I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this?
CameronASTB answered Friday October 14 2005, 1:44 am: well, just tell her that shes not supposed to do that, & tell her to wait untill shes at least 14 or 13, she should listen to you, she probolly looks up to you
& you tell them a closer year... 1, cos it doesn't seem to far off, 2, cos most people loose it around 13-16
sHakeitOff answered Thursday October 13 2005, 9:10 am: whoa! your sister is giving her bf a bj when she is 10, sit her down and tell her she doesnt do those things until she is a lot older, tell her she can do them when shes like 5 yrs older or soemthing if u catch her doing it again or something tell ur mom a ten yr old shouldnt do that [ sHakeitOff's advice column | Ask sHakeitOff A Question ]
xHlaxstarWx answered Wednesday October 12 2005, 8:38 pm: How old is your sisters boyfriend??
When I was 10 kids had gone out and kissed but I hadn't. I would sit your sister down one day and tell her how serious it is. I don't think it's right at all for her to have sex at the age of 10. I would log on advicenators and show her what everyone says. She eventually will regret it.
redninja answered Wednesday October 12 2005, 8:30 pm: omg 10yr old givin head?!?! thats way to young for anythin sexual! you might want tell her she is too young to be thinkin of things like that, i mean 1-0yrs old most girls havent hit puberty! when you tel her i wouldnt lecture her or anything tho. [ redninja's advice column | Ask redninja A Question ]
WhipszlxlChainsz answered Wednesday October 12 2005, 1:43 pm: Look for you safety it's best that you talk to your mom about it because she is 10 and thats way to young to be doing anything of the sort she could end up pregnant by the age of 13 or even get an std...its for your good and hers so please talk to your mom,
hope I helped [ WhipszlxlChainsz's advice column | Ask WhipszlxlChainsz A Question ]
lyDia_LoU answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 10:35 pm: Hollly crap! Kids these days.. lol. Since you are older then her, don't feel akward talking to her about it. One day when she's doing homework, knock on her door and say "Hey _______, can we talk for a second?" She'll say yes and just be like "Okay umm... a couple of days ago i saw you and (insert name here) like (insert whatever else they did here). (then something to the point of) I know it's none of my business, but I don't think you should be doing this at your age. You have years and years to do the things your doing and I don't want you to get too involved, too young, you know what I mean?" Hopefully, she'll have something to say to that and take it from there! Good luck!
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mzbrighteyes answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 10:01 pm: First of all, you should have snatched her up when you first saw her(if you didn't). Second you should tell her about all the disease that are out for sucking penis, and just for being sexually active period. Third, I would tell my mom that she needs to watch her and why does she have a bf at 10, that you all know about. It's a shame please talk to her because I don't want her to grow up doing that because it's nasty. I hope I helped a little. [ mzbrighteyes's advice column | Ask mzbrighteyes A Question ]
truadvice answered Monday October 10 2005, 10:52 pm: we because your sisters TEN and shouldn't even be intrested in boys or kissing i say just go to the parents , that behaver at such a young age will lead to her getting pregnate and doing drugs and very thing you don't want her to be in to [ truadvice's advice column | Ask truadvice A Question ]
xiil0vey0oux answered Monday October 10 2005, 9:51 pm: Wow, that is super tense. Okay, tell her how much you care for her and tell her that she is to young to be doing that kind of things. Tell her when she finds her TRUE love, which wil prolly be near highschool er maybe PAST highschool that she can do it now but you dont want her to be a sex addict at this age. Comfront her in a note if your embarressed to say it to her face. Ok? Sorry if i dont help much.
angelfire2708 answered Monday October 10 2005, 9:10 pm: OMG!! YOU TELL HER! shes only 10 for GODS sake!! Where in the world did she know how to do that??? I think some1 needs to be in control here, and its not her! What is a 10 year old doing having a bf? Thats unheard of. If your parents arent goin to be parents in her life, then you need to step in!!! She needs to know that is totally unacceptable behavior, and steer her in the right direction!! She should be playing w/barbie dolls not w/penis'!!!! [ angelfire2708's advice column | Ask angelfire2708 A Question ]
JuiiCy-x-3 answered Monday October 10 2005, 8:52 pm: Holy shit..
Your sister is TEN. Confront her that she is way to young.. That she can get pregnant at an early age.
AND
If she doesn't listen then i would tell your parents. Cuz that's just seriouse..
DanicinTiLDawN answered Monday October 10 2005, 8:26 pm: omg look this is goona go really bad if you dont stopit now!!! plz tell yourmom ifyou dont shes gonna growup keep doing it and be a sex addict like you said so plz prevent itnow, comeon shes only 10. [ DanicinTiLDawN's advice column | Ask DanicinTiLDawN A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Monday October 10 2005, 8:10 pm: Woah shit. When I was ten I had no idea what a blow job was. Crap what have kids gotten themselves into today?
So your sister isn't a whore when she grows up tell your parents. I don't care how much your sister will hate you it's for her own good. Since they probably haven't hit puberty yet they she probably won't have a baby if they did more; however, it is still possible to get STDs. Tell her you know first and that you are telling your parents. I don't care if she never talks to you again you need to do this. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
Vendetta answered Monday October 10 2005, 7:54 pm: Talk to your parents about it. They'd know what to do. If they aren't the very responsible type, talk to your sister. Tell her about the concequences. And show her pictures of STDs. [ Vendetta's advice column | Ask Vendetta A Question ]
ambercrombie97 answered Monday October 10 2005, 6:56 pm: I first and foremost would go to your parents, she is 10. They need to be aware of what she is doing and they need to stop it. I would also confront her and let her know what you seen and see who taught her this and what not. [ ambercrombie97's advice column | Ask ambercrombie97 A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Monday October 10 2005, 6:52 pm: TEN?!?! (falls out of chair) wow. tell her the risks and that its not good for her! i would have your mom give her "the talk" because 10 is completely out of the question. please do something...or you'll have a 12 year old pregnant sister. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
dorinflower55 answered Monday October 10 2005, 6:47 pm: Are you serious! she's 10!!!
tell her that she is way too young and that it's bad and tell her all the diseases and and stuff she can get from it...
hope i helped
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