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PLEASE HELP ME. PLEASE!!
i was going out with this guy john secretly (i broke up with him though) b/c my friend alexia said taht if i went out with him then she would turn everybody against me. i didn't think that was fair so i went out with him secretly. but she found out and so did the whole school. i denied it but john didn't. everyone beleved me. but then my friend set me up and alexia was on the line listening. now she is REALLY PISSED at me. she is hella mad and might drop me as a friend and turn the whole school against me. she even said she was thinkn about it. i dont know what to do b/c SHE WILL turn everyone against me. she's already done it to some people. i just really dont know what to do. im not blaming anyone but myself. Please what should i do??!!
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Apparently, Alexia is NOT your friend. Forget about her, and you shouldn't have broken up with your guy just because some chick will get pissed at you, she's just jealous. Don't blame yourself on this! Just know who your true friends really are. And if everyone believes this Alexia loser, then they have a hek of a ride to get on. She's a low-life, sceming, prick. And you can tell her I said so, lol. If you really like John, then go back out with him. If YOU like him, then that's all that really even matters.
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Once she threatened to turn the whole school against you the first time is when you should've realized that she wasn't a real good friend. You should talk to her and tell her that if you she was really mature then she would forgive you for what you done, and that you've broken up with John. Hopefully she'll forget about the whole situation.
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don't blame yourself, she's just being a jealous bitch, it's obvious that alexia likes this john guy or else she wouldn't make such a big deal out of the whole situation, tell her to fuck off and don't back down, even if she turns the whole school against you (which i doubt that she could turn the WHOLE school against you, i bet you'll still have one or more friends and those are the one's that matter) i really hope i helped you
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i think you should invite your friend over after school one day and have a little talk with her and tell her how you feel about the situation tell her the only reason you did it is because you thoght it was unfair that you couldnt go out with him not to ruin your friendship and also tell her that you are sorry for doing something behind her back and then if she is a good enough friend she will forgive you and stop turning everyone agaginst you
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You shold punch your friend because shes an ass. She cant turn people against you. Shes a jurk and needs a lesson, dont worry bout her, slap her some, fight with her, say you can do whatever you want she cant stop you. Your friend is an ass face.
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Hi Sweetie,
No, DO NOT blame yourself. SHE is just childish. She cannot get her way so she does something against you? Try not to let her get to you. Do not focus on making HER like you but on being a decent person and everyone else will like you no matter what she says. If nobody has a reason to believe something bad about you then they probably won't.
I am sorry I cannot offer much help. I hope it works out for you. Take care! ~Blessed Be...
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If she`s that ignorant about it that she wants to turn an entire school against you (wich i think is highly unlikley) just because your going out with someone she may not like, shes not a true friend at all and has got to be extreamly bored and musnt have a life at all if she were to go through all that trouble to sneak around on your phone conversations and try to turn people against you. She is acting really immature and you should let her know. Personally i think she`s just jealouse. Dont worry about it, it`ll all blow over and she`ll come to the senses of how big of an idiot she was and how stupid and selfish this is all making her look.
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Shes done it to other people too? Thats pathetic! Shes probably just jelous that some people can get bf's and she cant. Dont let her scare you, if she has a problem with you haveing John as your boyfriend then she has to get over it because u like john and he likes you!!! Are you sure that Alexia is realy your friend if shes doign that?Good Luck and you shouldnt care if the school turns against you, your true friends wont go against you and im sure that the whole school wouldnt give a crap about u dateing a guy and they'll think the girl spreading roomers and stuff is an ahole.
~Brina~
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hi,all I can say is that this lil friend of yours isnt really a friend if she wants to turn every body aginst you b/c you went out with john.I would find new friends that wont do those things to you. besides how is she going to turn every body aginst you just b/c you went out with a boy?
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You need to have a erioud talk with this girl. sHe must b the popular type if she know EVERYONE to turn against y0u. But understand, n0t everyone is going to go against yOu a a friend juszt because she wants them to. I don't think yOu would want that kind of girl as a friend thOugh, One that can c0ntrol what y0u do by blackmailinq yOu...d0n't blame yourself blame her f0r being such a b*tch!
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