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Okaii I have decided to start this adive thinq I am 19 years old currently out of school not planninq on qoinq to colleqe or anythinq but I also love to chat online to my friends and always am in need of helpinq someone with problems so I fiqured this would be a qood opportunity for me to do that!

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here is an easy five if u can tell me how to download music and where to get the music from for my mp3 player.i want free music and i just got my mp3 player today so im new to this.
thanks!

well mmk..try things like this WINMX its normally free but if it doesnt work then try limewire or bearshare hope i helped~

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2 questions...17/f...ok
1) List some pregnancy signs i know everyones different and not all the signs happen to everyone but please list them so i know what they are??
2) OK i know you can get an abortion without telling your parents by going through court..so can if you have ever had one or no someone who has done it this way..please let me know how i can do this?
thanks xoxo
FHOHIL

im sorry but having sex and getting pregnant then going and killing an innocent kid thats just wrong im sorry but I hope you know what you doing!

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I have a friend that had a child 1 year ago, and she is recently haveing unpretected sex for the past 2 weeks. She said that milk is comeing out of her breast and she is geting morning sickness. Me being a mother, that was my frist sign for me that i was pregnet. Someone told me that it it normal for mothers that after a year of haveing your child for milk to come out your breast. We also took a pregnacey test, and it said that she was not pregnet, but we were thinking that maybe it is to soon to tell.
What do you think??? thanks for the help.she is 17 yrs old by the way.

well for one you need to either talk to your friend or have someone else thats an adult talk to her becuase she is way to young to be a mom (even though she is already one) I truly dont think she is ready and would be able to handle another child with this one being so young and your best bet is to truly go to the doctor and tell them and then let them do the exam etc..so you know for sure and also try to tell her that by using condoms they are a big help and trojan is now making stuff for girls so it may be good for her..I understand people say sex is good without using condoms but think of the risks either stds and not being able to have kids or having them too young and struggling to take care of them because your mom doesnt wanna help you gotta read stuff and sit down and think before your actions hope I helped
Danielle!

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I don't know if I have overactive bladder or not. I go to the bathroom once in the morning, 2-3 times at school, and maybe 3 times after school. Sometimes I get a little bit of pee in my underwear, or I leak when I can't use the bathroom right away. At first I just thought it was discharge (I've had my period for almost three years) but I get it a lot now. I don't know what's wrong with me... any answers please? Oh yeah, please don't say to ask my doctor (because I will), just give me an opinion on what you think.
I rate five for decent answers!

hello, look do you drink alot like always thirsty? eat alot? feel like sleeping all the time? well because if you do there is a chance you could be a diabetic..the sound of that may freak you out..but its a possibility so if you need to talk to me more about this just IM me on aim Becausze o0f you i'll talk to you..if its nothing of the sort than you just need to ask your mom about getting medicine for it..hope I helped.

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I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this?

Look for you safety it's best that you talk to your mom about it because she is 10 and thats way to young to be doing anything of the sort she could end up pregnant by the age of 13 or even get an std...its for your good and hers so please talk to your mom,
hope I helped

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So ok i had sex um like two weeks ago....Down there is kinda like all red and it looks like someone like burnt the first layer of my skin off. See after i had sex it got real ichy(i thought maybe he cut me with his finger nails down there does that make you ichy?) But today after my shower i seen that there was like a lump but its like a pimp but its not one its just a blister looking type thing. I herd from people he had STD's and he does fuck and isnt safe...Are thease signs of a STD?

Look, hun! just go tell your mom and everything tell her your worried and need checked and I just hope it isnt an std..and that all the dumb ass losers and bitches who are so mean in this site get taught a lesson the next time they do anything its not right for them to want you to get an std..they are so horrible..and its tuff explaining it to someone that wants to sleep with you..etc..but I hope I helped.

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this is so bad. this is so so bad! i had sex with this guy who is 20. im 13. dont think im a bad person please! but anyway, a lot of things "werent right" so i bought a pregnancy test and it came out posative. im in my 2nd trimester right now. im so scared i cant even deal with it. every day i cry and cry! my parents dont know what to make of me! i didnt tell the guy! what do i do? im so scared! i dont want to give her (yea its a girl) up for adoption because ive wanted kids since i was like 6! this is horrible. i could DIE in childbirth because im so young. what do i do? any tips? ANYTHING! im so mofo SCARED!!

anything helps

no smartass answers

bye

Alright, Hun...okay yes 13 is a young age to have kids to even be sleeping with someone but if your parent's know then tell them since the guy you slept with is 20 and its truley considered rap you would like to press charges so he will have to pay support because you really wanna keep your child even thought its going to be hard with school you don't wana have your child wondering what his/her mother looks like and who she is..just tell your mom how much you will take care of it and love it even if you have to get a babysister or homeschooled you would give anything in this world to keep it (if you truly do wanna keep it) hope I helped you..

