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im 13 and a female. everyday me and my bf go to our school library and hang there and we are usually kissing and making out but i dont really want to all i want to do is talk to him and some friends, snuggle close with him, and maybe a odd kiss a day if im in the mood. he love to snuggle with me too but he takes it too far and i really need to be answered tonight cuz tomorrow i might be biking to his house tomorrow and we will be alone and im sorta afraid of what he will do. is that wrong? what should i do? sry its so long.
**sleepiesheep**
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tell him you dont want too goo too far
and dont always let him be in control
on what you guys are doing !!
hope i helped !!
♥ Samra
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Tell him how you feel and what you want to do. Don't let him be in control all the time. So tomorrow if he tries to do something then tell him no if you dont want to. please drop a message in my inbox, id like to know what happens. Thx. hope i helped
cassie
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this reminds me of my last relationship. my boyfriend eventually wanted to go farther than i wanted to..so he broke up with me. tell him how you feel before you do something you don't want to..or you will feel used. that's not a good feeling at all. if he really likes you an respects you..he will understand your feelings and take things my slowly.
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one day when you're at the library, tell him you just want to talk; and when you get to his house try to talk to him; if he does something you dont want him to do, just tell him and ask him to stop
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hey gurl,
if you're not in the mood then tell him. he doesn't own you so you shouldn't let him do whatever he wants to you. tell him sometimes you just want to talk to him and have a conversation.
good luckkkk
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my advice is to tell him. if your already uncomfortable with making out every single day, make sure you done let anything else happen. stop things where you want it to stop and dont let things get out of hand. if you dont tell him, you might end up doing something you will deeply regret, after all, your 13 and you seem really sweet. if i were you i'd hurry up and tell him.
i hope i helped,
santawillrule
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Okay, your thirteen? Wow.. alright first of all, you have to think about what your getting yourself into. If your thirteen now, what do you think your gonna start doing then your say.. 17? I say SLOOWWW down, you have all your life to be boycrazy. enjoy being young and hang out with your friends. Tell your boyfriend just that. Say I like you but we need to start hanging out with our friends too.
Hope i Helpedd..
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hun, you have to make him listen to you. tell him what you want. if he is a true man he will respect what you want an want to make you happy. you should never be afraid of what your boyfreind will do. you are 13. you should not be going much further than making out. You are young yet. Enjoy your relationship. Tell him that it bothers you and that you want to curl up in his arms and tlak to him about anythign and everything! good luck!
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Relationships are all about trust and love. You need to trust your boyfriend. Why not talk to the lad? Say that you love him to bits but you want to take things a little slower then tell him what you want (snuggles, talk to friends, an odd kiss a day). If he loves you as much as boyfriends should, he will understand. He wouldn't want to rush you into anything you're not ready to do. Please don't be pressured into doing things you think are too much too soon. You seem like a nice girl and I don't want you getting hurt.
Best of luck!
x Steph x
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hello,
there since two of you have been going out for a while isnt there certain things that you to enjoy like sports think of things that he will normally do
think of things that you used to do before the kissing and making out started.
you can also be honest in a nice way and say you want things a little bit slow
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the best thing you can do is just tell him how you feel about things. from what you were saying you can see he really cares about you so he will slow down if you want him to.
♥ good luck!!
♥ Lor
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heey ! just tell him how you feel. If he really loves you(enough to do everything else), then he should understand that you want to take things slower. Just remember, if he trys to come on to you,just say no. Don`t do anything your not ready to handle, or you know that he`s not ready to handle.Hope i helped
XO LiZ OX
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to take things slow at your age. As a matter of fact that's the way it should be.
Don't be afraid to say no. Don't be afraid to talk to him about your feelings. If he is mature enough to slobber all over you he is mature enough to hear that you aren't ready for all that.
He may get mad about it but, he isn't the only one with feelings in your relationship. Everything should be fine if he really cares about you.
The main thing to remember is ( especially if you will be alone at his house) DO NOT BE AFRAID TO SAY NO! Don't be pressured into doing anything you aren't ready for. And he will give it a try. :)
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