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i jus moved to another skool and ive been there for like three weeks and everyone seems nice...but thats not the problem...all of my friends from my old skool seem to always seemed to b pissed at me!!it kinda seems like there happy that i moved! i tryed to talk to them and they all r sayin that ive changed big time scence i moved...i dont think i did!i really want to keep my friends but they seem to not wanna keep me ...HELP!!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
People change and most people fear change.
Just concentrate on surrounding yourself with positive people who accept you as a human being. People who will boost your self confidence and self esteem.
Don't worry yourself about your friends at your previous school. Most of your friends won't be around forever any way. Don't let the ruin your happiness or create anxiety in your life because they can't seem to be good friends.
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hey..it seems to me like your old friends arent really your true ones,.if they are treating you like this it's plain pathetic! Hopefully you meet a better group of friends then you had at your new school..if you miss your old friends try talking to them again and ask them why they're acting like that to you ever since you moved away..hope this helps you!
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same thing that happened to me =) ... you've probably changedand didn't even notice, i doubt it that they're happy that you moved, yeah they might me bad but they'll get over it, just try calling them once in a while and hang out with them every now and then... if that doesnt work then just ignore them and make new friends. hope i helped!
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Forget about your old friends. Maybe one day they will miss you and want you back. For now, just be yourself and look for new friends.
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did you move to a different city or did you just transfer sko0ls?
maybe your just spending more time with your new friends and forgettin about your old ones. or mybe by just hanging around ur new friends u are changing the way you act. you didnt really give us too much information so its kinda hard to say but all i can tell you is to be your self cuz if ur new friends where really ur friends then they would like you for you. theres no need in changing yourself(as your friends have sed) and just make time for your old friends.
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hi, well listen when ppl move...they start a new life...new everything...you'll have ur old friends...but it wont b the same trust me even though you want to...just try to make as much new freinds as possible and pay more attention to ur new friends...to the ones ur gonna spend time with then the old ones...i'm not sayin forget the old ones ...but dont worry bout wut they say so much...b/c with time you'll see that nothing will bring you guys together b/c you guys wont know eachother like you use to...you wont kno everything thats going on like you use to ...so just spend time with your new friends and have fun...and live life to the fullest...dont worry to much bout what ppl say ;) xoxo effy
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hey hun! well i'm thinking there probably just jealous/frusturated... they probably just miss u and think ur gonna replace all of them with friends from ur new school! so my advice 2 u is... make sure u keep those old friends... all girls can get super jealous and they probably just think that ur gonna start ignoring them... dont let that happen! and i think every1 chages somewhat when they move... because everywhere is different and they all talk about diff. things so maybe there just not used 2 hearing about the things u r now... so call them up and invite them over 4 an girls only slumber party. let them know that u care and they will never be replaced!
xOxO, aLeX
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well if there pissed at u then there proabaly stupid and r'nt ur friend!!!!!!!!!!!1 :P
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I know how you feel i once moved and not even far and all my old friends didint want to be my friend anymore but dont be scared to talk to your old friends call them and talk see how there doin and show them you havint change and if they still think your not the person u used to be try talking with them about the problem.
*a$hl3y*
p.s hope everything goes well with your friends
just remember there probly doing this because they think that there loseing you as a friend even though thats not trun best wishes
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It seems like your old friends are just adjusting to you being gone. They are telling you things changed just to make you sort of...wonder. When I switched schools everyone said things are a lot better now and everyone feels nicer about being there...which really isn't true. Either your old friends are either having problems adjusting to you being gone,or they really aren't friends at all. If you really want to know-ask them how and why do they think that things have "supposively" changed. -Tiffany
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i think that its ur friends problem if they don't wanna hang out wit u only cuz u moved. if they think that sumthin as trivial as moving iz cause to be mean then maybe they weren't such good friends after all. or maybe (i always hav 2 give another side lol) they trying 2 put u out ov their mind cuz they r upset that ur gone. maybe its just their way of copeing. well, in my opinion, they're yesterday's news. concentrate on ur new skool and makin new friends who treat u rite!
)}i{( stefy
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Sometimes, people will feel threatened when someone they see as a peer moving on to bigger and better things.
Try asking them why they think you've changed. Talk about it. Try not to be too defensive, because people really feed on that. If you don't think they're being fair, say so. Because, to me anyway, they aren't being fair to you.
Stand your ground and keep your head high. If they don't want to let up or if they really think you've changed so much, maybe you guys just don't need to be friends anymore.
♥ Lorelei
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