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heyhey, well this is where i tell you bout myself im guessing, well im 16, i live in norwood ma, i go to a technical school. my screenname is chiquitablaze420. and i have a myspace website and an xanga, thats it. the rest are fakers! alrighty well ask away kids, im here to help you the best i can :) peacee

advice

when answering a question why does age play such a big factor. like for instance that 16/f that wanted a baby. i saw that everyone was like your too young,but who says that she wont make a great mother. and know one knows her living situation or money or anything.. it really doesnt say people just assume they know. it tells her to wait till shes 18. i bet there are 18 year olds out there that are much worse off than she is or wont be as good as of mother as she is. so maybe she is 16.. do you think we should just make assumptions about people like that? or would it better to know more about the person before answering?

heyy, yeah, sometimes age is a big factor depending on the question and how it is asked. this is an advice page. in the situation of a girl wanting a baby at 16 then thats her choice. and if she wanted us to fully understand more then her wanting a baby at 16 then she should of wrote more. at 16 you still have your life to live, learn lessons and mature. this is what these advice people are probably thinking about when they are answering. maybe she has a good situation and she'd be a good mother. we dont know that. if she dosent want to hear what people's responses are then she shouldnt ask. this is an advice page.

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hey my name is Herman

omg where do i start, i go to a school and it is drama time everyday. im in love with a girl named Lonna, and she is a bitch but shes hot. i tried going to her locker to ask her out on a date, and she looked at me, snickered, laughed, and hit my books out of my hands. it was painful and im thinking about going to her house and ringing her doorbell to ask her out to lunch. please give your input, id appreciate it.

sorry dude, but she dosent sound too cool. looks arent everything. if if shes doing that to you shes pretty shallow. but wanting to go out with her because shes hot is pretty shallow also man.
beauty is skin deep.

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im a junior now and just switched schools. i went to the school im at when i was in 8th grade but went to a catholic school for freshman and sophmore year. theres a girl who i was really good friends with in 8th grade and i really liked her, but more or less we were just friends. i asked her out but got denied. now that im a junior i started to talk to her now that i weould see her all the time, but for somereasons i always get the vibe she doesnt really want to talk to me, but other times it seems like shes comming on to me. today she was invited to this kids hosue where we smoke some chronic and she endedd up showing up i didnt know, so she would casually nod my leg or rub againt my arm as she stood up, but we dont talk like we used to, am i just not getting the picture?

hey hun, sorry this response took so long. you seem like a nice guy. I think that you just stick with being her friend for now. It is the best thing you can do at this point in time. Just go with the flow about. Be yourself and she will respect that. If she likes you then she will eventually make it known. Just keep talking to her.

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hey i was wondering if you knew how to make your hair grow faster,but not by cutting it please!

hey, sorry my response took so long. The only thing I can say is take care of your hair and keep it healthy. Try not straightning/blowdrying/curling etc. everyday. These hair devices damage hair more. Also dying your hair damages it. So if you dont dye it and rarly use the straighter etc. then you have a very good chance of your hair growing a bit faster, along with it looking healthier. I hope I helped you out!

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Hey im 18 and I met this girl last week and I really like her. But how should i go about telling her? What would u want? PLZ help me!!

Hey, Well first off. If you lie this girl then you need to find out if she likes you back. If I was the girl in this situation I probably would just want a friend. Personally, There are too many guys in my life, so I get really annoyed easily with guys liking me. I dont like when guys drop hints on me or try to impress me. I just like them to be my friend. If I was the dude I would try to get over me as soon as possible. But I dont know what this girls deal is. So I am sorry if I this didnt help. But if this girl is diffrent then me then you should just tell her how you feel. I am not like most girls so you probably dont want to go by the advice about me in that situation. If this was a more normal occurance then I would just say go with the flow, tell her how you feel and do something sweet? lol well i hope it helped a little sorry this took so long

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i wunt to get my tounge peirced . i jus wunt to no if it hurts . nd how much does it cost normally ?? thanxx

Hey, I heard it dosent hurt that much at all. It just hurts a bit for a week or two. But I'd recommand getting a good tounge ring because there are some tounge rings that can break down your teeth. So just be safe doing it and get it done professionally! hope i helped!

