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My name is Brittany, but everyone calls me Bri or Britt. I'm 16 and live in Louisiana. Woo. I have a signifigant other, and it can be hard but we work it out. I like reading, poetry, dance, cheer, rock music, metal, etc. I dislike people who judge me because of my beliefs. I am a vegitarian and I have no religion that I follow, although I am a baptised catholic. All of my friends come to me for advice, and usually use it so I guess I'm a pretty good advice giver.

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my best friend has this boyfriend that is literally OBSESSED with her.. i wanted 2 do something with just me-n-her this weekend because me-n-her never get 2 do anything b/c we go 2 different schools.. and her b/f always has 2 come.. well today i said do you think (lets say his names chris) chris would get mad if we didnt invite him 2 the movies.. and shes like yeah we have 2.. i want 2 tell her something.. but i just dont know how.. PLEASE HELP SOON!!!

Tell her that you have to have time alone with just her. It isn't fair that she's letting her boyfriend interfere into your friendship. And this is especially a problem if you feel like you're being ignored when he's there. Talk to her about it, and talk to him about it. Explain to him you need to have all girls time with her, without him there. It's not fair to you, or the friendship.

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how long do you think me and my gf should start kissing? 2 monthes 3...?

Whenever you think you're ready.

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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?

((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))

love: the girl who doesn't know!!

no it isn't wrong or nasty. it's perfectly acceptable.

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ok, well i have started cutting because of problems i have at home, well now i started to do it for fun, and i dont know why i like to do it, but i do. and its not for attention because know one knows i do it. well anyways, i get urges to do it even when there are no probems at home. i dont know whats wrong with me, i mean i know its wrong and i shouldnt be doing it, but i just love to hurt myself. i need some advice, weather its what i can do to stop, or if you know why i like to do it for fun. plz help

Do what I did. Promise someone who means a whole lot to you that you won't do it anymore.

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Ok, there is this boy named David in 1/6 of my classes. He sits in the last seat in the row next to me. My friend sits right behind me and whenever I turn to talk to her, I catch David staring at me and we suddenly make eye contact. Out of that infomation ( I might add more ), do you think he likes me?

He may just think you're pretty. Maybe you should initiate conversation. He may begin to like you.

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Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help!

It isn't cheating but it sounds like you were flirting. That is BAD if you have a boyfriend. if you want to be completely honest with your boyfriend then tell him. He'll probably be upset, but reassure him it won't happen again. And don't let it happen again.

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Im looking for a coushy job. I want something pretty consistant and that doesnt require a whole lot hard labor. I want something simple.. Im not in dire need of money at the moment. I would just like something simple. Any ideas?

Try working at a drug store. Or walking dogs for people around your neighborhood once a day.

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May 1st I'm going to have to wear a white dress for this really REALLY important thing of my entire life. I've been eatting like a pig beause... I guess its anxiety. Well I want to loose weight. Also, avoid the things that make me gain weight. I was thinking of diet pills but I hear they are REALY bad for you. Anyway, any tips to loose as many weight as I can in less than 2 months? Im not exactly looking for permenant diet plan just... an emergency one. Maybe if I only ate a certain amount of calories... or didn't eat or drink nothing but water... or... did a certain excersice. I don't know. Please pretty please HELP ME! Thank you sooo muh for your time!

Cut all of your meals in half. Then do crunches, it'll flatten your tummy. You may gain weight from the muscle, but you'll lose fat and have a flat stomach.

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My sister who resides in the state of California, and I in the state of Florida, has two kids one of which lives in Florida with me. My question is this: She has filed her income tax getting earned income credit when she didnt even have or take care of her kids. but got this benefit on her taxes and now has abandoned her kids. I only want someone with a law degree in family courts to answer this ?/ I would rather not have anyone answer than several people with NO law degree. thank you!

Hun, this is an site for mainly teenagers. I doubt ANY of us have a degree in law.

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I woke up this morning and i've had it all day and this monday i have to sing for a competition...wat are some good remedys for a sore throat and is it safe??

Eat lemon slices (one every half hour for about two-three hours) and try Theraflu.

