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a bit scared!
hey i am 14 years old and my boyfrend wants to finger me. i want him to and i'm not scared about that but i just dont no what to do or anything i need serious help... lol and i am not to sure what happens when he does it either!?
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well, since you seem ready. just go for it.
but be careful. make sure you know your limits. one minute he is fingering you and then next you two are having sex. hormones are raging, especially at fourteen. it's a different experience. but if you truly confide and trust your boyfriend then you won't regret it. make sure that you're not going to regret it. and make sure his fingernails are groomed and clipped because that would really hurt. the sensations are different than anything you've experienced. be aware of that. you won't be able to control your body or your feelings. just be careful and make sure that you're ready.
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Okay...you're 14 so I wouldn't suggest going ahead with that...just stick to other stuff for now because you're still growing and I just don't think you'd be fully ready for any kind of vaginal contact right now.
But if you must, it's going to be a different experience. Since you haven't had sex, it could definitely hurt, and most likely will. Also, the sensations are going to be new to you so you may not know how to act. Just remember not to fake pleasure when you aren't feeling pleasure because then he'll never get you to cum. Even if he gets frustrated, let him know that he's the one who wanted to do it and give him pointers when you feel something you like.
That's all I got for you, honey...
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Its understandable to be a bit scared, but after the first time there really isnt anything to worry about. You could bleed some if he pops your cherry, but other than that.. Go for it. I hope everything works out for the best, and make sure that he knows your limits and if you dont like it get him to stop!
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Try it yourself first, find out what you like and don't like, then you can both enjoy it. Otherwise he might just stick his finger in and wiggle it around, which really won't do anything for you.
PS: Your cherry will *not* be popped by something like that.
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Well listen if you are going to let him finger you he needs to make sure his fingernails are not long because your insides are very easy to cut and he can cut you with his fingernail and cause you to bleed which you just have to let it heel if he would happen to but other than that all that happens is he will stick is finqer into your vagiana and sometimes do and in and out thing like he is fucking you with his dick but its his finger some guys do it differently and to really make him go nuts try and layer up your underwear like if you where thongs the put layers of youe actual underwear ontop then the thong can be the last thing if not just layer your original underwear and yeah if you haven't had sex before theres a chance he could pop your cherry and make you bleed so dont worry I hope I really helped.
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