smiLinLiar7x answered Monday September 19 2005, 7:22 pm: My boyfriend was always like this too .. he even cut =( .. yeah it's really sad .. but i just tried to cheer him up by saying how much you love him and care about him. They like that .. and then tell him how much you love being with him. Just the littlest things can cheer him up. Tell him what songs remind you of him .. lol just little things cheer him up. One thing I told my boyfriend was that if he was sad, then I was sad. And usually your boyfriend wouldn't want you to bed sad, so then he wouldn't be sad =). If you need anything else about these things with your boyfriend, IM me on LiL FrAnKiE 017 on AIM. Alright I hope I helped! Good luck hun!
♥FranKie [ smiLinLiar7x's advice column | Ask smiLinLiar7x A Question ]
BabyButterfly answered Monday September 19 2005, 6:18 pm: if your bayfriend is always sad then you should give him lots of hugs and kisses, small things like that can help and if that doesnt work then you can should spend more time with him let him no you love him.
p.s. i hope everything works out like you want it to
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malibubarbiie111 answered Monday September 19 2005, 5:50 pm: ak him if somethings wrong. if he says nothing. he prolly thinks you don`t want to listen. or he thinks its girly to sit there && tell girls about their feelings. so they keep it bottled up in them. let him talk it out. make him some cookies. spend some extra time. with just you && him. show him you care. just be there. [ malibubarbiie111's advice column | Ask malibubarbiie111 A Question ]
sbloemeke answered Monday September 19 2005, 5:21 pm: Hello! If you want to cheer him up, usually the best way is to confort him with the issues he already has. Let him know that you are there for him if he needs you, and any time he needs you.
However, most people who are like this constantly are beyond your aid. There is a disorder called Major Depressive Disorder, which I think I cans ay your boyfriend probably has. They cannot handle most problems, and it leads them to believe that their lives are terrible. Usually, you want to take these people to a psychologist. I'd advise it.
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soccergurlie1220 answered Monday September 19 2005, 4:24 pm: Well i've found that the one thing that makes guys happy is sex or naked girls or just girls. So you could do that or fulfill a pantsy of his. Or you could send him lil love letters that let him know you love him. Or find out why he's depressed if it's cause of school try to help wiht school. Mybe he just needs some one to talk to. HOPE I HELPED! [ soccergurlie1220's advice column | Ask soccergurlie1220 A Question ]
KaTiE_LyNn answered Monday September 19 2005, 4:18 pm: you can't bring him out of depression. you shouldn't even try. just don't bring it up because most likely he doesn't want help. he's a guy and they're all like that. my advice, let him know how much you care every day. make sure he knows he can talk to you about it. :) [ KaTiE_LyNn's advice column | Ask KaTiE_LyNn A Question ]
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