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ok....i'm confused ((yes i will rate))


Question Posted Tuesday March 8 2005, 6:25 pm

1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?

((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))

love: the girl who doesn't know!!

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iM_fruM_nEw_yorK answered Thursday March 24 2005, 8:35 am:
There's nothing wrong with trying it out if you don't like it then at least you know and you won't have to worry about it anymore. There's no harm in giving it a shot.
I wouls say you were bi since you like making out with the both but mabey nor but it is okay toexpiement with bolth to find out which one you like .. JESSiCA

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_eMiLy answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 12:07 pm:
There's nothing wrong with trying it out if you don't like it then at least you know and you won't have to worry about it anymore. There's no harm in giving it a shot.
I wouldn't say you were bi either I'd say you're bi-curious since you like making out with the both genders or just plain curios it depends on everyones personal point of veiw.
Hope I helped, sweetie.
♥Em

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xGLiTtErEdxEyEsx answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:30 am:
yep y0ur bi
♥aMbS

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kiss_me_hunny answered Saturday March 19 2005, 11:07 pm:
yea for real, lick her pussy outtttt. ;o] ur a funny one. lesbo.

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MsAnswers answered Saturday March 19 2005, 1:36 pm:
no not at all. you should b glad that you have a real opportunity to explore your options. if you must go 4 it go 4 it.

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seksiblueeyes08 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 9:47 pm:
umm personally i think its kinda nasty but i think its cool you have a positive out look on many ways to be you..........
so party it up...

x3lacy

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madsion answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:30 am:
i think if you like it then do IT! but if you end up doing it and like it then maybe you are bi...

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Melaur1001 answered Friday March 11 2005, 8:06 pm:
sure why not? if your having fun then go ahead and do it! if your concerned for moral reasons, then thats based on if you think its wrong, if your concerned with religious reasons and believe in the Bible, then it would be concidered wrong, have fun!

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bestfriendsforever answered Thursday March 10 2005, 6:13 pm:
i don't know do you feel right doing it? if you do then i guess it does not matter.

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girdy_goo15 answered Thursday March 10 2005, 12:27 pm:
well if you both are okay with it then there really isn't a problem. no it doesn't seem wrong. so don't worry. your just curious.

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jokerzgrl answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 5:58 pm:
As long as both of you guys are comfortable with the situation, but things may get weird afterward, things may not get weird afterwards, but I think its ok that you want to experiment and find out what you like. It doesn't seem wrong and like you said, you're not uncomfortable, but make sure that shes not uncomfortable either.
Mad love,
Victoria

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CraziForRey619 answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 2:35 pm:
Okay, when you keep doing it over and over again, it is NOT experimenting anymore. You should just admit that you ARE bisexual (although you can't see yourself with a girl, you are still attracted to them). I do not think it is wrong, but just know that it's not experimenting. Besta Luck

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TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday March 9 2005, 2:45 am:
Ok, well, reading this whole thing, and going back to, "but i wouldn't call my self bi..." confuses me. I don't think its nasty, I mean, I'm straight, but I'm not 'offended.' But, either you are bi, or a lesbian, because just experimenting with eating a girl out and wanting to, is an act of those. Experimenting with making out, is ok, because you know that someday you will make out with a guy, and wanna know what its like. But, with a guy, being straight, you will never "eat someone out." But, this is mainly up to you. But, you sound insecure about your sexuality, if you think that you are straight, I think that you are wrong, or else you wouldn't want to do this, sure, you can think about it, I'm sure its crossed every girls mind, but actually doing it 'just to experiment' is different. So, basically, what I am saying is to think this over, do you really want to? Does it seem wrong to you? So, I say its up to you.


-TheTeenGirl

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ktsu0723 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 11:15 pm:
Depends on what you mean by wrong. I personally don't see anything wrong with you experimenting with your best girl. I would advise you to be prepared for any wierdness between you two. I have never got that far with a girl (engaged to a guy) but I feel that it is an awesome voyage to seelf discovery! Don't be silly it's not wrong! I hope I helped

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xxsexyinpinkxx answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 10:22 pm:
well i heard we experment to and i think it would be better for a girl to eat you out before a guy does so you no how it is and if you like do something wrong with her then with a guy it won't be as bad. yeah i am expermenting too but i'm only 13 and i have urges to make out with other girls because i want to no what its like with the same sex but i don't think i'm BI and thers nothing wrong expermenting we should all do it. no its not wrong.

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sPicYx0hoTt answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 9:43 pm:
Well its not exactly wrong, but like if you dont want people to think your bie i wouldnt tell anybody. And if u did eat out your bestfriend, wouldnt it feel weird, btw you's ever since, or maybe it could make you's come closer. Chances are you might like it and start to do it more and maybe turn Bi. Hope i helped<3

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dreamingkat answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 9:13 pm:
What you call yourself isn't all that important, in my opinion.

What is important is that you and your best friend know what sort of relationship you have so that no one gets hurt. Are you friends with benefits? If one of you gets a boyfriend, will you stop making out with each other if he requests so? It's not important what you call each other, as long as your both on the same page. The idea is not to end up hurting each other.

There are also safe sex concerns. If either of you has any chance of having any sort of disease, you need to use protection. If you can't find a dental dam, you can take a flavored condom and cut up the side to make a flat sheet of flavored latex.

If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask me.

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nocturnalkid answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:56 pm:
There's nothing wrong with experimenting--as long as you're safe. If this is one you want to do, or not want to do, then fine. Just do right by you.

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jeanine278972 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:48 pm:
Nothin wrong with it.. I am bi.. and its natural.. experiment around.. who cares.. my friends and i do it.. and only one of them is actually bi too.. so lotsa girls do it. its a phase..and if you keep likin it, your prolly bi,(and you should totally do a three sum) LOL

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passionx0x answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:47 pm:
There's nothing wrong with that. If you start to develop other sexual or other feelings for girls, then you might consider yourself to be Bi, and there's nothing wrong with that. Or you could just like to have 'fun'.

Hope I helped-

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x3babiigurlx3 answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:35 pm:
have u ever watched the OC well theres this girl that is bi....i mean it might be a fase or u might be like that

xox

hope i helped

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SugaHigh answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:27 pm:
It's perfectly fine. Ever watch the OC? ;)

It is just a phase, but if you continue liking it maybe you ARE bi. Dont be afraid to act on your feelings

hope i helped

N I K K I

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x0xdReAmEr answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:27 pm:
hey dont worry i've done it before a birthday! l0l! shhh dont tell! 0o it dosent mean anythin you just like to have fun! dont worry lots of gurls make o ut with there friends it dosent mean anything bad! dont worry! and your not experimenting on her if shes doing it too! well good luck! =) x0x

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kleokriesel answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:24 pm:
What my concern is what your friends think. Do they think that you're their girlfriend? They might think that this is more than just making out.

Would you make out with your guy friends? If not, what's so different about your female friends?

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:18 pm:
your bi and i think that your experimenting should stop before you endanger yourself to aids

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MummuM answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:15 pm:
No, this isn't wrong at all hun. A lot of girls your age go through the "experiment" stage where they want to try new things. It's perfectly fine.
&hearts; Krissy

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therocketsummer answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 7:08 pm:
um.. idc if you rate me bad to w/e
... and you call yourself NOT bi??..
I say thats pretty bi and nasty..

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poisonkissesox answered Tuesday March 8 2005, 6:57 pm:
no it isn't wrong or nasty. it's perfectly acceptable.

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