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MY NAME iS TiFFANY . . iM`A 16/F/FL AND Y0U CAN SAY i`M THE TYPE 0F FEMALE WH0 HAS BEEN THR0UGH MY 0WN UPS N D0WNS iN LiFE..ESPECiALLY WHEN iT CAME T0 RELATiONSHiPS. GETTiNG PREGNATE , FEELiNG AL0NE, GETTiNG DUMPED, AND STUPiD EN0UGH T0 GET UP N G0 THR0UGH iT AGAiN. i WANT T0 HELP 0THER PE0PLE AV0iD MAKiNG THE SAME MiSTAKES i HAVE. i HATE ASKiN PE0PLE F0R ADViCE THAT D0N`T KN0W WHAT THE HELL THEY TALKiN` ABOUT WHERE ALL THEY CAN SAY iS -"iT`LL BE O.K. KEEP YOU`RE HEAD UP.." THAT`S N0T ADViCE. Y0U CAN C0UNT 0N ME T0 TELL YA ASS STRAiGHT UP WHAT T0 D0 THAT WiLL B BEST! HiT ME UP!
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me and my girlfriend have been goin out for about 5 days now and shes so nervous to go on a date i guess...and i dont see why...and i call her and call her and she makes up exuses of not talkin to me...i dont get it...and she asked her friend to come with her...and her friend says that shes just nervous because she likes me alot...is it true (link)
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WELL i THiNK iT`S BECAUSE SHE D0ESN`T WANT THiNGS T0 M0VE T0O FAST. THE 0NLY REAS0N i MAKE MY FRiENDS G0 WiT ME iS T0 KEEP ME FR0M D0iN THiNGS i`D PROBABLY D0 iF SHE WASN`T THERE. SHE M0ST LiKELY D0ES LIKE Y0U A LOT T0O BUT SHE`S PR0BABLY JUST SCARED WHAT MiTE HAPPEN . .
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hey i have this friend julie.. and well we have been friends ever sence 6th grade and shes white.. and shes kind of racists.. and well like im dominican.. and i kinda feel unfomfertable.. when like she gets all redneck and says things like look at that beaner(mexicans).. and like about floater(cubans) or puerto freakin rican ( puertorican) and like i dont no.. shes been gettin on my nerves t0o and like well i dont think i want to be friends with her..but then again i do.. because we have been friends f0r so long.. but i just cant stand the fact that she has a racists comment for everything and i dont like that .. so what should i do...
- Allie (link)
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hey girl s0rry it took me SO FREAKIN LONG TO REPLY!!! but im always here to help..well i seriously think you need to talk to her. No matter how weird it would feel talking to her like that. Obviously she doesn't MEAN to offend you since she's friends with you. She probably doesn't even know she's doing it!!! She won't know how you feel if you dont tell her..well girl i hope i helped! mwah! good luck!!!
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what do u do when your friend is about to date a guy whos a complete asshole and that ALL of her friends hate? please help soon! (link)
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nOt really anything..its her decision...Even if yOu hate him, if she likes him thats her- yOu shOuldn't put anythinq between that...even if he will hurt her for a fact...all y0u can do is warn her =) good luck!
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Ok i am really attcracted to this one girl it's just plane crazy. But she already has a bf on her hockey team that goes to a different school. Wat should i do???? i rate 5 (link)
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There`sz not a lot you can do..since she has a b0yfriend....y0u culd talk to her and tell her y0ur feelinqs and maybe she'll respond in a good way torwards them =) teLL her the truth and that y0u don't want to ruin her relationship w/ her b0yfriend (even if you d0) but y0u really care about her..i hope i helped =) good luck!
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i used to live in florida but then my dad got transfered to pennsylvania.i had tons of friends at my old school but i dont fit in at my new school.i sit with the popular people and i thought they were my friends but then i found out they have been going to the movies and stuff.they just dont call me to hang out they call everyone but me!what the hell?they treat me like a friend at school so why not include me?for valentines day they all wore these really cute pink shirts that are matching. and im the only one at their table who didnt hav the matching shirt.then they were talking about stuff that happened at the mall. i just sat there like how can you be so mean when im sitting right here.
what should i do?????????
should i talk to them about?
should i sit with a different group at lunch??
please help i rate high just for answering! (link)
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They pr0bably d0n't even know that they are treatinq you that wr0ng. yOu shOuld fill them in...in a p0lite way..like when my friendsz do that...i say like in a sarcastic way "okay bitches DONT include me!" but they kn0w i`m playin and say sorry and they d0n't forget next time..yOu should talk to them ab0ut it hun =) and i`m sorry they treat y0u like that..i kn0w how it feelsz..but it w0n't always be that way if y0u just tell them!
