Hi everyone my name is Bianca I am 15 years old. I have blond hair and blue eyes. i started this because I have quiet a few problems and because I give advice at my school. my friend thought that I should start this and help other people so I am. If you want to ask me a question go for it, I might be able to help you. Bye
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Location: Winnipeg/ Manitoba
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Age: 15
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Member Since: April 18, 2005
Answers: 10
Last Update: February 27, 2007
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So recently, I told my sister that I'm gay (her and I are really close) and she promises to keep it a secret. She just got out of a relationship with this guy(let's call him X). I recently found out that X is bi so we started being friends and now were secretly dating. When my sister found out that we were dating, she completely flipped out because since I'm gay I should follow the girl rule: "Girls don't date other Girls' exes" and told me that if I don't end things with him now, she's going to tell my parents that I'm gay. I really like X, and I don't want to end things off with him just because my sister believes in this girl rule. I know for a fact that my parents aren't very understanding with this situation because we're Catholis I'm supposed to degrade gays. So what am I supposed to do? Do I choose love I mean I've never had a deeper connection with anyone else in my life, or do I choose acceptance, shelter, food, and an empty, unhappy life? (link)
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I think if your sister really was close with you then she should allow this and get over the fact that u really like him. Your parents love you and they will find out eventually so why dont you just get it over with. I had a friend who was gay and he didnt want anyone to know, so when people starting dropping hints he asked out one of his friends who was a girl just to hide it. She knew that he was gay and did it for him because she cared. Finally he couldnt keep this fake relationship going and he finally spilled out to all of his friends that he was gay. yea we were shocked but we are totally over it now and we love him even more for telling us and trusting us.
I think you should stay with this guy and if she tells your parents then let her. Just remember that you are still a person no matter what, gay, bi, straight, or a freakin alien. it doesnt matter. And for confessing it makes you a stronger person as well. Dont let your sister get in the way of your feelings for this guy, and dont you let your parents or sister make you feel any less then you really are.
Remember that you are always strong and you can handle anything that might happen if you choose to stay with this guy.
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I've been thinking alot about my career that i want to pursue, and I happen to love the french language. I was thinking about some jobs i could have by speaking different languages, but i'm just not sure. Does anybody know of any jobs i could possibly have by doing what i love? Thanks!
Janine (link)
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Hey I think its great that you want to do something like that. I think that you should become an air stewards or do something like a travel agent, or a teach french to english people. Well I hope I could help!
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In school there are about 10 boys that pick on me they call me names and I hate it , Once I tried to kill myself but they laughed more Please help me!
Wales Bullied (link)
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This is not a joking matter. If they are hurting you, you should tell someone. Don't try to kill urself, to many peole would miss you. You should really tell someone, even though they will laugh at you and maybe call you more names, you should still tell maybe even call kids help phone. My brother tried to stand up for himself one time. The problem was that he had no chance. Things got worse when the bully thretened to kill him. The bully pulled out a knife and almost killed my brother. My brother didn't tell anyone till that happened. So you should tell someone. Good luck!
~*§Bianca§*~
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I am attracted to guys but there are these two women i am too. One is my moms friend who is 42 and her daughter who is 17. I like them a lot like more than friends and im only 13. After i stop liking these two girls i dont think i will like any others. After thse two im back to guys 100%. Am i bi? (link)
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Don't be ashamed. But if you are sure you like guys and girls then you might be. This is totally common and you can't help it. I have a friend who is gay and I am helping him through his rough time. But if you say it is just these two girls and you don't think you wil like any others then I think you will be fine. This is just some weird thing right now. I don't think you are. You'll be ok. Bye.
~*§Bianca§*~
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OK. I usually have a really heavy flow. Today, blood soaked all the way through my pad, through my underwear, and through my pants!!!! I was so embarassed! Second, i feel like i smell bad during my period. What can i do to control the smell other than changing the pad frequently, because i do. Should i wear perfume?
I could use some help. (link)
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This is totally a girl problem so thats why I anwsered. I am a girl and I have extremly heavy flows too. To slow down my flow I put two fluffy pillows under my feet when I sleep, or you can do anything that would elevate your feet up. I works trust me. Maybe while you are at school you should use maxi pads. Those work too. As for the smell there is nothing you can do to get it to go away so you might want to try a perfume to cover it. And don't get to worried unless you have it for longer than 2 weeks or if it comes back every week. I hope I could help. But remember when you have the pillows under your feet that you keep them there every night until your period goes away.
~*§Bianca§*~
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theres this boy we arent dating or anything but we used too. well lately ive been hearing that he wants to date me again and he has been flirting with me. and also he has been asking me to have sex with him im a virgin and im not really ready for sex or anything wat should i do. (link)
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If you like this guy and you want to go out with him again, then you can ask him out. But if he really wants to have sex with you and you aren't ready then you have got to tell him that, or he will keep pushing up on you.But if you do want to go out with him but you are afraid that you won't be able to break free from him when he is making a move, then don't ask him out because it is not safe. If you don't want to go out with him again then just tell him that but don't do it harshly because it really hurts. I hope I could help. Bye
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There's this boy I like and we're close, but I can't tell if we are just friends. We talk on the phone and on the internet alot, and hang with eachother at school but still, alot of the times, it seems like we're friends. He's really sweet to me, and not anyone else. And about twice, we were talking and he had a boner. I'm not sure if that makes any difference though. The point is, I really want to make a move but first, I want to know if it sounds like he's interested, or if we're just friends.
!& CHELS (link)
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Well this is a topic that is a bit funny and troubleing. It dependes on the person he is. If he a kind of a pervert (no effence) then maybe he does like you if he gets a boner and is treating you nicely. But if he is just a really nice person he could just be acting himself and maybe is trying to figure out if he likes you. I think you should go for it and ask him out. He might so no but at least you tried right. Well good luck!
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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
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I personally don't think you should forget about her. i think that maybe you should get her alone and tell her how you feel. i f she knew that this was hurting you she might start hanging out with you again. But be prepared to hang out with the other girl to. You might want to say to your friend that her hanging out with another person is hurting you and maybe you could hang out with both of them. That way everyone wins. You might even feel that this other gurl is pretty cool. Go ahead try it.
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My Birthday is today ^_^ im turning 14,and i dont no what to do for it [[im having to friends over but i dont want to bore them]] What should i do? (link)
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Well first congradulations and i hope you have a good day. I think that maybe you should have a sleep over with them and rent a bunch of movies of the gender you like. Or you can go to the movies or go bowling. Or do anything that you know for sure they will like and have fun. If you know your friends then you will figure out something great for them to do and for you to do. Maybe you can just sit around and talk about the funniest things that you guys can remember. I did that once and the party was great. Well happy birthday and have a great day. I hope I could help.
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I burnt my finger on the cooker around half an hour ago, ran it under the cold water tap until it stopped hurting and forgot about it. But it's just started to hurt really badly again. I put a cold compress on it and put some antiseptic cream on but it doesn't seem to be stopping the stinging. What can I do? (link)
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Well I have burnt my finger before and you should just try to ignore it. Maybe watch some tv and try to forget it. And by the time you remember it, the stinging will stop. ok bye. Hope it gets better.
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