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Do you think it would be ok for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy? he's really responsible.

As long as he won't pressure you into doing things you don't want to and he GENUINELY likes you (and isn't just some loser who can't get a girlfriend his own age) then sure. it's fine.

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i'm not overly fat or anything but i want to lose some weight to feel healthier and i dont know what i could eat thats healthy and filling...what are some ways i could lose some weight (a school dance is coming up so i'm trying to lose some pounds as fast as i can!)quickly and in a healthy way (like no starvation diet). ThAnkS

Take a meal you would normally eat. But only eat half of each portion. (I.e.: Half of the vegetables, half of the main food, etc.) Also, do stretching exercises. The excercises may build up your muscle, meaning you won't really lose weight, but you'll be healthier and fitter, and more toned.

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Bad posture runs in my family. My mom's shoulder is one higher than the other, and she constantly slouches. Ive noticed over the past year, i have been becoming the same way. I cant even stand up or sit up straight because it hurts. My shoulders are slouched, and ive already gone to the doctor to get it checked out. They said i dont have scoliosis (spelled it wrong), but how am i supposed to improve my posture if it hurts?

You can try Physical Therapy. If your parents will pay for it. Other than that, I'm not sure what else you could do.

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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!

Feelings from the inside out,

Jess P.S- I rate HIGH!

How old are you? Maybe the reason she won't let you have a boyfriend or watch R-rated movies is because she doesn't think you're mature enough for that stuff yet.

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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

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still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

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what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

Break up with the boyfriend. Tell him you just aren't having the same feelings for him anymore. It seems he's more of a friend than a boyfriend.

As for the friend, it would be so wrong of you to date his best friend. If you think breaking up with him would crush him, try being with his best friend and causing rivalry between them. And THAT would really break his heart.

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Ok i have athletics every morning and of course i sweat. Now i am begginging to get these red dots-bumps(they sorta look like tiny pimples i guess) in the middle of my chest or boobs. Does any one else have them? are they normal?? how do you get rid of them?? Its about to be time to wear a bathing suit and i dont want these things!! please help me!

order in the Proactiv body solution/scub/wash at their website. It'll get rid of bumps you're getting. Make sure you clean really well, and avoic using loofas or the poufy things.

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i like to wear my hair up in a bun or pony tail but my mom is soooo annoying about it. she says that i hav beautiful hair and i should wear it down. i keep telling her wen i wear my hair down i get really hot (like today i got out of the shower and i felt sick i was so hot). any suggetions?

please help. i rate!

How about you wear your hair down when you go to nice places? Or to places with them? Then she can't complain. If you're out with your friends you know they don't care!

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OK when i first learned about sex back in middle school...i said to myself "im waiting until marriage" right away. I want to wait..because i dont know if i can deal with the emotions..but then again i want to do it (not now..definately not ready) in the future..you know when i find a bf when im like 18 + ..probably more like in my 20's though. I dont know..i just cant picture myself only havving sex with one man..plus im only 15 and im so curious about it now..im scared that what if i dont get married til im 30? I dont know if i can wait 15 more years..it seems to distant. How do i know for sure if im going to wait? or if im not? Do any of you out there have premarital sex..or have done it with a few people? Was the emotion too much for you when you broke up ? Or a one night stand..was that too much for you? I'll rate 5's

You'll know when you're ready. Just don't do it for the wrong reasons and you'll be fine.

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Hey guys, I always have to have a book to read for my reading class. My teacher calls it our independent reading book. Anyways, I was wondering if any of you could give me the names of some really good books that you've read before. I love reading, and I can't seem to find any good books right now, so I was hoping someone could tell me some good books. I like to read fiction books, mysteries, or something that has to do with romance/relationships in it. If you can, please helpt me out! Thank you so very much! :)

The Harry Potter Series, Gossip Girl Series, Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson

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Is it wrong to go out with your x-boyfriends brother? Cause I like my X-boyfriends brother and I think he likes me too! But the thing is if he asks me out...is it wrong to go out with him?
thanks in advance! {I rate 5's}

It could cause sibling rivalry. Ouch.

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