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13/f -- I am really scared because recentyl i was dared by my friends to go to porn websites on my compter ..But i deleted my history right after -- then i read something about people going to jail and i was wondering can you go to jail for looking at internet porn? I promise myself i will never do it again and i know it was really wrong but i dont want to go to jail!! And im crying im so scared ..what do i do? (link)
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girl...don't cry...first of all y0u can't go to jail it's your free right to go on any websites you want to...who's gonna find out? and if someone does-which will probably be your parents deny it sweety. Umm..you are one of those paranoid people aren't you? lol-don't stress it!!!
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I'm 14/f and i NEED MONEY. what jobs can i get?? (link)
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well..local grocery shopsz w0uld be a good started-since n0t many places will hire 14 year olds...or maybe babysitting..i do that-i make 30 bucks a night!! If not-then try the dollar store..lol.. you can actually make some good money up there and most likely your application will go thr0ugh good luck =)
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Ok, So last night (Saturday night) I met this girl (17 bout 4 months younger than me) and we talked, kissed, etc, Then she left and I got her phone number. Well, It's Valentines Day Tonight at midnight, and I was wondering if it would be too soon to ring her at midnight to wish her a happy Valentine? Or should I wait until morning? Any advice within the next 2 hours would be much appreciated! Btw I am 17/m
~Evilenterprisesinc (link)
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I dunno..i think y0u should wait!! sHe m0st likely w0uld be sleeping *on acc0unt of school* and plus-it'd be kinda freaky if he kn0ws you waited half the night just s0 y0u could call and say that! but it is sweet d0n't get me wr0nq but i think if you wait it`ll be m0re enjoyable =)
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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you? (link)
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There are different strokes for different f0lks!! y0u never can tell because all guys are different..
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I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
Thanks, I rate. (link)
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I wouldn't go Out with him...yOu`ll fall m0re and m0re in love and develop irriplaceabLe feelinqs..then, when you have t0 leave all of it will be sacrificed. See, if he wa q0inq with y0u it'd be a different st0ry...good luck =)
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i was going out with this guy john secretly (i broke up with him though) b/c my friend alexia said taht if i went out with him then she would turn everybody against me. i didn't think that was fair so i went out with him secretly. but she found out and so did the whole school. i denied it but john didn't. everyone beleved me. but then my friend set me up and alexia was on the line listening. now she is REALLY PISSED at me. she is hella mad and might drop me as a friend and turn the whole school against me. she even said she was thinkn about it. i dont know what to do b/c SHE WILL turn everyone against me. she's already done it to some people. i just really dont know what to do. im not blaming anyone but myself. Please what should i do??!! (link)
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You need to have a erioud talk with this girl. sHe must b the popular type if she know EVERYONE to turn against y0u. But understand, n0t everyone is going to go against yOu a a friend juszt because she wants them to. I don't think yOu would want that kind of girl as a friend thOugh, One that can c0ntrol what y0u do by blackmailinq yOu...d0n't blame yourself blame her f0r being such a b*tch!
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Well my two best friends of all time are going to one highschool and we are all supposed to go to the same one. Then my mom changed her mind and is making me go o another one!!! I REALLY wanna be w/ my best friends and I dont have ne other friends going to the other highschool help!!!! (link)
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It's gonna suck a lot if you go to a diff. high school then your friends in which you all have been committed to being together. This happened to me, I still keep in contact with my friends but it' not the same. You could try convincing your mom,even though she might not like the idea of you going to high school just for your friends. Explain that if you have your friends, you won't have to spend you study time searching for new ones. lol...i tried that-it really depends on how your mom is. good luck though and i hope you all end up together! =)
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If you're an advicenators columnist then maybe you've see this question. It was about this girl who is 2-1/2 months pregnant with this guys baby and she claims to want him alot. I wrote to this person that no guy is worth it no matter what his excuses are. (this is assuming the girl is still in high school you understand) I gave her information on where to get more help and advice, including a website and phone number. Was that the right thing to do?? I'm really lost and unsure. (link)
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okay for u immature people with immature anwers-you probably dont even know 1/2 of what that girl is going through. I think you did the right thing sweety..giving her advice. Not itting there and telling her she's stupid like that other dumbass. You're right and i think u did the right thing =)
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Hi does anybody know where a 14 year old boy can find a part-time job that isn't a paper round? Cos i really need the money.