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14/female
ok like i reallly hate my life. But i live in a semi good neighborhood with a good famliy (mom, dad and sister) in a good house and everything but like nothing ever goes my way. Like i dont think im that pretty.. im 14 and only had 1 boyfriend (which only lasted 2 weeks ) and all my other friends have had manyy boyfriends and like all my friends that are girls are prettier than me in my opinion. and i dont really have a bestfriend. i used to but now someone else is her bestfriend. So now i just have like friends, but only like 4 really close friends. I'm naturally a very nice person.. but you know what they say: nice people finish last. Also, im a bit of a pushover. People sometimes just "walk all over me" and i cant really stand up for myself. I am very self-conscious about myself and im not that confident.
But then i think about the poor people or homeless people who probably have 20 times worse life than me and it makes me feel bad that i complain about my life when i should be thankful. So my question.. do you think my life is good or bad? is there anything i can do to improve my life? or should i be thankful instead?

i personally think you sound like one of the sweetest people ).And because of you being such a naturally awesome person it may seem like your life is really horrible right now because you feel like you have nothing. I know that dosent make any sense now but years from now you will see. but I was in your place at one point. First off you dont need to be pretty to get a boyfriend. If the boy is worth it then he will look at you as beautiful no matter what you you look like. Looks arent everything either. When people are as sweet as you they seem to be taken for granted. I always felt like that growing up. I would always let people walk all over me. It sometimes still happens. But you can still be a nice person to people but if it seems like they are walking all over you then dont bother with them, and when I say that I mean dont tell them off but just dont stick close with them, you dont need that. Its not a good feeling knowing your being taken advantaged of. As you get older you learn to take charge of that though. And it builds your pride, along with that you get a positive outlook on life. And things will seem alot better. You just gotta wait it out, growing up takes time. And always remember that things will always be okay in the end. It may not seem like it now but its the truth. Well, If you feel like that helped at all and you need to talk to someone I'm here girl!
Have a goodnight hun.

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im 13 and a girl and this year i actually feel ready for sex. is that normal at this age? is there something wrong with me? i know a guy that is willing to have sex with me, should i have sex? if i do should i tell my parents?
**sexy_gal_1992**

hey, I honestly think you should do what you feel. But I believe you should do it with someone you really want to be with. Just make sure you dont regret it. Really think about it before you do it because you defintly dont wanna regret it. Doing it first time you want to look back and know that you did it with someone special and because you wanted to do it. Just think it through first. I hope I helped you out! Goodluck!

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Hey I just had a smoke for the first time and like I smoked the entire thing (inhaling it) and I was fine but with the last two puffs, I felt it go down and then I was like light-headed for a bit.
I'm never going to do it again but is the light-headedness normal and how come it only happened at the last two hits?

Hey yeah, thats totally normal. Dont even worry about it. It's because you never smoked before and you arent used to the nicotine. I always used to get wicked lightheaded from ciggerates. You get lightheaded at the end probably because you have just finished it and because of that you probably just noticed it much more. It happens to alot of people. Sometimes I would get so lightheaded I would get sick if I smoked too many of them at once. Although feeling lightheaded like that is nothing you should really worry about. I hope I helped you out :)
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In my Math class(7th period;last period), I sit in a table of 5 people(including me). There's only 2 girls (including me..) and 3 guys. I usually talk to the guys. But anyways. In the math classroom the teachers have phones that the school can get it touch with the teachers and stuff since the school is so big. But somehow i got the number and me and then 2 guys just call the phone and let it ring and as soon as he answers, we hang up! Lol =). And this is during class,too.With our cell phones. I know its stupid and immature but its soo funny because our teacher just gets soo mad.
I told my sister this and she started laughing. But then shes saying how i should stop because my number can come in the bill because the school gets a bill and they could call up the number(my number) and if they find out its a student then i could get in trouble. Can i really? And will blocking my number be any different? Those are the only 2 questions i have. So thanks!

