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my best friend
my best friend diana, she weighs 113 pounds and she REFUSES to eat, and i sware. shes 12/f ps shes like 5'6
diana wants to be like me. im 13/f
im really small about 5'0 and i weigh a little over 76 pounds
she wants to loose like 20 pounds and be like me.
i find that disturding because like, it just is!
how can i tell her to stop it off and well yeah!
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ps she always says she is fat and she isnt!
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xOx mel
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Tell her that because she's taller, it evens out. She actually is just like you, but because her body type is different she only thinks she's fatter than you. Keep telling her that nobody can change their bodies, they have to learn to love what they have! And that a lot of girls would give anything to be 113.
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Well, for one thats not fat at all! That's actually pretty skinny, this happened to my friend once. I would say try pulling her aside and talk to her and tell her that you're worried about her and that you love her and you know what can happen if you don't eat and you don't want it to happen to her. Explain to her that she's still growing and she's not fat at all!! Also tell her that maybe she can start eating and play sports or something cuz those get you in good shape ecspecially like soccer where there's a lot of running involved.
*Hope I helped*
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Ok well snce she is 5'6 thats pretty normal. Except she should gain a little weight. You should to. Because a little over 76 personally is a little to little for a 13 year old. You should start eating more foods to make you gain at least into the 90's. And your friend you need to explain to her that shes tallr than you and that shes always going to weigh more because shes taller than you. Height has to do with it. So if she says it doesn't it does. Tell her to stop and eat. Dont become aneroric because that is dangerous. Tell her she needs to eat she is 5'6 and your 5'0 nd she will always weigh more as long as shes taller than you ! hope I helped <3
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Ok, I see where you are coming from with it being disturbing and all. I remember when I was 12, I only weighed in at 65 pounds. It's not that I was anorexic or anything, I just was very short. I think you should confront Diana and tell her that she is kind of scaring you and making you uncomfortable. I knew a lot of girls that say they're fat, but they're not. You need to warn Diana of what not eating can cause, (anorexia or just never feeling well), tell her this is very serious and that she should not be doing this to herself. Also, 113 is not bad at all. She doesn't need to lose 20 pounds or else that could lead to major health issues. Hope I helped. _-Anonymous-_
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well tell her she ways more beacuse she is taller....
and if she does afetr skool stuff or is in good active shape then it could be that she weighs more because muscle weighs way more then fta, trust me im like 5'4 and thought i was fat last year to cuz i weighed more then my friend, but she is shorter, tell her not to stop eating and that if she rele does wanna loose weight tell her to eat better not stop eating...not to worry about the weight itself but how she looks cuz yoiu can bge super thin and still weigh alot..
ta da!
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dorito
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tell her that 113 isnt that much for someone thats 5'6. its pretty normal. tell her tthat if she doesnt stop starving herself, then you cant be friends or something like that. something that shows her that u really mean waht your talking about.
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well tell her that for her height, shes fine. 113 is really good. just because you are obnormally small doesnt mean she should try to starve herself, it doesnt work in the end. starving yourself just makes you fatter. trust me, ive tried it. its painfull. you start to pass out ocassionally, have a constant headache, or your constantly lightheaded, sometimes you throw up or gag. tell her if she wants to lose weight she just needs to work out and eat healthy. good luck convincing her. if she doesnt listen then tell her parents. think of whats best for her, would you rather see her mad at you cause you saved her from getting fatter and possibly from killing herself or see her get fatter in the long run or kill herself? your decision.
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well you can say that since she is taller she weights more.
hope i helped
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113 is better than 76, gain some weight
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well im sry but both of you should gain more wait and at least be 120 being that wait can probably make u sick so tell her its wrong to be like someone else and she should have her own personality hope i helped
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