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Last August I got cheated on my x boyfriend (he was my boyfriend at the time)it was a big thing fo rme b/c he was the first guy i ever loved and he had sex with a complete stranger.(and got drunk)And he's done all the apologizing and its truely sincere. we went out 4 times and all my friends told me not to do it the 4th time. 2 of my closest friends, Rachael* and Rob* told me not to becuase im "whipped". Well now me and my current boyfriend have a wonderful relashionship and its going great. my parents love him, he respects me, my friends like him and everything. But now my x says he wants me back. i talk to him a lot and he always says he loves me. How can i tell him that im happy now and i dont have to worry about getting hurt and that there will never be a chance of us going out again? (link)
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Just tell him straight up that you dont like him like that anymore. Tell him you're in love with your new boyfriend. Let him know that you didnt like the way he treated you in the past and you dont want to go through that anymore. It would probably be good not to talk to him as much. It could give him mixed signals, or make him become jealous, if your current boyfriend doesnt get jealous.
I'm not saying ur x is like this, but if you talk to ihm a lot he could convince your current beau that you're cheating on him. Dont cmpletely end the conversations, but lay off a little bit.
hope i helped hun
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i am a 6 ft 15 yr old female and i was just wondering, is being tall a turn off? i have a thin frame and get called 'hot' sometimes, so excluding looks is being tall a bad thing? through a mutual friend i have with my brother i found out what my brothers mates were saying about me 'imagine having sex with bozzas sister what a tall freak forget that I'd rather have sex with bozza' (LOL, note: that was the cleaned up version) (link)
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It isnt bad. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. When someone talks shit about you just stare them in the eye and tell them you're better then they can ever be! You may be tall, but if they continue to talk like this its going ot make you feel small inside, so dont let that happen. You seem so sweet, and where i live, tall girls are sexy.
IM me if ya wanna talk
XoMrSoRtOnOx
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ok this one is going to be long, so bear with me. i have this guy friend (he's 15/m and i'm 17/f) and our relationship is kinda brother/sisterish. a couple of weeks ago, i was talking to him online and he admitted that he had a crush on me. well this totally surprised me, cause i had a crush on him too. i told him and we were both shocked but then thought that we should try and maybe go out (in secret at first, just in case it didn't work out), and just see how it goes. well we did that, and long story short, we made out a few times then i told him that i didn't think it was a good idea. i'm not really sure why i did it, but i did. but now, i think i have "more than friend" feelings for him again (but i'm not exactly sure), but i don't want to hurt him again. oh, and he still likes me a lot. what should i do? (link)
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If you made out and wanted to end ur more than friend relationship, its probably because u feel so close to him in a "hes my lil bro" way. I dont think you should try again. Next time you could get hurt, and your friendship could be ruined forever. If you feel like you really care about him in a more "loving" ;) way then have a friends with benefits kinda thing, that way you can see other people. hope it helps
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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/? (link)
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well if he isnt allowed to have a girlfriend, wait till a parent isnt around, or call a cell phone. Try talking on the computer or going out on dates instead of talking on the phone. if you're nervous ask him to let his mom know. She could be really nice and interested to meet ya
hope it helps
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is there anyway to keep your nails clean, my seem to get dirty all the time? (link)
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Wash your hands a lot. get a manicure every now and then, even if you are a guy. that way you're nails can stay nice and healthy. Try filing your nails, and wear gloves if you're going to be in dirt
hope it helps
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One of my best guy friends who calls me all the time (like literally every 2 minutes) well my best friend told me that he likes me but i didnt believe her and then he told me he did and i just thought of him as my friend so i was like no and then he got a girl friend and it hurt me and i think i'm just in denial cuz i do have feelings for him. Do y'all think I have feelings for him? (link)
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It sounds like you guys have feelings for each other. But if you're asking, you may not be ready to fly in the lovely dating game with him yet. Talk to him about maybe going out in the future. If you are jealous, or upset, that he has a girlfriend you need to let him know.
hope it helps hun
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Does anyone know where to get the
Surgibleach 5 minute bleach kit?? Thanks, I rate all 5's! (link)
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Any grocery store or market near you would probably have it
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well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her? (link)
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There are millions of us gals out there. Just realize that if one doesnt like you, someone else out there is better for you.
Get to know her, or have someone talk to her for you. Its better to talk to her yourself though. If you were playing with her, you probably get along at least a little bit. If you get choked up compliment her tennis skills, its an obvious thing you have in common. And its an awesome ice breaker
good luck. hope i helped
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I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin? (link)
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hahahaha OMG!! lol. No i dont think it is a sin. But it is extremely unhealthy. You're beautiful in your own skin. Dont starve yourself or do anything else to lose weight.
hope i helped ya.... and dont hurt urself
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i have this friend and we are really good friends. I am a 15 year old guy and she is a 14 year old girl. She wants me but i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards. I dont want that to happen. How can i tell her this without hurting her feelings? (link)
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Tell her exactly how you feel. just let her know that you care about her, and your friendship, she should understand. But if you do like her thatw ay, take a chance with it. If you guys are good friends even if you break up you could still be friends
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Hi. Could anyone tell me some good songs to
work out to?
