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well im 18, in love with Steve Mark Jones (if you cant tell) we are living together two months now and celebrate our 4 month anniversary today! (Jan 13)
E-mail: Juelz_ECOWF@hotmail.com
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Location: Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 18
Member Since: September 21, 2005
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Umm......i am a very parinoid person and this kinda scares away my friends, how can i stop? (link)
ok my fiance has been paranoid about things. like more htan a normal person should. He went to the doctor and they sent him to a psychiatrist. The psych gave him meds. He is fine now. Do that.


hi i get cold sores all the time i didnt have them for like 4 months and then this weeek i got one and it went away and that day when it went away a new one had come that morning on a diff. place on the outside of my mouth. is there anyting i can do to get it away FAST...because u can see it and it gets really big :/ so if anyone knows something that can make it go away really FAST or something that can stop them from comeing at all....thanks!!

P.S. please help because tonight i CANT have a cold sore something imporant is happeing..ahh why does it always happen on days that i have something special happening :(

*K (link)
abreva is fast. takes like 2 days. but i think you want fanster...and i dont htink there is anyhting you can do











can anyone tell me some websites where you can play games?
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www.freearcade.com


My bf didn't kiss me for a long time because he was nervous and didn't want to do anything wrong. We finally did, and it was great since I care about him but otherwise, I didn't really like it. I don't really know how to describe what I didn't like. He opens mouths mouth too much and it's slobbery and wet. Kind of passionate, but wiping off my mouth afterward is definetly not. It reminds he of getting licked by a dog or something. Yuck... I don't know what to do because we've kissed several times since that and they all seem the same. Should I say anything? I don't want to hurt his feelings because I know how scared he is of doing "wrong". Please help!!! I care about him so I don't want kissing, a display of affection, to be what gives us problems. That just seems silly to me. (link)
girl...you gotta sit him down and ya know juss explain to him "hey,hunny,i love you,but you slobber on me" make it kinda light hearted so he doesnt feel attacked. Sit him down and then explain to him how you want your kisses to be!


Why is it that everyone focuses on the sex of a relationship before a relationship has even started, why do people judge each other on looks rather than personality? (link)
b/c this world is full of superficial assholes!


well i go with a dude and he brought me a 100$ pair of earings,and i brouht him a 150$ 24 k bracelet and he let a girl wear it and she broke it on pupose what do i do. (link)
kick her butt! no im joking. MAke her pay for it. then kick his butt for letting her wear something as expensive and meaningful. question...why did he let her wear it...think about that one


It's my boyfriends 21st birthday in about 3 weeks and i want to get him something really special, i was going get him some kind of gadget but i've decided its not special enough.
if anyone has any ideas please share :-)
Also if i get him a watch and have it engraved, would it have to be made out of a certain kind of metal or maerial so they can engrave it and is it expensive to do? thank you (link)
make a scrap book with pictures of hte two of you...make something liek that...that means more than buying something b/c u put your whole heart into the project.


My aunt passed 8 months ago. Her and I just so happen to wear the same size clothing. About 4 weeks ago, my uncle brought over some of my aunt's clothes for me to go through and pick out what I would like to keep. He gave the clothes to us, so I'm not pressed for time to decide because we don't have to return them or anything like that, but my Mom has been rushing me to look through them so she can clear them out of the basement. Thing is, I don't want the clothes. It's not that they're unappealing to me. It's that it would just be too emotionally upsetting to have them. I really don't want them, and I'm firm in my decision. My mom views it as, "perfectly good clothes", and since they're free, she might be a tad bit mad if I didn't accept them. Don't get me wrong, I've very thankful for the offer. But I just don't want to look like a total jerkface to my unlce's family. *Do you think it would be rude of me to refuse the clothing? (link)
not at all. Just explain to them that everytiem you would wear the clothing you would be upset at her passing. That it is entirely to emotional for you to take them. Tell them just how grateful you are...but maybe say they could give them to salvatin army or goodwill or something. Some place where people who NEED them can get them. I am sure that would make your Aunt proud of you!


ok..this is gonna sound "dorky"..but anywho...does anyone know any good country songs that are slow...rate high...thanks hunns! (link)
Shania Twain "still hte one" and "from this moment" they are my favs. and it dont sound dorky. its cool to see ppl out there who kinda like country...lol


What song can I sing to audition for my schools musical? I do not have a very good voice, so I am only looking to be in the chorus (I have been in it the past, so yes, it is possible to be in the chorus even if you don't have an amazing voice). I am a 16 year old female, who cannot sing very high at all. I would like something that is easy & will sound good on my voice. I would like something from a Broadway show, or Disney. (preferably A MUSICAL PLAY). THANK YOU! (link)
the song from Guys and Dolls is a good one.

when you see a guy reach for stars in teh sky you can bet that he's doing it for some doll!

its a good song that it not too high at all. I sang it at my audition. or even some where over hte rainbow. it is not too high of a song, but it does have some high parts. Obviously you are an alto if you are saying you can not reach very high notes. so thinking of low range songs is kind of hard seeing as i am a soprano 1. lol. i know a ton of musicals and (sad to say) disney movies. if you want to drop me one in my inbox with a bit more detail i am sure i can fidn a better song! lol


im 13 and a female. everyday me and my bf go to our school library and hang there and we are usually kissing and making out but i dont really want to all i want to do is talk to him and some friends, snuggle close with him, and maybe a odd kiss a day if im in the mood. he love to snuggle with me too but he takes it too far and i really need to be answered tonight cuz tomorrow i might be biking to his house tomorrow and we will be alone and im sorta afraid of what he will do. is that wrong? what should i do? sry its so long.
**sleepiesheep** (link)
hun, you have to make him listen to you. tell him what you want. if he is a true man he will respect what you want an want to make you happy. you should never be afraid of what your boyfreind will do. you are 13. you should not be going much further than making out. You are young yet. Enjoy your relationship. Tell him that it bothers you and that you want to curl up in his arms and tlak to him about anythign and everything! good luck!