hey, haha thats so funny. you shouldnt really worry about it though. And plus I dont think the school has people's cell phone numbers. If you do block your number then it will make a diffrence, they wont know its you calling for sure! But I dont think they will search for the number. There are probably so many diffrent numbers that call the school anyways. Well I hope I helped ya out a bit!

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hey u lost a lot of weight recently right? well i was just wondering what you did to lose weight. beacause i try all the time and nothing works! thanks for your help!

heyhey, yeah i did lose some wieght and then i went on vacation and ate popcorn and mud pie for breakfast haha. i gained a little back but now im losing it again. BUT lol what i did was swimming everyday for an hour in a half( on the swim team) and well the medicine im on made me less hungry. so i ate less too. i cut alot of carbs out, mashpotatos, frenchfries and bread. if i did eat bread it would be wheat. now that swim team is over i eat small portions. and started up running 2 miles at night with the dog. and do about 200 crunches. I just started that so write back in a week or so and ill tell you how that goes! alrighty! just dont starve yourself! peacee and good luck

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Is it normal for a girl who doesn't have her period, but a stomach that hurts for almost no reason? I been doing sit-ups flat on my back and now whenever I stretch my stomach hurts. Its not like I'm hungry, its more like the skin that hurts. Is it normal?

heyyhey, it just means you've been working your muscles alot. it should go away evenutally though. when i do alot of situps it happens to me too.try taking some medincine to relax the muscles and it should make it feel better. lay off the situps for a day or so until it stops hurting. your stomach is probably just getting used to working the muscles in it. dont stress it. alrighty hope i helped! peace

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Okay well there was this guy I use to like. He was nice and cute ect.. well I was sick one day at school and my best friend (his ex) was like "will you go out with Casia?? she likes you alot" and he was like i dont know.. then she was like "please!! for me?" and he was like sure. When she told me that I was like wow I go out with him?!? then I was like wait.. for you??? I dont want to go out with him because hes only doing it for her.. am I doing the right thing??

heyy, i say you talk to the kid and find out if he really does like you, dont ask your friend to do it, it will be better if you just talk to him and if he is only going out with you to please your bestfriend then you dont need him, hes not worth it and you can get much better! find a guy who you like and will like you because they like you, not because your friend is telling him to, and dont stress girl, just keep things cool!
peacee
chrissy

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are you hot?

haha, my picture is on there lol

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what do u think i should buy with all my christmas money?!

hey! spend it on something you have really wanted for a long time, or whatever catches your eye! lol i know that really dosent help but i dont know what kind of stuff your really into! But write back and tell me what kind of stuff you like and im almost sure ill be able to help you out! alrighty peaceee

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is sex fun?

all depends on your definition of "fun". lol
peace

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hey! i have this awesome boyfriend but sometimes it seems like he blames alot of the problems on me like its never his fault(he has tryed to make things betta be4 not rly but most of the time he does this).. n i know its my fault sometimes obviously, i just dont no what to say when i have a problem because i dont want to start a hole nother fite with him and feel like shit again the next day.. i love him n he loves me i think communication is the problem were kinda shy around eachotha, i just dont no wat to say! n im really outgoing and cool around everyone else! n i guess he thinks we fight alot n yea its kinda true but the loves still there nmw n i just wanna make it work!
PeAcE-- u no me all too well kiddo to not know who this is!

