Member Since: October 17, 2004
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Last Update: September 19, 2005
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I just started a HUGE public middle school and have no idea how to make friends on my own. I have seven or eight that my friend introduced to me, but I kind of want to see who I can find with the same interests. I know that I can join clubs and everything, but I'm really shy and don't know how to start conversations without looking weird. Help me please! (link)
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ok well let me try and help you if you really want to make new friends you might have to get over that being shy thing because if you dont then it will make everything harder for you so if i were you then i would try talking to more people that are in my classes and see if they have any of the same interests as me but if they dont its really not that hard you can still be friends. but if your not over the hole shy thing then try sitting with some the friends friends and try to get in on the conversation if you no what i mean.
p.s. if you need anymore help feel free to ask anytime.
*A$hl3y*
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I'm getting advice for my friend.. Ok, well my friend is going out with this great guy, adn when she told her mom that he liked her.. She ssaid taht she should only be friends with him.. How can she tell her mom they are going out without hurting her feelings??? (link)
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well if i were her then i would talk to my mom about why she thinks that we should only be friends and once she finds out why her mom feels like that then she will no how to tell her mom but tell her to try not to be rude with her mom becuase that always makes things harder.
p.s. tell me how things work out
*A$HL3Y*
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Before I start I'm a sixteen year old girl.
Well I have my first boyfriend now but that's not what this is about. Well you see my friend is feeling left out because both me and our other friend now have boyfriends and she doesn't. She has liked this same boy for three years now but nothing is happening between them. He hardly even looks at her anymore. She doesn't want to give up on him because she knows she won't like any other guy. I keep telling her to go up and talk to him but she is the shy "wait for him to come to me" kind of girl. I feel bad for her but I don't want to break up with my boyfirned just because she is feeling left out. She has met and gets along really well with both my boyfriend and our other friend's boyfriend but she never wants to go anywhere with any of us. I would never put my boyfriend above my friends and my boyfriend understands that. We ask her to come to football games or movies with us all the time but she thinks she'd be getting in the way. What should I do? (link)
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maybe you should have a girls night out were its just the girls so she wont feel so left out and if she really likes that guy maybe you can start being friends with him that way when you see him at the mall or something you can go and talk to him with her and then she can start feeling less left out.
p.s. i hope everything goes the way you want it to.
*A$hl3y*
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My boyfriend always seems so sad and depressed.. What are some things I could do to cheer him up? Like little or big things, doesn't matter. (link)
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if your bayfriend is always sad then you should give him lots of hugs and kisses, small things like that can help and if that doesnt work then you can should spend more time with him let him no you love him.
p.s. i hope everything works out like you want it to
*A$hl3y*
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like a couple weeks ago i thought a lot of girls were hot and i liked 2 poeple but now i dont and i dont relly think those people r hot either and i look for somebody u no like my friends that i thought was got but i dont now i mean i like girl of coures but i just cant find anybody speacil (link)
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well, im a girl and I know how you feel i cant find someone who i really like and i mean really like!, all i cant say is that special someone will come and dont get take things too fast if you know what i mean!.
A$hl3y:p
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ok this may sound stupid! and i have an excuse im blonde!lol...um...what does "gimme sum dap" mean?this guy at skool says it to me all the time n im not sure what it is..plse try to explain it the best you can!..THANX! (link)
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well, what ge is saying is "give me some of that"
like he saying he like you he thinks your pretty.
*a$hl3y*
p.s hope i was of any help with your problem:)
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I got my first kiss wednesday and I want to be able to tell my mom and I want to be able to talk to her about things like that and I don't know what to do. Like what can i do so that my moms and mines relationship is stronger? and so i can tell her and talk to her about things like this. (link)
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well,i cant tell you whAt to do but the best way to tell your mom that you got your first kiss to bring up the subject like "hey mom what was it like when you got your first kiss?" but you shve to do what your think is a good way to tell your mom. your mom and your relation ship is really good im sure but after years go bye you and your moms relationship will grow i say this becuase you need to take things slow and not to fast.
