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i am an active girl who is part tom-biy, and can be a prep sometimes (but barely) i love to hang out with my friends whenever i can, but don't always get the chance. i like making my friends happy and my enemies sad. (lol, jk)

E-mail: farmerine@aol.com
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Age: 13
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Okay, i dont usually do this, but i cant trust my friends with this one. I have a boyfriend who ive been dating for 13 months. in the last four months, ive started to fall for a guy i work with and have been working with for two years, we are jokingly refered to as the work couple. lately my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot, and i spend more time at work (im working full time this summer) i dont think that i will be truly happy with either relationship, but the situation im in right now isnt appealing either. i feel like im losing interest in my boyfriend, yet i love him just as much.

what do i do? (link)
talk to your bf about your fighting and just keep it on the down low about the worker guy and try to work things out before making any drastic changes


Can you pee with a tampon in?? also...is it ok to wear a tampon even if you dont have your pieriod?? and does it hurt more to take out a "dry" tampon??? (link)
yes you can pee with a tampon its two different wholes
dont wear a tampon if u dont have you period
and yes it will hurt more


what does it mean if someone calls you a "trick"
i mean i know this guy was kidding around because we are like good friends but i was just wondering! thanks (link)
i think it means that he needs to know you to get through to you that he likes you , or something like that


i want an ipod nano
and i was just wondering how much do they cost?
wheres a good place to get them at a cheap price? (link)
i dont know where to get them cheaper...
but if you go to apple.com then it tells you everything..
a nano with 500 congs is 150
and the one with 1000 songs is 200
the video with 7500 songs (30 gbs) is 250 and the video with 15000 songs (60 gbs) is 300..
yeah..
hope i helped!!


what would you guys reccomend, the ipod nano or the ipod mini? what is the difference between the two? and more facts. please no websites. thanks (link)
well i have the nano..and i love it
if you get the four gbs, then it fits as many songs as the mini..the only difference is the size..
they dont make the minis anymore...
so i would go with the nano.
it is alot prettier but that all depends on oppinion..
hope i helped!


My parents && teachers are saying they might send me "away to school" and im guessing that means boarding school, because I dont go to school down here. (problems w/ the school, the past and everything)

I refuise to go to a boarding school and im tarified!

my life is really horible. Basicly I feel like a walking dead person. My soul is just DEAD! ( i wish I was in heaven right now )

I guess my question is what should I do? I am so scared that i will be sent away and that ill rott away there!

Im in to much pain and its un controlable

Please help!! (link)
well firstly you can try talking to your skool and telling them that you want to start over new, put all the bad things behind and just start over FRESH!

then if the skool says okay then talk to your parents and tell them the same thing. i am not good at talking directly to my parents, so i always look for another way to get it through to them, try asking the skool to call them, or talking to them through a friend or sibling.

Because you said you fell like your soul is dead, try keeping a journal, or drawing, or going to a physochologist or some way of taking some preasure off you. maybe even a sport. anything that can let you blow steam without causing harm to anyone or anything.

tell your parents somehow how much you are scared of being sent away, and that you will not manage there even half as good as where you are now because you will be in a totally new envirment. stuff like that.

maybe it really is good for you though, it all depends on how you really live. i don't really know you all that well.

ask me in my inbox if you have anymore questions!
tell me how it goes and good luck!
~``~dorin


hey i wanna lose 20 lbs by summer (about 4 lbs a month.) So what should i do to lose 4 lbs. by the end of feburary.
*ThX a BuNcH (link)
well i asked my friend the same question and she sent me this site http://diets.aol.com/americatakesitoff/buddyup
look on the bottom of the page, where it says, 3 ways 30 days or something. that might help
besides that. you can jog or run a couple miles a day, or every other day. do crunches and push ups every night before you go to sleep, and don't eat junk food. (or at least less, if you eat alot already)

i think there is also that special k cereal thing, that you eat 2 bowls of ceeal a day (instead of 2 meals) and loose up to 6 pounds in 2 weeks. i don't know if that is healthy or not. if you want i can look into it. just ask me (if you want)

hope i helped and good luck!
if you have any other questions for me you can inbox me!
~dorin


omg i need hellppp!! ok so there is this guy wwho was my best friend he asked me aout and we went out for about a month then one day out of no were he broke up with me and a day later went out with another girl. i cried for days adn i was still in ove with him the today he calls me up and says i made a huge mistake i dont know why he said he didnt think he liked me untilli was gone he realised how much he did he said he only wen tout with the other girl because he friedn pressured him in to doing it and my other best friend as a guy told em the same thing so i noe thats true he said he like me and that every one deserves a secound chance and he said he was not ganna force me to say yes again he promissed he wasnt lieing and then he asked me if i would give hima secound chance and i said yes did i make the wrong choice please help me out
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well if you really like him then it was a good decision, but you have to remember that he did break your heart, and that he cannot do it again unless he has a good reason. make sure he knows that or it might happen again. it is not completely his fault though, becasue his friend did pressure him. and that is a rele rele bad feeling.
It might also be a good reason that you said yes again because he was your best friend before, and you two know each other well.
i think it is sweet that he only realized what he had when it was gone. it almost puts you in charge.lol
tell me if you need anymore help! i will try my best!
tell me how it goes!
hope i helped
~dorin


Well i've liked this girl for awhile. I am planing to tell her how i feel on Valentines Day. Are there any ideas how I could tell her? Also, are there any gift ideas?