heyy, i think you have to put your foot down on this guy and tell him, "hey this is where i stand, i am sick of having stupid arugments with you" and tell him if you want to really be with me then you will show me by your love and affection, and stop aruging. Or
maybe he just needs you to open him up, ask him whats up and on his mind. Or show him a good time and show him thats its okay to not be shy in front of you! But dont ever let a guy degrade you! Also be who you really are around everyone you care about. I know there are going to be those people out there who are going to snobs and mean and when its people like that its diffcutly to ignoire them cuz they act so intimating so just ignoire them, and totally be yourself, so just totally open up your boyfriend open your feelings to him because that way he can really see who and how you are. And if he dosent like it then dont even worry about it because hes not worth it, especially if he cant open up back. So just try opening him up first and then eventually talk about how the arguing and how it bothers you and makes you feel like crap! And then if he dosent understand the concept of that then just walk away, and find someone who would be worth aruging with but you would never have to because they wouldnt try aruging with you! alrighty, i hope i helped you out!!! good luck and write back and tell me how it goes!PeeAcccEEE blaze on

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ok...this summer i met an amzing guy...he was sweet, funny and really cute...but then my friend that introduced him to me...started to flirt with him then he broke up with me to go out with her...they broke up a little while later...then my other friend met a guy that goes to her school and they were going out for a while...and then one night shegets dumped by him and he tells her he is going out with the other girl...and i really feel bad beucase she has done this to me...and then another itm ehtis happened was with her other firneda nd she hooked up with her b/f and then he dumped the other girl for her...what should me and the other two girls do?

heyy, i say you confront the girl and ask her why she is doing this and why she is treating you like that. Tell her that what she is doing isnt cool at all and if she wants to keep her friends then she should keep herself off her friends boyfriends. What she did was soo grimy and shallow, just tell her exactly how you feel and dont start screaming and flipping out at her unless she starts flipping out at you first because if you just chill and say it without screaming than you will look like the bigger person but if she starts flipping just tell her that she isnt going to have anymore friends if she dosent stop. Put your foot down on it and make her understand that what she did wasent cool and make sure she understands and respects that! alright! I hope i helped! Good luck!

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hi a long time ago i wrote to you about how much i like post its and how i ecspecially love the pink ones (you know) well anyways i think you took it as a joke and that made me relly depressed and i was kind of imbarrased to write back bcuz i thought you would laugh agian but i relly want u to kno that i have a serious post it eating disorder.its gotten soo much worse not only do i eat post its i feel like they make me fat so i am now belemic! can paper relly make you fat?! now i dont know what to do i feel like my life is being ruined.. its bad enough i have POST IT BREATHE!!! but no i get made fun of even more not jjust for bad breathe for my pukey paper smell i carry along by my side please just try and help me for real this time homiee thanks soo FRICKEN MUCCH!! u munchie head!! peace-post it mann

heyy post it man..how bout you go to cvs and get some orbit come and these really good lifesaver breathmints, and also get breath spray and never buy post its again, and also tlak to someone about your "post it" problem alrighty! ps...my cousin does like post its too so dont worry!

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i`ve been friends wit this guy 4 a wile. i`d say we r pretty good friends and i like him as more then a friend, wat should i do? i`d think ud say to tell him but im 2 nervous bout his reaction Nd i dont think tht he`d eva wanna go out wit me.... thanx!

heyy!, ill try to help you out! first off if you two are really good friends and your close and looks at you like a sister than i say you guys should just stay goodfriends cause if anything you dont want to ruin that! But if you are just good friends, like yall talk sometimes then just kind of give hints or just just to find singals that he likes you. Or if you guys are talking on the phone just casually say heyy would you ever look at me as more than friend? and if he says no that would be wierd ust pretend to agree with him that way your friendship wont be ruined and it will just be like a regular convosation on the phone. But if he says yes than thats when you should tell him and step up and say "heyy you are a great guy and i have alot of respect for you. Do you want to try dating and that dosent work we can go back to being friends?"
You never know what he'll say until you try! So go for it! alrighty! i hope i helped and good luck! write back to tell me what happened!

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