ok. So I met this girl on the internet, shes really nice, my age, lives near me etc.. but just a little while ago, I rang her up.. and she sounded like a guy.. I mean, I'm not shallow or anything, but it kinda just freaks me out, And now I don't know what to do.. should I give her a chance, or not bother?
BTW I have another girl I aslo likes.. she is also really nice, 15, fun, and yeah...
rainbowsend answered Sunday March 13 2005, 3:38 pm: She might sound like a guy on the phone, but be a total hottie in person.
If you want to pursue a relationship with this internet girl, arrange to meet in a public place. Bring a friend along, be safe.
If, when you suggest meeting, she doesn't like the idea, it just might be that "she" has been lying to you, and actually is a guy (or she's just paranoid about meeting some guy she only met over the internet, but then again, she did already give you her number)
If she agrees to meet you, but when you get there you find that you're not attracted to her, it's like any blind date. Be nice, but at the end of the date say you'd just like to be friends.
About the 15 year old that you already know... that sounds promising, though two years can be a bit too much of an age gap. Pursue this relationship with caution, should the other one not work out. [ rainbowsend's advice column | Ask rainbowsend A Question ]
SugaHigh answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:48 am: if she sounds like a guy, and it makes you feel uncomfortable, just stay friends with her. You shouldnt comepletely ditch her though. She probably knows that her voice is deep and it will hurt her to do that.
As for the 15 year old: She is 2 years younger than you, but us 15 year olds are madd awesome. lol. I think you should go with her. You sound like you'll have more fun.
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:24 am: if u've met her before and you know shes a girl, then i guess give her a chance, especially if you like her a lot. if you haven't met her. meet her and find out yourself. another thing if you like the 15 year old more than the other girl is for you to go out with her and forget the other one. but i guessing you like the other more. i no theres a lot of options, but thats cause i dont no the whole story... and also a telephone usually magnifies the depth of ones voice. so your voice sounded deeper to her than it really is. that might be important i guess. well good luck! [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.