. I do not want to harm my skin with regular tanning, but I don't want to look white as a ghost either. So, how do they do it? Does it look fake? Will it streak or wash off? Does anyone recommend it? (link)
Hi,
well it doesnt it all depends what brand name you use and how you use it


I got a body wave in May...and my hair barely touches my shoulders. i didn't like it so i just comb it out..but suddenly now..my hair is really frizzy..and i dont know why. i usually comb it out..and spray condinator and its fine after a day. i'm dyeing my hair in a couple of minutes...so im pretty sure my hair will be really frizzy in the morning. Is there any products that ACTUALLY work? My hair looks dead when its frizzy and it's getting knots now. I've used gel but it makes my hair look worse. (link)
if you've used the shampoo amd conditioner try using some smoothing lotion. try to minimise hot iron and tongs.

In the shower use a pre-shampoo treatment . Leave on hair for 5 minutes. Then shampoo with a smoothing shampoo, followed by an anti-frizz conditioner.

Apply smoothing cream or balm to the ends of hair & work up into the hair shaft. Follow with a pea-size dollop of silicone serum (aka anti-frizz gloss), combing it through hair. Blow-dry on high heat with a paddle brush and make sure hair is completely dry or you'll attract moisture.

Step 3: If hair isn't completely dry due to time limitations, use a flatiron to smooth hair, followed by another thin layer of anti-frizz gloss.


my mother and I had something really exciting happen, we got published in a feature article for Woman's World Magazine a while back. It's a national magazine and quite popular.
Well anyways everyone was really happy for us except for my boyfriend.
When the article came out he told me he never saw it or even bought a copy. He didnt congradulate me or anything. I didnt talk about anymore but then one day I brought it up and he just snapped at me.
I thought he would be happy for me. What's his problem? (link)
hi there,

some people are like that i believe they has to be a reason behind his unhappiness.

maybe he wanted to be the one that the special thing happened with you.

if you are still worried about it and he's your boyfriend you need to talk about it


I have 6yrs of IT exp in java, j2ee etc.
I wanna do a job shift.Can i get a good job in india or elsewhere for my experience (link)
Well i think you can because nowadays its the experience that counts

if you have like 6 years experience well thats alot

it would be helpful where in particular you want

i know someone in india doing a great job simialr to what you are doing but they didnt have 6 years so if he can do it you can


Last year, I was a freshman at a boarding school. I had many friends mainly because I refused to be very confrontational. I let things "slide". The only girl that had gotten in a slight fight with me had unjust animosity towards me.

This year, as a sophomore, I decided I wasn't going to take shit from anyone. My friends walked all over me last year(example: I asked my best friend to talk to this guy about how I had a huge crush on him and she gave him a blow job instead). I've sorta isolated myself from a lot of the steriotypical social interaction and cept a few good friends.

There is one girl who I was very good friends with last year and this year after all the back stabbing she did, I decided I didnt like her. And slowly, Im realising how arrogant and self absorbed she is. I stopped hanging out with her and eventually, I really just stopped talking to her. She asked why I was mad at her, and I bluntly told her I didnt like her because I didn't think that it would be right not to say that to her face.

She recently has been very whorish and got in trouble for getting drunk and passing out/throwing up on a "duty person" in her dorm. So on xanga, I called her a drunk colombian whore (shes colombian). Its one place where I feel I can speak what I think. I've gotten the nastiest comments about it.

Was all of this wrong of me to do? (link)
hello there

i am sorry for your pain. well all i can say is that some people are always out for themselves. for example

my friend or so called knew i like this boy and before i knew it she's been spreading rumours about me that wasnt true and on top of that she's his girlfriend and she didnt even tell me.

i heard from someone else, i am just saying on the best friend scenario i know how it feels.


well i believe you were just being honest telling the naked truth.

people ask for the truth, but the naked truth is that they cannot handle the truth.

even though they all backstabbed you it would seem as your being too honest not caring what they say

i just think you are being honest


When someone says you are a push over...what do they mean? (link)
hello

means that whatever anyone says you will be willing to do


im 13 and a girl and this year i actually feel ready for sex. is that normal at this age? is there something wrong with me? i know a guy that is willing to have sex with me, should i have sex? if i do should i tell my parents?
**sexy_gal_1992** (link)
Hello there,

at 13 you probably want to experiece stuff and your hormones are kicking some people can handle some people just give in.

do what's best for you

do you know how your parents feel about this. no parent wants to hear about their kids getting boned but that's part of life.

sex isnt something you should have because someone wants you or is willing to have sex with you .

do it when you are reading most people regret having sex or should in say in your case LOSING THEIR VIRGINITY

beware of the consequences like pregnancy or std (sexual transmitted diseases).

i dont mean to scare you i'm just telling the naked truth.


even if you decide to get boned doo it with precautions

take care and God bless


Do u have any good pick up lines I can use? Like I freeze every time I see a girl that I really like and random words all come out and its very ocward... I mean should i remember poetry and just cite verses of Shakespeare or Whitman? Right now I need all the advise I can get.... (link)
Hello there,
sorry about the late reply.

well first do you know this girl because if you know her, you'll know what she's like if she likes to be chased or not.

most people start with a smile, how are you doing just normal conversation and it also depends what girl this is

some poeple use poetry that's after the hello , how are you, you have a nice or beautiful smile

you remind me of someone truly capivating

you look intellectual

it would help if i knew a little bit of what she is like


What do you guys think of girly-girls? (link)
Welli hang aroun with alot of boys or should i say men. well i have noticed they go for that type bow when they are young cause they want to enjoy their life

they also get irritated when the are like buy me this and that , take me here and there

it all depends most guys i would say yes , but then again when the guys get to know these girls and find out they are totally opposite to what they taught they are like nice and bubbly ,they might just end up leaving them

Take care




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