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hello, i am 15, and i want to start wearing tampons, but my mom doesnt really want me too. then again, i`m also very scared to do them cus i`m scared it will like get stuck or something, and i`m scared of TSS ?? any help? thanks alot!

Hello, well listen hun Im 19 and I don't wear them I never have worn them before the only problem is if you dont wear them you cant go swimming but if you really think your ready to give them a try just be like mom I have thought this over and I would really like to try wearing tampons and see how I like them I know what can happen if you wear them Im aware of all that but please at least let me give them a try to know if I will like them and If I decide I dont like them for now I wont wear them, I hope I helped your greatly.

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Okay. So my friend was going out with a girl. He really likes her. A whoooole lot. Both of their parents won't let them see eachother anymore becasue they think his x gf needs to get herself together before she can see anyone. My friend has really been into the wrong stuff, like drugs, pills, smoking, all that, and he finally has done community service and is done with it. He told me he was clean. But I just asked him and all of the sudden he told me everything and said he's not and he needs help and he dosn't know what to do and he needs some one to help him because he can't deal with it on his own, because usually he just takes pills or something. He asked me for advice, and he dosn't want to go back to pills and stuff but he's scared he will and he really is having a hard time and needs help. I don't know what to tell him. Pleeease help me, He needs advice and he asked me because I'm not in to that stuff and I want to get him off it. What do I tell him?

I may not be an expert but just look yp some stuff on some classes around where you live then tell him what time they are when to be their you can qo and make sure he qoes..but dont let him keep up if so then talk to someone an adult they can help also. hope it helps!

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14/f... just wondering if 34B is small for my age. Please help - I'm really worried!!!

Look no!, thats normal I am a 34b also 19 but my mom bought me 36b braw and it fits better than the 34b did for some reason the 34b seemed biq on me but my sister is way bigger than me and you gotta understand you will grow even when you are old enough to have kids they will grow and then you will look back and probably wish to be the size you used to be but if your lookin to make them look big try padded braws and if you wear tight shirts that might also help, well I hope I helped you out and everything.

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I want to be something for halloween that NO one here can ever think of. I am 13/f and I want to kinda stand out from the rest of the cround. Like I want to dress up as someone for EX the Dukes of Hazzard. i am too fat to be Daisy. So What? I know its early but just wanted some ideas! Thanks!

I was with my sister looking in the mall because our school is having a haunted homecoming and she was looking for what her and her date could be well I found alot of neet ideas that really make people laugh and crack them up but you and a friend could go as something like a socket and a plug, Ketchup and mustard, then if you want ideas for urself only you have options like Cocktail waitress, French Maid, Storybook characters, and I saw this one its a stand that you wear and then it has draw knobs and then you glue somethings on the stand that wont brwak or if you lose them its okay and then you put a lamp shade over your head and its called the one night stand, you can also do gangstas, there is tons of things if you ever go to the mall check at spencers they normally have some of these costums and if your not allowed in that store im sorry I just hope I could be of help let me know what you decide to be okay thanks.

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hey .. i am 15 years old and I started my perious last February. And I had it normally like every month and everything until June. I havent had it since June. BUt my friend said its nothing to worry about cus she is the same way and they went to the doctors and he said no big deal. But do you know anything about this?

Hello, yes its really normal for someone to do that but I would truly insist you tell you mom and let her know that way you can have it checked out cause it may be something serious or then again it may be nothing at all but if your emabarrased to tell her wait until its you to and just be like mom I need to tell you something about my period i havent had it since (the day it stopped) and I was afraid to ask you so I asked a couple friends and they told me its all normal is this true or do you think we need to get it checked out?..I hope I was a big help and you can always let me know the turn out.

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i am 14 years old and i have a boyfriend. we have been going out for over 3 months now and we have hooked up many of times and he wants to go down my pants. i want him to aswell but i am scared, because i am not sure whether i should have hair down there or just to shave or get it waxed. please help me i am confussed!?

Hello, nothing to worry about but you are supposed to have hair down their for many reasons but you can take your razor and shave it all off or some of it or have it waxed if your good at it put your boyfriends name or initials in it...to drive him wild even though your still a little too young to be having (sex) or anything like that but just remember be safe and use a condom.