I rate 5 for anybody who tries to answer (link)
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a l0t of my friendsz work at local grocery st0res. It might not be the greatest place but, It's a good place afTer schOol since a lot of places won't hire 14 year olDs. If you need the money really bad...try yard wOrk..may sound sweaty and stupid but actUally yOu can make good pr0fit off of it!! i hope i helPed hun =)
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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend (link)
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I think you're just concerned. If yOu drive over there i think it's sweet of you and nice that yOu care and want to know if your friend's okay!!! qo fOr it! you won't be nosy =) plz rate!
p.s. i h0pe ur friend is ok!
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I auditioned for drama and I am only a townsperson. I was so confident cause all mi friends were like "you will get the best part". Were they lying to make me feel better? (link)
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Your friendsz were being real nice enc0uraging you. Don't blame you not making the "big part" On yOu or friendsz...because I don't think they were lying..they prObably had faith in y0u and were tellinq you that t0 make you believe in yourself. Some friends will lie to make you feel better, I do that all the time...but it's for qood intentions..i`m sorry you didnt make the part =( but better luck next time!
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ok theres this one guy at school that i sorta like but i really never se him out of school and he really doesnt liek me like that.
but then theres this other guy hes a grade lower than me and i hang out with him all the time and im starting to like him. should i stop like the guy i go to school with or what? i dont know?! (link)
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y0u don`t have to stOp liking someone to start likinq someone else..yOu can still have feelinqsz f0r the guy in your schOol..even if he doesn't feel the same way ab0ut you..a lot of girls like guys that don`t like them...wh0 knows? after a while...the wait miqht be w0rth it..meanwhiLe the lower grade quy can have a chance with you..even th0ugh he miqht be a little immature. I only date guysz in lower gradesz if they failed *they aRe stupid...but old en0ugh n mature* If he really fits your standards though, go f0r it!!! =) rate me!
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but last night i was messing around with my friend's bf. he's my friend too, and it wasn't anything sexual, it was just dancing kinda kinky...and these wierd stalker friends of hers told her (the girl with the bf) and i dont know if shes mad at me or not...i asked her, and she said she wasnt...but how can i know for sure? was what i did wrong? (link)
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Hmm..beinq with her b0yfriend kinda isz a minus for you on the friendship scale. But if he's your friend she can't do anything about it. Well... I think you should ask her,but with more detail and stuff. Like- "I know you know about me hanging out with your boyfriend that night..but i can promise you nothing happened...if you dont believe me I understand, and you have a right to be kinda mad that I was with him..I just hope you know the facts!" ...you'll never know FOR SURE unless she's the truthful type of person..hope i helpd
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what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do? (link)
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i`m in that same position!! wow! Like..the guy that got me pregnate is very very popular and a cutie that everyone likes...he's on the football team...he has a nice body..and now that he's with me a LOT of girls hate me for that!!! It;s really simple you see, don't let it bother you. Let them say what they have to say and try not to let it hurt you. Even if everytime you try to be in upperklassmen places girls stare at you like -"eck thats HER!" but if he wnats to *or has to in my case* be with you then that's not your fault now is it!?
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Hey (srry if this is long) Im a 15/m and i have a close friend that is a gurl that i have known since the 6th grade. She can talk to me about anything and i can do the same. We have grown apart since we now go to different schools because were in high school now. She has had her heart broken many times by a few boys. She is with a guy and is preganate by another guy and says she loves both. I have liked her pretty much since the 7th grade but havent ever told her because she is always with sombody else and i dont want to ruin our friendship that we have right now. Now that she is having a kid i feel that its too late for us. Should i tell her i like her or what should i do...Plz respond soon. (link)
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hey hun..sorry i havent been updated *woopsz* lol WhOa!! i`m like in the same predicament..ya kno what im sayin? im pregnate and i feel like a lot of relationships i've wanted to happen won't...it's not to late!! whoever this girl is probly is searching for a guy that will love her..n u sound like a best friend =) those r usually like-the best relationships 2 have!! well, good luck n i hope diz girl aint as stupid as i am..:-/...byebye!!
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