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Bisexuals, Homosexuals, and Heterosexuals
Why is it that everyone focuses on the sex of a relationship before a relationship has even started, why do people judge each other on looks rather than personality?
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people look at the sex of a relationship because they are scared of what it might do to society if everyone started being attracted to people of the same sex. This is because Christians believe they are morally entitled to judge people cause 'the bible tells them so'. However this isnt likely to change. society is made up of people who are to afraid to think for themselves and always will be. People judge each other on looks rather than personality as it is the first thing you see. Also because it is far easier to dismiss someone because of their looks than it is to get to know someone.
Thats the way it is and it wont change.. especially while people in government believe it is their duty to make moral legislation.
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because people are stupid and sahllow.
kudos to you for seeing the lame-ness in it
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because humans have a thing called hormones which makes a person want some lol
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That is how its always going to be, so either jump in on it, or die a virgin.
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b/c this world is full of superficial assholes!
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this is the 21st century wat do you expect well other people just do not take the time to get to know people better
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Because people can be the cruelist creatures on Earth
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I honestly can't tell you why people put sex before an actual relationship. I guess that it's because of the fact that sex feels good and people love it. And that's all they want. They want a no-ties sex relationship and that's all. People don't tend to be in relationships cause hten they figure," sex with only one person?" and then they realize that that's not what they want at all. =/ I find it sad. And for looks, of course everyone judges on looks. People are always thinking," Well I don't want to be with an ugly person? How is that going to make me look?" And all they care is about themselves. I find personality is the best thign to look out for. It's just sadly alot of people out here in the world are so wrapped up in themselves and their own lives that they hardly care about others. =/ Just don't be like one of those people. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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It is just human nature. You may be on the phone or computer with someone for months and think they are fabulous but you still have to meet them in person and see if you feel that spark of wanting to be physical too.
I went out on a few semi-blind dates fairly early because truthfully I didn't want to waste anyones time building this imaginary relationship and then meet them in person and think i couldn't stand to have them even touch me.
some people claim to be far beyond that, but remember that beauty IS in the eye of the beholder. I think my bf is a handsome devil, you may think he's a dork!
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because usually all poeple think about is sex . and its sad . i dont no why they always think about it but its pathic
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Gosh, i know it's pathetic. Porbably because people want to be seem with someone 'sexy'. It bother's me. It's mostly guys who do this but it can be girl's too.
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Hi There,
The most important thing is to be honest with your feelings and see where they take you. Sexuality is no easy ride; you have a whole host of emotions to get a grip of, not to mention the physical side of things.
Virtually everyone will have feelings for someone of the same sex at some stage in their life, this does not mean they have to rush out and buy a rainbow sticker for their car. It is just a natural part of sexual development. However if these feelings are more frequent or long lasting then it may be more significant.
Don't rush into giving yourself a label and coming out in public though. This is a very personal thing and you probably want to be comfortable with your feelings before broadcasting to your world.
Unfortunately some people can't accept any other sexual orientation to their own as being normal. They are mistaken in their thinking, and you must remember that you are not doing anything wrong or immoral. However such prejudice can, understandably, be hard to take and you may be tempted to keep your sexuality quiet. While this may seem fine in the short term, do you really want to hide this side of you forever? Be true to yourself, you have every right to be comfortable with who you are.
Don't forget that it doesn't matter if you are gay, straight or bi.You don't have to change yourself or your social life just because you have a different sexual preference to the rest of your mates. Life can tick on as normal, however it may help you to read books or articles written by or about people who have gone through the same thing as you.
You may also want to join a club or society run by gay people for gay people, it will give you support of people who understand exactly what you are going through, and will be especially helpful if you feel uncomfortable discussing everything with your mates. Although it is worth remembering that you won't necessarily like every gay person you meet, just like you don't like every straight person you meet.
Hope this helped
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Gosh i don`t get it either.. People are stupid in my opinion.. Not everybody is like that tho.. i personally think personality should come first.. ♥ Dez
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thats cause some people are stupid but not lot of people are like that but some are like mostly guys they jus look at looks and stuff but s0o d0 gurls !!
♥ Samra
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