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pregnat / homeless/ working ...
i am 23 and 11 weeks pregnant , I work but have loadsa dept , my mum is giving me 3 weeks to get out of her house as she does not agree with the pregnancy . what am I going to do , the father is in no position to help me , i do not want to give up my work as I have been there for 5 years.
but I am going to have no where to live please help
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i am so sorry but do you have any close friends houses that you can stay at until you get enough money to go and buy a place because you shouldnt have to live on your own with a baby and a job thats just not cool so go to a friends and sray there for the time being o.k.
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Contact social services and seek some help. They should be able to do something for you to keep you friom falling further into debt. It is not a permenant fix but may help you get on your feet. :)
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stay with a friend or another family member for a while until you get things straightened out
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I strongly suggest giving the baby away; it may be very hard but do you really want to have the baby growing up homeless[possibly] with no daddy ect. ? try getting another job and saving your money
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talk to yor mom and ask to stay...cause taht would be mean to throw her daughter AND grandbaby out...
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Are you close to a relative that you could stay with.. or one of his relative's.. thats what my sister did she stayed with her baby daddy's mom.. or do you have any close friends that would let you stay with them til you get on your feet...?? much luv dez x0x0
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Well you don't way whether or not you want to keep the baby. If you want to keep the baby, there are lots of places that will help you. Most of them have a religious theme. Like catholic charities. You don't say what state you live in. So I can't direct you to a place that may help you. A family shelter my be able to help you. If you want to give more detail you will have to leave a question in my in box.
Michele
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They have specific residences for pregnant women or women with children, if worse came to worse you could move in there. Start applying for income based apartments right now, so that you could move in by the end of the month. As far as the pregnancy and medical help, there is state funding to help pregnant women and it's free. All you have to do is find local resources and they will all help you.
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first of all , there are options you can use
for instance you could take some leave from work as far as i have known if you have been with a business for that long they shold pay you, if there isnt any where you can stay the last resort is a hostel
i hink you're mum will come around, just give her time, i know youdon't have time
just believe in God and and anything can be possible
Good luck
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