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HOMECOMING DILEMA
Alright, well basically the story goes that i'm a freshman. And my first homecoming is a big deal to me. I said yes to a sophmore who i barely know. Then after about two weeks I said I didn't want to go with him.(this happened today) I feel so guilty but he never talks to me or even tries to get to know me. I want to go with my best friend ever (whos a guy duh) but i secretly like him and he goes to another high school. He wants to go with me too. I feel really bad about ditching the sophmore though and all my friends think im a big bitch for doing that. What do I do? Go with my bff? and do u think my decision to break the date was wrong. any advice is appreciated. im a girl also. thanks!!
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definetely go with your bff, he sounds cute and u probably like him alot more and will have a better time with him...unless you won't
go with the guy that you think you would have more fun with, and who cares about the other guy you barely kno and your friends will get over it eventually
And maybe he'll like you even more b4 the party is over... ;)
ta da
have fun!
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I do not agree with any of the advice you have been given so far. You promised someone months ago you would go with them. What changed between then and now? Stringing someone along you do not know for months making them think you are going together is indeed wrong. So what if this best friend ever as you refer to him asked you yesterday? He must be wise and friend enough to know as do you that you had that date planned. Should you feel guilty? HELL YES.
Can you imagine how that guy must of felt to learn this and after he told everyone he knew you were going. The thing is he likes you and did like you well enough to ask and may have seen this as his opportunity to get to know or impress you. I think you ought to go--you could not do worse than him or STAY AT HOME. He should not feel like egg is on his face--YOU SHOULD.
You might not like any of this but I am a straight-shooter, tell it like it is guy, with 27 years worth of life experience. If you do not go with him, STAY HOME, what right do you have going now after doing this? Go with him, give him his date and after that decide what to do. Friends can wait but those who went out their way to be with you shouldn't. How would you feel if you were him thinking you are going for months and then suddenly this so-called friends issue came up? You wouldn't tolerate or like it so why should he?
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ok well talk to the sophmore and say i need to get to know you better and since i dont know you i would feel comfortable going with someone you know then if he understands you can ask your bff but if he's a jerk then just tell your friends that and maybe they wont think your a big ditch for leaving him and going with your freinds they should understand =] hope i helped
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