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Ok this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like?
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Well, see how the guy is. Find out what his personality's like, and try to decide for yourself whether to tell him or not. He shouldn't be upset if you choose not to tell him, and if you do he should be happy. I know you'll make the right choice, Merry Christmas!
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Well what i say is that it wouldnt matter if you were a virgin or not. If he loves you and you love him isnt that what matters? Who gives a shit!
I would tell him the truth and if the answer you give him pissed him off then he really didnt like you. I know you said for me not to tell the truth but I think that you should tell him your a virgin. I say that becuaseIf he likes it new there we go! If he dosnt then he'll probably still like it. Never in my life have i heard that guys like it " expierence".
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Ok, heres the thing, you say, "guys" as in just guys, and if you would have said boyfriend, it would be harder, but, I will make this easier on the both of us, heres a question: Since when was it their business to know about your sexual experiance? Never, if a guy asks, you tell them to shut up, or its not your concern. You don't need to tell them unless it is your boyfriend, and you happen to be close to him in the relationship. This isn't a question about 'what guys like', you are you, and if someone is going to turn their back on you for being a virgin, or not being one, they are far from worth it. I am telling you this, you say you will sound like a slut if you tell them you aren't, yes, you will sound like that if you go and tell everybody when they ask! But tell them to leave you alone, this is your personal information, and doesn't need to be given out to be 'cool'. This is not their business! So, I will not give you 'what guys like', they better like the truth of who you are, and if they don't, they are jerks, its almost like living a lie just to be their center of attention. If you do have a boyfriend, you tell him the truth, that is an important thibng to know when you are dating this person and you are close.
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Well you should tell em the truth dont lie about what you are.. if you tell em you arent a virgin they gon think they would be able to get it and then after they ask you if your a virgin then they want to know how many guys you slept with so there goes another lie *if your lieing about it*.. then if you are a virgin it shows you have respect for yourself and that you arent easy or anything.. you should tell em the truth one way or another and maybe dont listen to everything your friends say.. and who cares bout what a guy thinks of you.. he should respect you if you are a virgin or if your not...much luv dez x0x0
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You're asking the wrong person sweetie. But if I were to make an assumption, I'd say that every guy has a different opinion about this subject. I'm gunna have to tell you something you don't wanna hear. You should tell him. I mean, I think all the guy cares about is the sex part right?;) So just be honest. Good luck!
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