*a$hl3y*
p.s hope i was of any help.:)
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I'm 15 and female and I've never kissed a guy. I go to an all-girls Catholic high school, and I haven't kept up with ANY of my very few guy friends from when I went to co-ed schools.
*reads question, cringes at own stupidity*
So . . . how can I meet new people? I have a lot of really great friends, but it would be nice to meet some new people, and possibly get a boyfriend.
Any ideas? (link)
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well, the first thing is never go to the mall with your guy friends because if a cute guy saw you will all thoughs guys he would think you were a stuck up person that likes to hane out with any guy she sees not that he wouldint like that but that not the reputation you want. but im not saying not to hang out with your guy friends but when you do dont have your eye on other boys. the best way to meet people is by asking if your guy friends have any more friends that u could meet and posbly date if there up to your standers.
*a$hl3y*
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i jus moved to another skool and ive been there for like three weeks and everyone seems nice...but thats not the problem...all of my friends from my old skool seem to always seemed to b pissed at me!!it kinda seems like there happy that i moved! i tryed to talk to them and they all r sayin that ive changed big time scence i moved...i dont think i did!i really want to keep my friends but they seem to not wanna keep me ...HELP!!!
i rate good! (link)
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I know how you feel i once moved and not even far and all my old friends didint want to be my friend anymore but dont be scared to talk to your old friends call them and talk see how there doin and show them you havint change and if they still think your not the person u used to be try talking with them about the problem.
*a$hl3y*
p.s hope everything goes well with your friends
just remember there probly doing this because they think that there loseing you as a friend even though thats not trun best wishes
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I am 47 been married 2 1/2 years and for the first time I have never been so much in love, just recently about 6 months ago it seems like I have to beg for attention from my husband not sexual attention even though that department is not like it used to be but I want the hugging, cuddling, holding hands, kissing just to be close. I just do not what to do anymore, I am tired of trying and crying and the funny thing is 7 months ago I weighed 200 lbs and decided I was going to lose it on my own so I got really motivated and lost 60 lbs. I went from a size 18 to a 6 and I thought things between us both in the bedroom and out would change, I was wrong I jst need some good sound advice. Thank you taking the time to read my question. Bonnie (link)
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well, new things are always fun and exciting and seem like they wouldint have any flaws but that all changes! mabey you should confront him and ask if everything between you two is ok,if he looks like he has no idea what your talking about try telling him how u have been feeling. dont confront him dierectly for a wile till you have your facts strate. give it a little time. if things still don't work out then go to marriage conseling for help (if u feel that it gets that bad).
*a$hl3y*
p.s good luck, just remember that guys can be weird no matter how old they are!:)
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what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them? (link)
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there really isnt a diff between them because both mean that your dating someone. unless, u mean lyk I SEE U! but i don't think thats wut u were going 4. i hope dats the answer u were looking 4!!
*a$hl3y*
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Im not sure, but i think im starting 2 over eat. I get hungry every 2 hours, eacht ime eating a full meal. I can tell my stomach is gettin fatter jus by the way my clothes r fitting. I also cant stop drinkin soda. I crave it when i cant have it even though i try and fight it. Ive never been overweight. Last time i was weighed which was about a month ago, i was about 110 and im jus barely 5'2" and 13. Do any of you know a way that i can stop eatin so much and tone up my stomach again??? Any help is appreciated!!! (link)
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well, i think that you shud try eating more healthy foods so dat wen u eat, although you may eat a lot at a meal, you aren't eating fatty thins. Try and not eat until ur full...this will change ur eating habits slowly. If u do get hungru during da day try having a small snack instead of a meal. Switch to diet soda also. See a nutritionist or a doctor about ur eating habits, they'll help a lot.(eat strawberries!! they're rilli good :P) well i hope u get bak on track w/ ur eating!! :)
*a$hl3y*
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