I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!! (link)
my thoughts are simply this. if you go to hte new school...will you be living in teh same town. if the answer is yes then go for it. your freinds will still live in the same town as you do...so its not like moving. if after a year you dont like it, you can return to your old school. but if you are wanting to go, but not sure...take my advice. go. take the opportunity. i didnt when i had a chance like that and i regret it. if you dont like it you can always go back. good luck


i got my hair cut, i wanted it to my shoulders but she cut it to the bottom of my ears and i hate it. are there any natural ways that i can make my hair grow fast?
also are there any good products that i can get at walmart that will work fast?
5's for any answers! (link)
well, this wont make a very large noticable difference...but what i would do and it has worked before. brush it a lot. i mean like alot alot. it stimulates hte hair follicles. works for me. my hair grows a bit faster than it used to!


ok i've had my period for bout 5-6 months. And if been at the end of the month but this time if hasn't happen i got it at the end of September but not at the end of October? Is this normal? What's wrong? (link)
your still regulating. its normal. when i started out i wouldh avei t then not haveit for liek 2 months. then i would have it for a few months...then skips a month or two. dont worry, it is normal and will take you many years to regulate.


What's is mean when you like jacking yourslef? or something like that cause one kid at my school said that he saw this guy "jacking himself"? i dunno if that's the write word or not? (link)
jacking himself...hte same thign as jacking off. basically in simple terms...masterbating


Right well we got a swimmin pool built in our school last month and when the girls are on their periods they aren't allowed to sit out but are forced to use tampons!!!!!! I haven't been on since it was built but oomg. I am so scared. I have never used a tampon and I'm never GONNA so don't suggest I do. Isn't it like illegal to force us to use tampons or somethin? My friend even got her rents in about it and they still made her use tampons!! What can I do on swimmin days that I am on? I'm not using a tampon but I'm not standin in the changing room arguing bout whether to use one or not with the PE teacher its embarassing!! (link)
i think that is totally ridiculous. if you dont want to use tampons (like me...i dont EVER want to use them) and they are trying to force you to do it...gets your parents involved. or simply refuse. dont fight just refuse. start a revolt. i am sure there are other girls who feel the same way but are too scared to do or say anythign themselves. maybe skip class on days your on your period (not something i suggest, but htsi is a different situation than most)


I was wondering if anyone can help me make a plan of when to change "supplies" during my school schedule. I'm only in middle school, so no one uses purses yet. There's also this one girl who ALWAYS searches my pencil case to find gum and whatnot so I can't use my pencil case! I go to my locker before lunch time, and in past situations I have picked up a purse in which I put a pad in. But, I hate using purses because its SO obvious that when you carry a purse to the bathroom, you have your period!! I don't know any other ways! I don't want to buy anything at school because the dispncers have the worst brands. My tampon can not last ALL day and I'm a little scared to use jumbo because im sure they're hard to insert and other stuff. If anyone wants to contradict this idea please do so! I need some ideas! (link)
well, start carrying a purse with you all the time. carry it with you everywhere. that is what i do. no one knows when i am and when i am not on my period. as for jumbo tampons...no clue im a pads girl!!!


Ok, so I'm pretty sure that I love my gf, and a friend told me she loved me. But I don't know if he was telling the truth. I want to bring it up but I don't know how I can tell if she does. If I say it and then she doesn't say it back, well I wouldn't know what to do, it would just be out there and then everything would be awkward. What
should I do? Do i just tell her or wait to see if she loves me, then tell her. Sorry I'm just confused.

Thanks, I'll rate high for good advice. (link)
awe, fresh love. sorry, i find it adorable. but listen to me, love is full of give and take. love is full of risks. take the risk, take the leap, and tell her how you feel. if you keep someting as complicated as love deep inside...it will only cause you pain. so let her know how you feel. if she feels the same she will tell you. you wont know unless you ask. so take a risk...go out on a limb...and tell her! good luck and congrats on beign in love. its great isnt it! let me know how things go ok?


On sunda is my boyfriends little sisters birthday party. It will be the first time I have ever met his parents! I want them to know I am a really nice girl and that I love there son alot. What kind of things can I do to show them that I am really nice and that I will treat there son well. I love him and I want to be with him for ever!

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Just be you. Thats hte best I can tell you. Don't pretend to be something your not. Don't be shy. Don't be scared either. Parents can pick up on that! (lol). Just act like you two normally would, except if you are into the exhibition thing (i dont know if you are or not...) then keep kissing and things like that to a respectable level. respect them, since it is their house...and just be you above everything else. Good luck!


today is my one month anniversary and i want ot spend time with my boyfriend but im not allowed to hang out during the week. so should i sneak out or wait to the weekend to come? what would you do? i rate 5s

thanks for helping
kriddle06 :) (link)
first off, no man is worht disobeying your parents for. i would wait until saturday. call your man up. tell him "ya know i cant hang out tonight, but happy anniversary. how is saturday or sunday, we an celebrate it then?" trust me, getting grounded is not worth it for any man for any thing. if your living with your parents and (im guessing) still in school, your parents obviously have a reason. unless you talk to them and explain, its your one month anniversary and you two wanted t hang out. would it be ok? but don't sneak out.




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