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dithching
my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!
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Well, you could try talkin to her about it. Tell her that you know its fine to have other friends, but that you are feeling a little left out. Or maybe you can try to talk to her new friend too, odds are that since you and your bff have matching personalities that this girl will have a similar personality too. Like set up a time and place you can hang out like go out to eat,mall, or to the movies.
I hope things work out with yall!
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Well try to make plans to meet your best friend's friend. If that fails, try to make plans is way advance with her.
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i've been going through this ALOT lately.. its not that she DOESNT want to hang out with you.. it just a new friend and she wants to be with her alot.. its kind of like when you get something new.. you want to ALWAYS have it with you.. you should tell her how you feel so she knows how shes making you feel.. that might change something.. i hope all ends up well for you! // if you have a problem with talking.. maybe you should mention that.. it helps to know what you can and cant do..
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Tell her how u feel
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i'm going throught the same thing you are..just talk to her and if she doesnt listen shes not a good friend and if she does then talk it out and things will hopefully get better
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Tell her how you feel, if she blows you off when you talk to her she obviously isn't your real friend. The other girl also might be trying to steal her away from you and your friend just can't resist. Just talk to her and it should be ok.
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Aright, this is an easy one.. just talk to your friend about what is going on and tell her how you feel. Don't make it seem like your mad or anything, just hurt that she'd rather hang out with this other girl now more than you. If she's your best friend, then she should be able to listen to what you are saying and be able to talk to you about what is going on. Don't get too upset about this though... It may just be that she just needs a little space from you, and in that case, don't sweat it. People need breaks from other people all the time when they're close, and its perfectly normal.
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listen.. you dont need her.. a best friend isnt going to ditch you.. talk to her first and if she doesnt change then oh well.. there are plenty of nice people out there who im sure would love to be your friend.. my best friend ditches me for her boyfriend alot, and when she does i will just go talk to other people and make new friends.. thats what you should do.. make new friends and she will eventually come back to you.. hope it helps
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Well i have the same problem with my friend carly.. i don't feel hurt or neglected but u kno just kinda bored wen evr she hangs out with her other friend what i think you should do is call her lyk everyday and on the days u call her ask her if she want to hang out if she says she is gunna hang with her other friend ask if you can tag along with them try to make more friends and remind her about the old memorys you guys shared hanging out together.. and then she will maybe realize that you and her have some catching up to do..?? try that^^
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I personally don't think you should forget about her. i think that maybe you should get her alone and tell her how you feel. i f she knew that this was hurting you she might start hanging out with you again. But be prepared to hang out with the other girl to. You might want to say to your friend that her hanging out with another person is hurting you and maybe you could hang out with both of them. That way everyone wins. You might even feel that this other gurl is pretty cool. Go ahead try it.
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Talk to her, tell her that you miss be with her and that you feel like you cant doing anything together or with her without her friend interfering.
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Don't forget her, just find someone else to hang around with when she ditches you. Who knows you may find a new friend who you have even more in common with. Being a little jealous is normal. :)
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Sounds like you a little bit jealous. If she says you are her best friend, then you are. Take her word for it. If it is bothering you that much, talk to her about how you feel. Good luck.
-Brianna
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I think you should go talk to her PRIVATELY, and in a calm place. Try to do it in person though, not online or the phone...tell her that you feel as if shes not acting the same towards her anymore...*
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the same thing happened to me and my best friend as soon as we started highschool, we stopped hanging out as much and now we barley talk. we used to be always together. i think this could have been avoided if i told her how i felt. this happens alot. people change and meet new people. talk to your friend tell her whats on your mind. maybe you can become good friends with the other girl to. all three of you can be best friends. maybe throw a sleep over and invite this new girl.
hope i could help
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