Thanks in advance!

P.S. - We are both 13, and she is kind of a silly person if that helps any... (link)
well i am 13. and i kinda am a funny, sarcasticy girl, so if you think she will be akward and shy with something like a regular teddy bear (which is still very sweet) then get one of those teddy bears that talk and have it say something witty or funny. or chocholate roses. those are soo cute! they might be expensive though, so get a few, or a box of chocholates, like godiva or something cute.
also a regular bouquet of flowers, either very colorful, one color, or (alittl eedxpensive) white, pink and red roses. they are so effing pretty together!
hope i helped! ask me in my in box if you have any other questions, or comments!


I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this? (link)
Are you serious! she's 10!!!
tell her that she is way too young and that it's bad and tell her all the diseases and and stuff she can get from it...
hope i helped
dorito


how do i get the guy i like who kinda likes me too to ask me 2 homecoming if its this saturday? (link)
who says guys have to ask the girls anyway ask him yourself....but if you don't wanna ask yourself try to be around him a bit more, but don't be too clingy. and try to be alond eoth him sometimes, so that he has a chance to asctually ask you out without all his friends around him and stuff.
ask me anytime!
have fun!
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I'm horribly apprehensive about my up soming Bat Mitzvah!! I have prepared a very long speech about what i learned in hebrew school. Thats not what im nervous about though. I'm nervous about the hebrew reading (which is actually written in transliteration). I get nervous and start shaking. Sometimes I get so nervous that I talk really fast and slur my words. I don't want to mess up a day that is all about me!! How can I gain some CONFIDENCE in myself!! I'm so gunna screw up!! (link)
well if you need some hebrew help then i can help you cuz i speak fluently, so if ya have a ? then you can inbox me, i'll answer anytime..
For your confidence, just concentrate rele hard and practice a few times, but not too many times cuz then it'll get you rele confused...
if i din't rele answer your ? then inbox me!
mwazz!
&&


How old do you think you should be for it to be okay for you to start dating? I need a lot of opionions !! all ages!! please in your answer put how old you are because i really need a lot of different point of views...
thanks soo much

xox (link)
well it depends, when you are little you can date but it's not as serious, like in elementry, (3rd or 4th grade)
and then in middle skool it gets a little more serious, (like hooking up and stuff, and after that it is definetely more serious. so i think like 5th or 6th grade
13 f
-dorito
ps plese rate


does in hurt when myou have sex for the first time iam 15 and a girl (link)
oh yea


Does anyone know the song that goes like were goin down down in an earlier round and sugar were going down swinging (link)
we're going down down
by:fallout boys
it hink
ta da
-dorito


my best friend diana, she weighs 113 pounds and she REFUSES to eat, and i sware. shes 12/f ps shes like 5'6

diana wants to be like me. im 13/f
im really small about 5'0 and i weigh a little over 76 pounds

she wants to loose like 20 pounds and be like me.

i find that disturding because like, it just is!

how can i tell her to stop it off and well yeah!

_________________________________________________

ps she always says she is fat and she isnt!
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xOx mel

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well tell her she ways more beacuse she is taller....
and if she does afetr skool stuff or is in good active shape then it could be that she weighs more because muscle weighs way more then fta, trust me im like 5'4 and thought i was fat last year to cuz i weighed more then my friend, but she is shorter, tell her not to stop eating and that if she rele does wanna loose weight tell her to eat better not stop eating...not to worry about the weight itself but how she looks cuz yoiu can bge super thin and still weigh alot..
ta da!


when a guy asks you to a dance..how do you nicely turn him down? (link)
be like sry i wanna go alone or with ur friends, or b like, i wanna be free that night so i don't have any worrys about making you feel bad (or bring family, jk)
ta da!
have fun


Alright, well basically the story goes that i'm a freshman. And my first homecoming is a big deal to me. I said yes to a sophmore who i barely know. Then after about two weeks I said I didn't want to go with him.(this happened today) I feel so guilty but he never talks to me or even tries to get to know me. I want to go with my best friend ever (whos a guy duh) but i secretly like him and he goes to another high school. He wants to go with me too. I feel really bad about ditching the sophmore though and all my friends think im a big bitch for doing that. What do I do? Go with my bff? and do u think my decision to break the date was wrong. any advice is appreciated. im a girl also. thanks!! (link)
definetely go with your bff, he sounds cute and u probably like him alot more and will have a better time with him...unless you won't
go with the guy that you think you would have more fun with, and who cares about the other guy you barely kno and your friends will get over it eventually
And maybe he'll like you even more b4 the party is over... ;)
ta da
have fun!


where is the cholesterol found in eggs? the yoke (yellow part) or the whites? (link)
the yellow part, im pretty sure...yep im sure..
ta da!


i started my period around the first of august. like the 2nd..about.. for the first time. its september now & i havent started yet this month. will the date i start this month be the date for every month ? ?? help me out w/ this time date stuff (link)
if it was ur first time then you probably won't get it for a couple months...so just keep a pad with u sometimes




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