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My friend, Allie, is my best friend..lol. but we once went on a field trip and we had to sit in an audatorium and she held out her hand as if we were to hold hands. :[ I dunno if she's a lezbian or not! She has had a boyfriend and she's dating this guy named Matt G. and its all weird. Cuz in chorus, we sing a song and we stand next to each other and the one part in the song says "come put your hand in mine, let's make the whole world shine" and she holds out her hand in front of me!!! (i kno its a retarded song) So..Does anyone think she's a lezbian? or am i wrong?
most likely not, girls are generally cuddley
heyy well I just got my period and I was wondering when do you know it is ending? because..it has been the same flow since the first day. I had it for four days so far. Also does your stomach bloat when you have your period? Also my friend said all your fat goes to your legs is hat true? thanks
dont worry, your period can usually last anywhere from 2-7 or 8 days, itll stop eventually!
i am 23 and 11 weeks pregnant , I work but have loadsa dept , my mum is giving me 3 weeks to get out of her house as she does not agree with the pregnancy . what am I going to do , the father is in no position to help me , i do not want to give up my work as I have been there for 5 years.
but I am going to have no where to live please help
I strongly suggest giving the baby away; it may be very hard but do you really want to have the baby growing up homeless[possibly] with no daddy ect. ? try getting another job and saving your money
Okay I bought my mom a card for mOthers day and i want to write something special in it but i dont know what to write! Does any one have any opinions? Thanks ill rate high!
tell her how much you love her
that she is your best friend
you would do anything for her
ect!
I know this has been asked 100 times before but I need some help. After school I am always hungry (I have lunch at 10:30). And of course I always reach for something unhealthy and not very filling. So my question is what is a low-calorie yet filling snack? I am not as active as I should be so I don't use many calories. So what is something that I could burn off easily?
a fruit smoothie is sooo healthy and sooo filling!
if u dont no how to make it just use frozen fruit [anything], apple juice and banannas!
I've been thinking of becoming bulimic for awhile now... and I don't think there is nothing that can stop me, I just need to lost the weight because I feel so fat and left out all my friends are skinny and im fat and I hate it and it will stop when I become bulimic... im not going to stop
well dont become bulimic, there is not a good side to it. dont be so superficial, what the models look like are not what you want to be, they are all sick.. see your doctor
My brother died 2 weeks ago and I really don't know what to do. I lived with him because my mom died 3 years ago and my dad used to beat and rape me. He was more like a father than a brother to me and I really don't know what to do. I've been staying with my friend until I get a foster family and she is always asking me if I'm ok and I'm really not. I don't know what to do with myself. I even tried drugs and I've been drinking a lot. I just want to kill myself and I'm so scared of what's going to happen next. I love him soo much and he was pretty much all that I had and now he's gone. I haven't even cried because I just can't, does that mean that there's something wrong with me? Why can't I just cry like normal people do when something happens to them? I really think that I'm a horrible because I can't even cry for my own brother. Please help me
I suggest that you do try to cry, bottling things up is no way to deal with something. Once you have a good cry, get a good sleep, when you wake up take it easy for the next day or so. You cannot cry at the moment because i think you are in denial/shock, dont feel bad, it happens alot in people who have the same situation as you. Whenever you feel ready, talk to someone you trust. Whatever you do do not, under any surcumstances try and hurt yourself. what happend is not your fault and you are not to be blamed in any way.
much love
goMango
Ugh I'm chinese..yeah yeah..the first thing that comes to mind are those tiny tiny eyes..whatever..but yeah i'm so insecure of myself.. is there anything i can do to make them look BIGGER?! pleaseeee..(don't say surgery!..im only like 13) but yeahh please help..here is my ratins system: (5)-great advice, (4)-ok advice but somewhat questionable :-\ (3)-about to fall off the curb kinda ok but useless advice, (2)-unhelpful and useless,(1)-if you critisize me or basically give useless advice..thanks in advance!
try using some dark eyeliner and give it a shadowy effect... also some bright color may give it the illusion that it is bigger
I need to go get my hair cut pretty soon and I was looking around for a cute way to cut it. I have dirty blonde hair that is about a foot past my shoulders and I have an oval face. All the websites that I've been to only had old styles that I didnt really like. Id be really greatful if anyone could find a good website or some pics. Thanks!!
P.S.-- I still want to keep my hair pretty long.
get it layered alot and add some honey blonde highlights, if you add in some reddish color it looks pretty too! [this is what i did :p]
To all of you girls out there! Is it true that sometimes when you get your period your face can breakout?
Thanks
yup!
hey im from the uk and you always talk about bangs. but i want to know what are they?
thank you
bangs is the hair that hangs infront of you and is shorter than all the other hair
im wicked bored. any ideas of fun websites to ammuse myself? like magazine sites besides, j-14, seventeen, cosmogirl, teen people...
Thanks!!! (13.f)
gurl
how much would at home wax cost? and how much would a session be about in a salon??
: ) thanks.
umm, home wax can be anywhere between 10-30$ salons can be 40-80$
Lately i have been sad all the time im never happy anymore im always mad and sreaming or sad aand crying.. why im i like this all of a sudden..
if u havent had ure period before, it could be pms [either way]
I have acne on my face that I hate.
I have an apointment for the dermatologist in May. But does anyone know some good over the counter stuff that I can use till then?
proactive works realllly well
I'm involoved with a married man and have been for two years now. We started out as just friends and the relatonship evolved.He's scared to leave his wife because they share two children together. I'm very much in love with him and want to be with him. Lately I've been feeling he's been wasting my time because he hasn't left her yet and I feel he never will. When I ask when will he leave or make a decision on leaving, he tells me he cant leave his kids with her and wants to know he could get full custody before he leaves. What should I do in this situatuion? HEEEELLLLLPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!
this may be hard, but he is married and has kids, are you really willing to destroy that? put yourself in his wifes position
my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!
Tell her how u feel
I'm going on a school trip Wed-Fri. and I've got my period the heaviest it's ever been. It's like I have to change my pad every hour. I've never gotten cramps and now I have them really bad. During the trip we are going to make a couple rest stops off the bus. I can't put a pad in my pocket because it will be obvious..This is going to ruin my whole trip! I won't feel well and all my friends are going to have fun. I can't bring medicine either...it isn't allowed. I might have to wear a couple pads at once and like two pairs of underwear until I can quitely try to change it. Please help me get through this because I don't know what to do! I will remember this trip forever too. =/
Wear a tampon with the plasic aplicatior thing, use the heavy ones, u only have to change them at the most 8 hrs! [dont worry about tss, just make sure to change it!] bring some ginger-ale and curl up in a ball as much as u can
How can i loose a few inches fast before summer (Pref. around my stomach and thighs) ? I rate high!
Run, its a good way to lose weight, tho i suggest u run alot!
In english class we're doing a project and we have to read it outloud. Last time when i was reading something outloud evry1 lauged at me! (Darn my squeeky voice) Anyways, i dunt want 2 read mine outloud! What should i do??
Well, you have to read your project outloud-unless u want to fail- otherwise, if ure voice squeaks just clear your voice and pretend ure darn proud of it! It happens to all guys