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Okay well there was this guy I use to like. He was nice and cute ect.. well I was sick one day at school and my best friend (his ex) was like "will you go out with Casia?? she likes you alot" and he was like i dont know.. then she was like "please!! for me?" and he was like sure. When she told me that I was like wow I go out with him?!? then I was like wait.. for you??? I dont want to go out with him because hes only doing it for her.. am I doing the right thing??
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In my opinion, yes, you are doing the right thing because no guy should go out with you, just because your friend told him to do it for her. It's like she's sort of making him go out with you. You should talk to her and ask her why she told him to go out with you just because she said told him to do it for her. Tell her that was wrong and she shouldn't have done that. Just because she is his ex-girlfriend, it doesn't mean that she has control over his love life and such.
-Karen
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When and if you go out with him activate his guilty consious (not sure how to spell it) and make him apologize and tell the truth.
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give him a chance, if he seems commited, its worth it. if he doesnt, screw him.
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haha yeah I agree with lollypopgurl769
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hey. oh my ... i know EXACTLY, how you feel. the best thing/advice i can tell/give you is to talk to him. i don't want to say this, i really don't, but it seems like he MIGHT still have feelings for his ex. you never know; from what you said about their lil convo, it seems like he'd do it to make HER happy. the best thing to do is to talk to him and her. ask her if she still has feelings for him, she might. and talk to him and let eveything out. don't go out with him until you hear straight from HIS mouth the trusth, hoew he feels about you. you don't want to get hurt.hope everything works out babe! no worries! and IM me if you need more help; drop one in my inbox if you wish. ♥ ANGIE
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you shouldnt go out with him if he's doing it :for her: he should want to cause he likes you not cause she wants him to.
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heyy, i say you talk to the kid and find out if he really does like you, dont ask your friend to do it, it will be better if you just talk to him and if he is only going out with you to please your bestfriend then you dont need him, hes not worth it and you can get much better! find a guy who you like and will like you because they like you, not because your friend is telling him to, and dont stress girl, just keep things cool!
peacee
chrissy
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no offense but that was kind of rude of her. not to be mean or anything. i think you should talk it out with this guyy and tell him what you would have said. talk to your friend to if it is really bothering you.
~ nat ~
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ask him if he is really doing this for her or if he really does like you and make him tell you the truth if he is then break up with him because you can find some1 else! x0
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Sure your doing the right thing, anybody with the right mind would have said the same thing. I mean come on who wants to go out with a guy when hes only doing it for anyother girl. But if you really do like him talk to him. You could work things out and see how they go.
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you should take to him yourself.. find out if he is really only doing it for her, then, if he is, think about it.. if he is doing it because he likes you too, then go for it! hope i helped*
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