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hey i am 14 years old and my boyfrend wants to finger me. i want him to and i'm not scared about that but i just dont no what to do or anything i need serious help... lol and i am not to sure what happens when he does it either!?

Well listen if you are going to let him finger you he needs to make sure his fingernails are not long because your insides are very easy to cut and he can cut you with his fingernail and cause you to bleed which you just have to let it heel if he would happen to but other than that all that happens is he will stick is finqer into your vagiana and sometimes do and in and out thing like he is fucking you with his dick but its his finger some guys do it differently and to really make him go nuts try and layer up your underwear like if you where thongs the put layers of youe actual underwear ontop then the thong can be the last thing if not just layer your original underwear and yeah if you haven't had sex before theres a chance he could pop your cherry and make you bleed so dont worry I hope I really helped.

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I like this guy whos 7 years older than me. He likes me too but said the age bothers him. But when we are at parties we end up having sex or doing something sexual. I really really like him shold I just be friends with benefits for now then when im older think about going out with him or what?

Hey look!, I know exactly where you are coming from on this question because I am 19 and my boyfriend is 26 but we used to talk online and stuff went out did things (just hung out) so when my ex boyfriend ended it with me I asked him out we started dating and my mom didnt approve over the age thing she always told me that i was gonna break up with him and not date him anymore it hurt me so bad he called me and asked me what was wrong and was gonna say nothing but the bursted out crying to him telling and he said no one would break us apart but we just kept talking and dating eventually it all went passed and he stays with me whenver he isnt working and I sometimes stay with him we been together now for 1 year 1 month and so forth but enough on me and my advice to you is if you like him talk to him about it and tell him the way you feel for him and that maybe you should try going out to see if it would work out even with the age thing and all and if you both agree that its not working out be friends with him but if you want to be friends with benifits go ahead but you got to realize that if for any reason something happen and he gets mad he can turn you in for many things just be safe and careful hope this helped..and yes people will be like omg your with a 7 year older person than you and think its crazy onces it done and said they will all get used to it like with me.

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Whats duche bag...sorry ihave no clue how to spell it

Hey I do believe it's called Douche and it's something that Women use to clean out their area down their (private part) you more or less can read about it by going to www.google.com and reading about it just type in Douche (it may be spelled without the E) and it will bring you up a list of information on it...if you are looking into doing it it's prefectly normal I hope I helped alot.

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hey my friend is 15 years old and she is having a baby what should i do to help and what should she do

Hello, well what you can do is if she is willing to have this baby and give it full resposiblity as a parent then help her through all of this no matter what people will say to her they make call her slut or whore but you gotta help her to keep her head up high and remind her that she is going to have a new part to her life that she can teach everything and yes at 15 I think its way to young to have a baby but things come unexpectidly sometimes and if you want you can also help her to pick out everything she will need help set up the room with the baby if she is willing to keep it you just gotta be there for her no matter what the choice is okay and you can always keep me posted on what happens im here..

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ok im 16. i have been w/ my b/f for bout a year n a month. and i just found out im pregnant 6 weeks. i love him very much but my family really doesnt aprove of him or want him in my life! now that they know im pregnant they want to stop seein my b/f becuz they think he is not father figure becuz my b/f isnt really that good guy he drug deals and used to be in gang and used drugs but has sober for about 8 and a half months. i dont know what to do help do i stay with his family and him n leave mine his family loves me sooo much they were always there for me. help. i dont know what to do!!!! HELp
het back to me!

Okay hello, look you 16 and now have a big part of your life coming your way and thats a little baby girl or a baby boy and what you really need to do is call your boyfriend and tell him you need to talk to him and talk to him about the baby and how you want him to honestly try to stop doing the things he has been doing like drug deals and everything because you want your or (our) son or daughter to have a wonderful father who will love and help in anyway and not be put in jail and never have him or her knowing who her/his father is and talk to him about the baby see if he is really up to doing all this for the baby (if you wanna keep it) you also need to do is if he agrees to stopping this then you need to go and talk to your parents and tell them that you have sat down and had a long talk with your boyfriend (can say name if you want) and he has agreed to stop doing all the stuff he has been into doing and you both will take full resposibility into this new joy coming into your life I hope that I have helpled you in many ways even though having a baby at 16 is still too young but if your willing to keep it then thats the greatest thing ever then abortion and killing a innocent child good luck in everything keep me updated if you like

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