Ok, so I'm pretty sure that I love my gf, and a friend told me she loved me. But I don't know if he was telling the truth. I want to bring it up but I don't know how I can tell if she does. If I say it and then she doesn't say it back, well I wouldn't know what to do, it would just be out there and then everything would be awkward. What
should I do? Do i just tell her or wait to see if she loves me, then tell her. Sorry I'm just confused.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday November 4 2005, 12:42 am: relationships get ruined bythings that are left untold. i beat you have heard that one be4. tell her how you feel if she doesn say it back at least you know the truth. right? i mean it shouldnt be that hard. i promise you you will feel a lot better once you have done it. dont wiat any longer tell her. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
roxyhollister101 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:56 pm: well it sounds like your friend is serious but when you have just some time to go up to her just kinda like run up to her and hug and pick her up and say i love you so much your the best and see what she says if she sas no its ok just give her time and maybe she will feel the way you do just don't break up with her though if she doesnt love you [ roxyhollister101's advice column | Ask roxyhollister101 A Question ]
urmomsachltcvrddnt answered Thursday November 3 2005, 8:06 pm: Tell her how you feel! If you feel you truly love her, then don't hold that in! Tell her! Take a chance!
Personally, I'm glad you don't do that "I love you" on the first week/month/whatever because that's totally lying. I'm glad someone has sense. It sounds like you two are in a real, mature relationship. That's great. Don't lose that.
sportychick22 answered Thursday November 3 2005, 7:54 pm: I think you should take the risk and just tell her. If you don't tell her how you feel about her then its gonna feel like a heavy weight has been dropped on you. The feeling sucks so take the risk. I'm sure once you get your feelings out her feelings will come out as well. I hope I helped you. Good luck! [ sportychick22's advice column | Ask sportychick22 A Question ]
aquababe answered Thursday November 3 2005, 4:22 pm: First of all, im glad you've found someone you love.
so now for the advice:
How long have you been going out with her?
*if its been like a week i wouldnt say it, if its been a couple monthes or maybe even more that would b e better.
You also have to make sure the timing is PERFCT. ask her to go out on a picnic, stargazing, by a sunset, anything to be romantic.
Also when you tell her look her in the eyes, it'll make it 100 times more loving.
If you do all this and she STILL doesnt say it back, it either means shes not ready, or scared to say it yet or she just doenst love you. Which would really suck and i hope she does say it back...
good luck [ aquababe's advice column | Ask aquababe A Question ]
redninja answered Thursday November 3 2005, 4:16 pm: well fi your realy in love thats great! and i think thats someting that you can bring uo at the right momnet, ya know, when it just feels like the right time. and if sh doesnt feel the same, im sure she will be touched that you feel that way about her.
MrsStevenMarkJones answered Thursday November 3 2005, 3:31 pm: awe, fresh love. sorry, i find it adorable. but listen to me, love is full of give and take. love is full of risks. take the risk, take the leap, and tell her how you feel. if you keep someting as complicated as love deep inside...it will only cause you pain. so let her know how you feel. if she feels the same she will tell you. you wont know unless you ask. so take a risk...go out on a limb...and tell her! good luck and congrats on beign in love. its great isnt it! let me know how things go ok? [ MrsStevenMarkJones's advice column | Ask MrsStevenMarkJones A Question ]
bb answered Thursday November 3 2005, 2:56 pm: well i think you should tell her how you feel and if she doesn't say i love you back at least you know now how she feels and she knows how you feel [ bb's advice column | Ask bb A Question ]
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