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Am i bi?


Question Posted Wednesday April 20 2005, 4:51 pm

I am attracted to guys but there are these two women i am too. One is my moms friend who is 42 and her daughter who is 17. I like them a lot like more than friends and im only 13. After i stop liking these two girls i dont think i will like any others. After thse two im back to guys 100%. Am i bi?

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xOtWiXi answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:50 pm:
Well, technically, you are, since you are interested in people in both sexes. However, I know they are crushes but 42 is really old to even have a chance with, no offense, but think about it. Are you attracted to them that way, or do you just admire them because of their beauty?
If you just admire them and not attracted that way, you aren't bi. But even though you only like 2 girls, you still pretty much are bi. If you need anything, just message me! Hope I've Helped! ♥

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Michele answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:27 pm:
If you are attracted as friends, that is OK, but if they persue a sexual relationship with you, even one that does not go too far, they are in violation of the law, they can be arrested, and branded as sexual offenders for the rest of their lives. If they are smart they will only be your friend. And good friends are OK. But if they take it any further, it could mean a big scandal. They are old enough to know better...if they persue a sexual relationship with you, they deserve to be arrested, you are too young to be involved sexually with a male or female. Please give this some time. You need to be more mature to make sense out of your feelings. You will regret it if you persue a relationship with those people

Michele

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SheDidntLuvUAnyways answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:13 pm:
When I was going from about 5th-8th grade I thought I was bi and I would always pretty much just check out girls; but could never picture myself doing anything with a girl. My friends have told me they went through the exact same thing too. Its normal to look at a girls butt or boobs or body cause youre just scooping out your competition and of course its a part of your body your eyes are going to go to it. This might just be a phase you're going through, but you could be bi. Just give it some time.

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Teza answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:05 pm:
I think you might be bi but liking a 42 year old woman and your 13 is sick. x0

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o0xbrianna answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 6:00 pm:
Yea it sounds like you are.




-Brianna

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LlYySsAa answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:56 pm:
I wouldn't say your "bi". You are a young girl and your going through changes. It's confusing, but your definetly not bi. Hope this helps!!


~Alyssa

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dorinflower55 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:55 pm:
yes, u might be and who caresa it doesn't matter anyway...but u might no want ot go for te 42 year oild that is a little...not for your age. Just don't make a big deal abvout it...
-hope i helped!-good luck!
--dorinflower55

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Philliesfan399 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:46 pm:
Since Bi is the abbreviation for the chemical element bismuth, I doubt you are bismuth.

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Bianca_01 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:37 pm:
Don't be ashamed. But if you are sure you like guys and girls then you might be. This is totally common and you can't help it. I have a friend who is gay and I am helping him through his rough time. But if you say it is just these two girls and you don't think you wil like any others then I think you will be fine. This is just some weird thing right now. I don't think you are. You'll be ok. Bye.

~*§Bianca§*~

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not_your_star34 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:37 pm:
You might be bi, but I'm not so sure if you are or not. Have you had feelings like this about women before? If so, then you might be bi. If not, maybe you love these two women like sisters or like best friends, not "love" love. I'm not sure since I'm not you, and I can't feel what you feel. I hope I helped, and leave a message in my inbox if you have any more questions!
*Manders*

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advicegiver13 answered Wednesday April 20 2005, 5:32 pm:
I think right now you are... a little, but i also think that you want to expreience new things and don't be ashamed if you are bi. Just be who you are. Hope i helped!

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