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eye of the tiger.... its from the Rocky movies
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I've got shoulderlength fine brown hair. I was stupid and my round bristle brush got rolled up in it and i can't get it out. How do i get it out
PLEASE HELP ME!! I rate 5's to EVERYONE who gives me a CONSTRUCTIVE answer ON SUBJECT!! (link)
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lol. It happens to the best of us. Just gently pull a little bit of hair out at a time. Eventually it will get unstuck
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Hey! some of you might know already that i am making a power point thing full of memories for my boyfriend. I need some Love quotes guys!! Please help!!
THANKS!!!!!!!
*-KeLs-* (link)
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IM me at XoMrSoRtOnOx (( AIM )) for some quotes... cause I make em for my webbie.
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ok. So I met this girl on the internet, shes really nice, my age, lives near me etc.. but just a little while ago, I rang her up.. and she sounded like a guy.. I mean, I'm not shallow or anything, but it kinda just freaks me out, And now I don't know what to do.. should I give her a chance, or not bother?
BTW I have another girl I aslo likes.. she is also really nice, 15, fun, and yeah...
signed, Confused 17/m (link)
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if she sounds like a guy, and it makes you feel uncomfortable, just stay friends with her. You shouldnt comepletely ditch her though. She probably knows that her voice is deep and it will hurt her to do that.
As for the 15 year old: She is 2 years younger than you, but us 15 year olds are madd awesome. lol. I think you should go with her. You sound like you'll have more fun.
hope i helped
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i have this really good guy friend who is a year older than me .in fact , i call him my "big brother" and he calls me "little sis" . LOL . anyway , the other day when i was just talking to him , i reached across him to get something from the person sitting on the other side of him . ( we were sitting in a row , with him in the center ) and i sort of brushed against his chest while bending back . After that , i noticed that he got a boner and there was a lump in his pants . well now i'm kinda freaked out cos i never thought that he would like me ( especially bcos of the little sis big bro thing ) . i'm confused and don't know if i like him .. what should i do ? (link)
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lol. if he got a boner... it could of been from anything lol. And if you "noticed" it... then you were looking at him there, which makes me wonder if you like him. Point is you should talk to him. Ask him if there could ever be anything more between you guys. He may think that you want it to, so if you dont just tell him a friend told you he liked you.
I've been in this situation way to many times lol. it usually works ;)
hope it helps
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how can i be more confident? i'm really ugly, shy and boring - i have nothing to live for really, i wont ever get married or have a life. seeing as i look bad, i want to get more confident. the thing is, i read something and it said write a list of what you like about yourself. i cant do that, i hate everything about myself lol =/ and plus i'd feel really bigheaded if i write good things about myself, that's why i hate myself so much, so i don't look like i'm self-obesssed or something. please help, thanks xo (link)
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hunni you should never feel ugly. Everybody is beutiful in their own skin. You are you. Love it! embrace it! You seem like you a sweet and caring girl. You're humble, i mean you dont want to be big headed. Confidence is being able to admit you're flaws. The next step is admitting you are just as good as everybody else. Wake up and every morning look yourself in the mirror and say " I'm ready! And I'm best at what I do! and I can do anything life throws at me! " Dont be afraid to stadn up to some loser who thinks they are better than you.
I hope I helped sweetie.
your 15 yr old friend ;)
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i have this firewall thingy and now it wont let me on aim and it keeps connecting.. vertifying name and password and then it will say connection lost when the connection isnt realli lost (link)
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try uninstalling the firewall. Sorry I cant help more. It happens to me but i dont have anything blocking it.
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1st of i'm 16 and i'm in 10th grade and a girl...and i have some pretty awesome best girl friends...well i make-out with a few of them...i don't mind it i actually have fun doing...but i wouldn't call my self bi...i read this thing online and it says that we experment to find out what we like...well i love makeing-out with both sexes! but i've never done more with a girl...i have and talked about eating girls out with my other best friend and we have talked about doing to each other...but i could never see my self with a girl...because i just love boys...but what i am getting at is it wrong to want to do this stuff with girls...it's mainly with my best friend...it's just a experment..is it wrong to experment with her? she has ate a girl out before..i mean i'm not scared to do it and i don't feel un-comfortable caouse she is my best frined...my point...does any of this seem wrong?
((i don't want the stupid rood people to answer this...or jerks who think it's "nasty"))
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It's perfectly fine. Ever watch the OC? ;)
It is just a phase, but if you continue liking it maybe you ARE bi. Dont be afraid to act on your feelings
hope i helped
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I'm about to make my friend a cd and he said to put whatever songs are cool and new and I like all old music. Does anyone know any good songs that are r&b and are new? (link)
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Ashanti- Only You
Lil Jon & the east side boys, ludacris, Usher- Lovers And Friends
Mario- Let Me Love You
Alicia Keys- Karma
Destineys Chil- Soldier
Destineys Child- Lose My Breath
Petey Pablo and Mary J Blige- Hope (( or hopeful forget ))
hope it helps... i know tons more so IM me if ya got AIM at XoMrSoRtOnOx if ya want more
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how long do you think me and my gf should start kissing? 2 monthes 3...? (link)
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Whever you both feel comfortable. And if you're asking, you're not. It doesnt matter how long you are going out, it matters how well you guys feel about each other. Make it feel special, and dont care about time.
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